How to be Salable to Women

by Stephen Nico in Men, May 13, 2008

It is every man’s concern to be attached to the people especially to those who are in the opposite sex. It is indeed a challenge for every man to talk and become close to women.

Seducing a woman needs appropriate technique so that we, men, will be able to succeed in our endeavor which is to have direct relationship with them.

To be able to succeed and surpass barriers, backlogs and defenses, we must have to be conscious in everything we do especially when we are dealing with them. We have to make sure that we will be able to do the first move before other men will be flirting with them.

The very first thing that we have to do is to avoid making tragic mistakes which most men are doing when they first meet women. What I mean is that we have to make sure that everything is alright and well done. Being neat and nice to look at is part of this. It is really important that we will be able to impress women. If they don’t want to shake hands with us, then, we have to respect their decision. We just have to observe how they would drive the conversation but this does not mean that we have to be passive. We have to be responsive and show to them that we are different from the other guys around who are just playing around.

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If possible, we must not ask for their contact information. We have to let them open up and tell us about these things. You just have to drive the conversation until such time that they will tell you the information you want. This is because some girls don’t want guys who are asking lots of questions as if they are reporters. Again, we have to lead the conversation. Maybe we can ask them “Are you leaving in a distant? Are you from here? Or is it okay for you if I somebody will be calling you through the phone?”

The next thing that we must have to bear in mind is rejection. I know most of us are afraid to be rejected. We have to find ways on how to surpass this problem. We can try knowing first the things that interest them. Maybe, we have to ask about their favorite food, pastime, and other things. This will make the conversation alive and interesting for them and that they will not be bored while they are with us.

It is okay if we have to talk about our achievements in life but we must have to make sure that we will not be interpreted. This is because women may say that we are proud of ourselves and that we are boastful. To make it safe, we must have to let them ask first about our pastime so that we will be on the safe side.

So, what are you waiting for? Try these tips and see it for yourselves!