Opinions and There Effect

The guiding principles of doing well are so close to us all we are empowered by the share thought of being excepted in the way we live and do things.

Many people would like to believe that they do not care what people think of them or they rely on a false notions that by not caring they are above criticism as to being teachable they would rather think they are than really be.

I was reading a long book on the thinking patterns of man an his idea’s toward what the social world feels about them and I was interested to read the writers point of view saying that people who are well rounded do not need others opinions as to their social standings in society or groups.

This in itself was so off track to me because I find those that I have spoken with who seemed to be well educated and well rounded so to speak.

Worry more about others opinions as to what their knowledge entails they are constantly challenging others to prove that there money was well spent on an over priced education that may in some cases have been gotten freely by a well thought out person who just listens and thinks about what he is going to say or do in actions before doing them.

It is interesting to note how exasperated they get when others ether do not agree with them or may have formulated a positive thought that can carry through a conversation with out the back lash or middle mans formulated plans that take the hole idea so far in to the off worlds of improbability.

It was these type people in business that I found to be the most integrated as to carrying about performance and how well they were doing in building what they considered a success.

The fact is to say people are not looking for praise in what they do or acceptance from those they choose to do business with is not true at all.

We may as thinking men and women formulate an idea as to what we care about and what we do not care about.

However when putting out anything for others to view.

We do it with expectations of hearing there opinions and in those opinions we can come to terms with agreeing with them or not.

Some one once said there has not been a thought taken out of context by one person or another for shear enjoyment of engaging in a political debate of words exertion of power to say they have the right and will to comment and disfigure the persons ego as to what their back ground may have been or what they feel should be respected.