Libido for Men

L – Love

A woman is an emosional being and therefor love is high on her priority list.  Take a little time and think back to your “sow your wild oats” days and you will remember that the moment you told a girl that you loved her, she was putty in your hands.  And not much has changed till today.

I – Innovation

The “same old, same old” is not really what women are looking for.  Put on your thinking cap and think of new and innovative ways to rekindle that passionate flame.  Romance should be unique, fresh and must blow her off her feat.

B – Brave

Be Brave!  All women want a knight in shining armour.  See to it that taps don’t leak, that the light bulbs are working and that the jellopy she drives the kids to school in, is in good working order.  Remove stones in her way.  Be there when she needs you.  Just remember that we don’t always want a problem solved, sometimes we just need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on.

I – Intimacy

Make sure that you can spend special times alone.  Create that special moment with a bit of wine, soft music, a flower or two or sixty and that special light that shines in your eyes when you see your wife.  Spoil her.   Men tend to think that spoiling equals expensive and extravagant gifts.  But you are wrong!  Remember that a soft word can do wonders.  What about a bubble bath, or washed dishes or a take away for those days when she has had a difficult day.  All these will open her heart for a night of warm intimacy.

D – Deoderant

In this day and age I am still stumped by the amount of men I meet that do not give attention to personal hygiene! Men, there is nothing more sexy than a man that smells nice.  But beware not to overdo it.  And a breath that reaks of beer or brandy is a real passion killer.

O – Overpower her

I am not talking about the “drag to the cave by her hair” overpowering.  No, overpower her with attention, soft words and lots of love.  If you would like to spend a special evening with your wife, send her warm sms’s and e-mails.  Surprise her with flowers that are delivered to her work or to the house if she is a housewife.  Step-by-step building to a wonderful evening.

Remember that you can never make up for an opportunity lost.  And I’ve heard a bird sing that each grey hair on a mans head is a sign of a lost opportunity!