How to Get with a Woman in One Night

Novice

Forget chat up lines, the only thing you will receive from this type of effort is a laugh. And that will be at you.

Don’t try and show off to the point where you’re actually making yourself look foolish. The worst thing you can do is start flashing your muscles, getting your privates out or slapping your mates around. If you have got it, let your clothes show it.

Never over drink the alcoholic fuel that is saturating your mind into a toxic state of over confidence. Take your time and enjoy tasting the drink as opposed to just downing it. It doesn’t look that great from a woman’s perspective.

Dress sharp, cut your nails and make sure your smelling good. Always wear clean shoes and be self conscious about what looks good on you.

If she’s smiling at you and there is good eye contact, go over and say hi. Talk to her and introduce your self. If she’s not interested, so what! You were only saying hello and being polite. You will get more NO’s than the almighty YES. Accept it and move on. You have got all night and you are not every woman’s taste.

Intermediate

Talk to a woman like she is one of your friends. This will take the pressure off thinking about what to say. Your vocal distribution, tone and pitch will come across more natural and understandable. If your going to talk to her like you want to have sex with her, or your thinking about sex while speaking, this will come across and make you look like your only after one thing.

Complements go along way. Don’t over complement but always remark on what they are wearing. Their shoes, accessories or even the way they smell, this always goes down well. Remember they spend hours getting ready and demand recognition.

If they break and walk away, don’t panic. This is natural, as they need confirmation from friends that you are ok. Don’t worry if you see her talking to another man. That’s her way of showing you that she is desirable and wanted. That’s just what they do. If she comes back after a good ten minutes with a cracking smile on her face then all is good.

Once you have established a relationship through talk, jokes, looks, whispers and introducing friends then you are on your way to a number and second date.

Advanced

The cheeky asks. When it’s getting late you can try for the score. Think open questions or just one-word action phrases. With a look smile and open hand gestures they have a good results. Some good ones to use are.

• What you doing later, later?
• Coffee or tea then?
• Few drinks at mine?
• Hungry?
• Cuddle?

If she frowns looks down for to long or ignores the question. Don’t ask again. Keep your cool and ask her if you can call her tomorrow or through the week.

To understand a woman’s body language takes time and mainly involves watching her facial expressions, eye movement, hand gestures and listening to her voice patterns. When you start picking up on these you can use them to make her feel more comfortable, desired and sexy. At first everything will seem to go fast, but your mind starts slowing things down, as you become more aware to potential outcomes.

Listen to her, be patient and don’t be afraid to stroke her arm, give her a cuddle or stand close to her. Wait for the right moment, but this depends on your personality type and how quickly you can react to a situation. In short, be your self and practice makes perfection.

You will get it wrong on many occasions but we all do. That’s what makes us human.

Never abuse a good system, and treat the ladies with respect and love.