How to Handle Girls: The Ones Who Like You and The Ones That Don’t

Girls are never easy to handle. As guys we like aggressiveness, fights, competition, racing and stuff like that. Girls on the other hand are labeled with a note saying: Handle with care! Most of the girls out there are very sensitive and very sweet, it seems like a big girl trait. Guys most of the times handle them like if they were their buddies and sometimes a big mess happens… To prevent that situation here is my guide. It works all the time with the girls in town son don’t worry, it’s tested and now you can prove it works.

1. Girls that already like you.

   They can be a tough challenge because they go insane just with your presence and sometimes they go insane just of thinking they can see you there let’s say at the school. These girls are never natural or real, they can’t help it, it’s like they turn into auto pilot mode as soon as you come to their eyes. They will unconsciously please you all the time, whether it’s with looks, voice, actions or even with presents. If you like that girl the way she likes you the first thing you must do is to (try, I know it’s hard) to be real! Pretending and playing fake not only will ruin the relationship in the long term but you will have a hell of a time keeping your true colors hidden. Never fake, it can be sensed miles away. The first meeting or date will be very stressing, try to stay together for a few minutes or even hours before the event. This way you both will slow down the heart rate, will calm the nerves and will think clear. To maintain the relationship in good standing just be real. You already like each other so there is no reason to play fake.

2. Girls that don’t like you.

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   These ones are tough. First of all they will be in bad mood all the time. Why bother with someone that doesn’t like you? Because they haven’t fall for you… yet! Handle these lovely ones with no fear yet no aggressiveness, just like you would handle a female friend or your sister. Clear conversation, no efforts to impress her, oh by the way the worst thing you can ever do to a girl is not beating her, it’s impressing her. She will be completely turned off because you are going to play fake and stupid. Instead just play her like she is someone else’s wife (not girlfriend) this means someone that will never belong to you and play like if you were someone else’s as well. She will be so impressed by your calmness and indifference to her presence that she will start to be attracted to you. Like a salesman turns costumers off and away when they try to make you buy something, girls will be turned off by guys trying to impress her. She must be the one showing she is interested in you. Only after that you should try your luck. Until that moment she is just a good buddy that speaks softly and someone else’s wife.

As I said in the previous guide, when a girls feels you can lose her and move on with other girls, she will treasure you more than gold. Keep in in your head all the time. The reverse of the coin is true here as well. As soon as she thinks you can’t lose her, she will start to move away and soon or later the relationship is over. Remember there are always great girls out there and she is not the only one in the world.