Jamaican Men, Money and Relationships
by Men visit women and have sexual relations with her in exchange for money. The man and the woman are allowed to maintain their single status.
Many women have found this form of relationship satisfying as her economical needs are being satisfied and the relational strings are not attached, offering her freedom to copulate with as many men as possible. This is what I refer to as sanitized prostitution.
Others have asserted that Jamaican men are anthropogically promiscuous and polygamic based on the ethos that was taught to them via their ancestral African lineage. Jamaican men are culturally inclined to have more than one woman in their life. The capacity to have a myriad of women and to be able to take care of them connotes that a man is financial stable, communally revered by his peers and emulated by younger males. Jamaican men are simply acting out an ancestral trait that is found among Africans and men of African descent.
Jamaican men claim women are only interested in procuring money and not in any form of meaningful, committed profound relationships. Men will force a relationship with a man who is not fervently interested in him by offering her money in return for relations. It is also a shared opinion that a Jamaican man will not spend his money on one woman while he has another woman draining his pocket. At the end of the day, it is not just Jamaican women that gave rise to the validation of money before copulation but equally Jamaican men. Men have contributed to the relational canon by offering women money for relationship. There are young men who are pursuing a car or any apparent artifact that communicates wealth in order to ensnare women into their bedrooms.
Conclusively, what role money plays in a relationship between a Jamaican man and woman? Recently there has been a rise in Jamaican men insisting that in order for them to establish any concrete relationship with any woman she has bring some form of money to the table. There are some men who refuse to have a relationship with a woman, who does not have a job. In other words, women are not the only ones who are saying “no dough, no looove”. There has been a rise in the demand for a woman to bring economical independence to the relationship. To be honest, I think that is an excellent idea for both partners to satisfy the financial needs of the relationship. But should this be the premier criterion for having a relationship? Should money determine what level of relational or sexual interaction, one has with a prospective partner? I would like you to answer that for me!
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Post Commentjenna
On October 8, 2009 at 11:38 am
very thought provoking piece on jamaican men and thier attitudes. well as they say money is now the order of the day
honey
On October 12, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Jamaican men are controlling ignorant assholes! I been dating one for 6 yrs. I hate his ugly black jamaican ass!
burger
On October 19, 2009 at 12:40 am
wow what a great way to go honey on describing jamaican men..if he is dat bad den why r u stil withhim me dere that dont mek no sense. jamaican men beleive that the world revolve aorund them and their penises. dey tiink dey r the best at relationships and dey digsut. dey have bad attitiudes jamacan men have worst attitude
Tony
On October 24, 2009 at 8:32 pm
This is what spins the world and stop it.Currency should not have as much exuberant vitality it has on relation-ships and
we-lation-shifts although it does.A fair exchange is in mind
and sometimes it adds up unequal in the process to where
the demand stakes intially is already preplanned and preprimed.
Nevertheless,we attain what we won’t sometimes and what
it is we strive to avoid.I myself have lay everything on the
forefront and if a potential situation is not about bearing
good fruit and keeping the garden free of pest so to speak,
I waste not my time or theirs..Women true enough have been
destroyed physically,emotionally and spiritually more to the point its complexed to escape this (I’m there as long as you spend money and I do not have to on you) arena.I’m tired of walking away with my wallet reductions and the woman has
money scent on her palms..This is a no no..I refuse to pay
for companionship which is what most women offer or set up
and poor little ignorant masses of men do not realize this.
Alot of women would starve if they did not present themselves sexually.I rather have a full belly on my own than fill hers
with a steak knowing she is not genuine.Morals does have
it part,but a person will part quickly with morals when their
agenda is survive but women want an easy plate to sink
their teeth into.Ain’t No HAPPENNNINGS!! Thank U
tyrese
On November 9, 2009 at 9:20 am
welll dat is true crystal but there is nothing new to this because for centuries women have used their bodies and sex to get ahead in life( no pun intended). men are weak to women and men who give in the female desires are considered weak men. honestly if most women did not present themselves sexually. they would have starve and most women would not have waht they possess today. even the socalled alpha females in jamaica. most of them , dont matter what huge salary they are pulling ..they still need a man who wil be able to add more money to what they are earning.. a girl once said that her man must be able to pay her insurance money on her car or else he is not worth being with.
james
On November 28, 2009 at 3:28 pm
well it is hard to find a woman today who is not superficial and men are finding out more and more that they do not have wha t women want.
many american men and american women have been milked by jamaicans posing on online networks as single and seekinga relationship when in fact they r scammers