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Seven Ways to Woo a Woman Properly

Wooing a woman is not a very difficult task, if only men knew how to do it properly.

Women from all over the world are no different from each other.  They want love and romance. 

Here are some methods on how to woo a woman properly:

  1. On the first meeting don’t be too fresh.

    Sometimes being too self-confident is perceived as being arrogant.  You maybe the best-looking man in the face of the earth but if you act like one, this is a major turn off for women.  Arrogant men are not well liked - even as friends - much more as lovers.

  2. Be a gentleman.

     Contrary to popular belief, women still want to be “pampered” and be treated like a “Queen”.  Opening doors and pulling a chair for her is never outdated. It shows you consider her special enough to treat her good.

  3. Be thoughtful and expressive of your feelings. 

    It’s true that action speaks louder than words but saying “I love you”, is still the best way to show how much you love her.  Spoken words, coupled with loving actions are explosive combinations, almost always the woman will “listen”.

  4. Little things mean a lot. 

    Those letters or notes tucked into her book; those red roses given even when there are no special occasions; those e-cards saying how much you love her, are small little things that can melt a woman’s heart. 

  5. Make time for her family, especially her mom and dad. 

    Be truly interested in her family.  When you “love” her family, it shows you care for those she cares about and that would give you additional points in her heart. 

  6. Never forget any important dates, like her birthday, her graduation day, etc. 

    This may seem trivial but I heard women being touched by a man’s remembrance of their birthdays and graduation days.

  7. Listen when she speaks. 

    Women (and even men, for that matter) want men to listen when they say something.  It shows that you care about her thoughts, concepts and beliefs and that you are not one insensitive person.

These are not phenomenal and uncommon methods, but at times we need to be reminded that the simple, little things that we oftentimes ignore are the ones that are actually very significant. 

So keep these seven methods in mind and be successful in wooing the woman of your dreams!

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  1. tashabud

    On September 29, 2008 at 2:03 am

    Wow! These are all excellent tips. I hope more men see this article. So then more women out will be happier.

  2. Sumit

    On September 29, 2008 at 11:31 am

    Great words. Hope guys will read the points and follow and enjoy the fuirts.

  3. Liane Schmidt

    On September 29, 2008 at 3:13 pm

    Nice article – keep up the great work!



    -Liane Schmidt.

  4. Dan the Man

    On October 1, 2008 at 2:07 pm

    Here is what worked for me.

    Act like you genuinely care or interested about aspects of her life, i.e. job, family, interests etc…

    Make her laugh

    Act like you agree with approx 80 percent of what she say, the other 20 percent will make you not look like a push over.

    Listen, this is the hardest, but you can recall facts later and it make you appear caring.

  5. statesf10

    On October 16, 2008 at 4:31 am

    …above all…just be yourself, ok.

  6. Helen

    On November 23, 2008 at 2:38 pm

    8. Have a good job. No matter how non-materialistic or independent she claims to be, not having money is a major turn-off – especially if she is over the age of 25.

  7. Virginia Gaces

    On March 4, 2009 at 2:24 am

    Thanks guys for the good comments. Cheers.

  8. crusty

    On May 25, 2009 at 4:14 pm

    I agree with all the facts listed above.But comment number 4 appears like he has duped many women. “act” genuinely caring or interested and “act” like you agree. “make you appear caring”. If you dont genuinely care about the woman find someone else, stop with the acting. This guy is why women find it so hard to trust these days, its hard to weed out the guys that are in it for the sex and not in it for the true connection with another person

  9. Virginia B Gaces

    On May 26, 2009 at 8:17 am

    You have a point crusty. I have forgotten to add that the man should be sincere in doing these sweet little things. Thanks for your significant contribution.

  10. Fabulousteve Onyedinma

    On October 18, 2009 at 8:52 am

    i hve learn my mistake from this tips,i think every guy need to read abt it.thanks 4 ur help.

  11. Garglingcatfish

    On December 13, 2009 at 11:59 am

    ya shouldn`t need to act if you really care about the woman you are trying to woo…

  12. JJ Jeffrey

    On January 17, 2010 at 10:22 pm

    Take her by the hand and tell her she is the hottest bitch in the world… Then give it to her in the ass….

  13. AS

    On June 4, 2010 at 7:35 pm

    Some great tips, just to reiterate ultimately women want to be made to feel special – which can often be achieved through small gestures and chilvarly!

  14. kingsley inwang

    On July 29, 2011 at 8:16 am

    thanks for letting me know where to adjust from my past,i believe the best medications for women heart is show more concerned about feeling and fun .

  15. Sunaina

    On January 10, 2012 at 12:21 pm

    best points for wooing a woman. it would really work

  16. Halen

    On June 22, 2012 at 5:36 am

    This is completely untrue. This is what women think they want, but when they get it, they choose the one that treats them horribly. Women do not want happiness. They want power or money.

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