How to Find What Men Want
(Aside From Just a Beautiful Girl)
She is a beautiful girl but why did he break up with her and chose a less beautiful girl instead?
Most men don’t deny that they want pretty woman. Who doesn’t want to marry a good-looking person? Men, however, have other needs, too, three of which are moral support, listener, and appreciation. Understanding what men want leads to a longer and stronger relationship with them.
Men are like kids in a sense that a simple moral support means a lot to them. Though the underlying reputation of men is strength, they don’t love doing things alone (unless they are a loner or a hermit). So he loves playing basketball with his colleagues every Friday night. Go, watch him shoot that ball, and cheer for him once in a while.
Another underlying reputation of men is that they are not emotionally expressive. They are scared of speaking their emotions out because the society, and sometimes the parents, said it’s a sign of weakness, which is a minus to his manhood. These pent up emotions eventually develops the man’s desire to be listened to. Whenever your man expresses what he feels, listen to him. He might sound silly but just listen to him. It will strengthen the trust between you and him. Give some advice only if he asked for it.
Men also need appreciation. When he cooks something for you, don’t just appreciate the taste of the food. You need to appreciate the mere fact that he cooked for you, which he doesn’t usually do for other women. Be grateful to every single effort that he is making just for you. That will inspire him to care for you more.
FACT- Aside from just a beautiful girl- men needs a woman who is willing to listen, to appreciate and to give them moral support.
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Post CommentLena Brown
On May 3, 2010 at 11:53 am
Short, sweet, concise and well received!!!!
ConvironAltatis I was compelled to read your article because I just published a similar one titled What Men Want & Need from Women. I wanted to see if I was accurate coming from a woman’s perspective. When you have time please take a look and let me know what you think.
As well, thanks for this informative article. As women we need to know what is going on in men’s minds to ease the difficulties that are caused by our differences in gender, rearing and thought processes. Much appreciation for this one!!
Lena