Jamaican Men, Money and Relationships
by Men visit women and have sexual relations with her in exchange for money. The man and the woman are allowed to maintain their single status.
Many women have found this form of relationship satisfying as her economical needs are being satisfied and the relational strings are not attached, offering her freedom to copulate with as many men as possible. This is what I refer to as sanitized prostitution.
Yesterday I sat with my girlfriends at lunch and listen as they mooned over the latest drama that developed in their relationships. I stood up and asked my girlfriends if they thought true love existed anymore. I knew that this topic would generate a plethora of idea. My conjectures were right as my girlfriends became frenzy with opinions. Their face etched with disdain and disgust as they spouted the notable irritable qualities and numerous character flaws that Jamaican men evince. Every commented ended with the fact that Jamaican men were irresponsible fathers, lousy companions and gaudy creatures. My girlfriends conceded that Jamaican men were not interested in family and relationship. My friends said that love was lost and that men only wanted to have sex. My friends said that “is why we no fraid fi nyam dem out”
Jamaican men have come a far way with regards to familial precepts and values. My grandmother told me that men during her time, men were more involved in the upbringing of children than today. My grandmother stated that irreverence for Jamaican men aroused when males lost their powers in the home by refusing to seek knowledge and choosing the prison over the university.
Ignorance is partially responsible for the frustrations and heartaches that are plaguing relationships with Jamaican men. Seventy percent of Jamaican men are semiliterate or illiterate. Females far outnumber their male counterparts in the universities and in corporate Jamaica. Successful Women are finding it increasingly frustrating to find a partner, who is on her financial and intellectual level. The few perceivably accomplished men are very unavailable when it comes to any form of meaningful relationships. Financially stable men are not quick to form a relationship with one woman since there are many women in the streets with similar good qualities and characteristics. Therefore there are many women around for the picking, why settle for one when you can have five.
Additionally women are discovering that men of every stratum in Jamaica exude the same values and embrace corresponding relational philosophies. Women realized that men were not interested in the formation of solid relational unions but more of a serial monogamy and polyandric relationships. Men visit women and have sexual relations with her in exchange for money. The man and the woman are allowed to maintain their single status.
Many women have found this form of relationship satisfying as her economical needs are being satisfied and the relational strings are not attached, offering her freedom to copulate with as many men as possible. This is what I refer to as sanitized prostitution. This lifestyle has lead to a rise in promiscuity among Jamaican young women as they attempt to have sex with as many men as possible to cover the bills.
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Post Commentjenna
On October 8, 2009 at 11:38 am
very thought provoking piece on jamaican men and thier attitudes. well as they say money is now the order of the day
honey
On October 12, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Jamaican men are controlling ignorant assholes! I been dating one for 6 yrs. I hate his ugly black jamaican ass!
burger
On October 19, 2009 at 12:40 am
wow what a great way to go honey on describing jamaican men..if he is dat bad den why r u stil withhim me dere that dont mek no sense. jamaican men beleive that the world revolve aorund them and their penises. dey tiink dey r the best at relationships and dey digsut. dey have bad attitiudes jamacan men have worst attitude
Tony
On October 24, 2009 at 8:32 pm
This is what spins the world and stop it.Currency should not have as much exuberant vitality it has on relation-ships and
we-lation-shifts although it does.A fair exchange is in mind
and sometimes it adds up unequal in the process to where
the demand stakes intially is already preplanned and preprimed.
Nevertheless,we attain what we won’t sometimes and what
it is we strive to avoid.I myself have lay everything on the
forefront and if a potential situation is not about bearing
good fruit and keeping the garden free of pest so to speak,
I waste not my time or theirs..Women true enough have been
destroyed physically,emotionally and spiritually more to the point its complexed to escape this (I’m there as long as you spend money and I do not have to on you) arena.I’m tired of walking away with my wallet reductions and the woman has
money scent on her palms..This is a no no..I refuse to pay
for companionship which is what most women offer or set up
and poor little ignorant masses of men do not realize this.
Alot of women would starve if they did not present themselves sexually.I rather have a full belly on my own than fill hers
with a steak knowing she is not genuine.Morals does have
it part,but a person will part quickly with morals when their
agenda is survive but women want an easy plate to sink
their teeth into.Ain’t No HAPPENNNINGS!! Thank U
tyrese
On November 9, 2009 at 9:20 am
welll dat is true crystal but there is nothing new to this because for centuries women have used their bodies and sex to get ahead in life( no pun intended). men are weak to women and men who give in the female desires are considered weak men. honestly if most women did not present themselves sexually. they would have starve and most women would not have waht they possess today. even the socalled alpha females in jamaica. most of them , dont matter what huge salary they are pulling ..they still need a man who wil be able to add more money to what they are earning.. a girl once said that her man must be able to pay her insurance money on her car or else he is not worth being with.
james
On November 28, 2009 at 3:28 pm
well it is hard to find a woman today who is not superficial and men are finding out more and more that they do not have wha t women want.
many american men and american women have been milked by jamaicans posing on online networks as single and seekinga relationship when in fact they r scammers