How to Manipulate Men

    As much as I don’t approve of doing this, I know it works.  I know that manipulation is a common technique used in relationships, businesses, parenting, and all other aspects of life.  It works, so why not?

   Many of the men in today’s society think alike.  You have to understand that men have many common attributes, even so there are a few that do not meet the common standards of other men.  There are men who will be untouched by manipulation, or worse, will find out you are trying to manipulate them and it could potentially cause severe damage to your relationship.  It’s bes mat to start out subtle, see if little things will work.  If you succeed with the smaller manipulation tactics you can then move on to bigger and better things. 

   I also want to emphasize that manipulation is a dangerous art.  It is a dishonest tactic, and as mentioned before, can bring the walls crashing down around you. 

1. Crying

   Most men have a hard exterior but are really softies on the inside.  Crying makes them uncomfortable.  They do not cry in public, or for anyone else to see.  When a man gets to a point where the only thing left to do is cry he will bottle himself away and cry alone.  He does not use crying as a technique to get attention as many women do.  To see someone cry, makes a man extremely uncomfortable.  He is unsure of what he needs to do.  Because he is hardwired to protect and provide, he wants to comfort you and make you feel better.  He is usually unsure of how to do this, so most likely will just give in to whatever it is that you want in order to get you to stop crying.

If you are wanting something, and you are going to go with the crying technique, you first need to master the fit throwing technique. You will find out why in the next section.

2. Fit Throwing/Temper Tantrums

   Sounds like something a 3 year old does, right.  It is, however it is also a very commonly used manipulation technique.  It requires quite a bit of mental control and thought out speaking.