Sexy Women

There are many other things which I could share, but these are things which naturally draw me to women. Other things may temporarily draw me, but these are things I really care about. Relationships tend not to work well as the sole focus of one’s life, but there are many things which can be learned from them and life can become much richer as a result.

1. Sweetness, kindness and gentleness are always something that draws me. This world can be a tough place and having someone around who cares about others makes quite a difference.
2. Joy. Anyone who radiates joy and who loves to laugh is a natural draw. We long be around someone who will bring more joy into our lives and help see the beauty where we cannot.
3. Sincerity. People who play games tend to turn me off. Genuineness goes a long ways and so really thinking about your reactions and being honest make a big difference to me.
4. Vulnerability. I know that it is easy to put up defenses with the cruelty in the world. There are many things which we survive in growing up. This does not mean being overwhelmed by the harshness but simply showing that you are human.
5. Being passionate about a cause particularly one I care about. As with sincerity this shows that you are real and care about something real and will not simply buy into what is convenient in the moment.
6. Being down to Earth. Willingness to dig your hands in the dirt or hike a trail if need be. Knowledge about flowers and curiosity about the outdoors is a big draw to me. This culture has made women seem really artificial as they are enticed to buy into many forms of commercialism and focus excessively on beauty. While beauty can be appealing there are other qualities which are equally important.
7. An ability to adapt and interest in other places. While it is natural to feel connected to your own environment traveling can really enrich us and I enjoy learning from people who have traveled as well as sharing my experience with them.
8. Musical and artistic abilities and passion for these areas. Art and music have the ability to transform a life and in relationships that is what I look for. Depth is important if the relationship is to go anywhere and to be fulfilling.
9. An ability to appreciate children, their needs and complexities. This does not mean that you have to be able to relate to all children. Some are easier to connect with then others. But children see the world in a different way. They laugh more than adults and are willing to trust, be open, share and be vulnerable in a way that is very tough for many adults.
10. Directness. When someone looks you directly in the eye it can feel quite profound. It is important that such a look is not aggressive as that can be quite a turnoff but rather a directness that says that you are both comfortable with yourself and feel a connection with the other person. The eyes can communicate many things and I feel one of the most important signs of a connection.
11. Willingness to take a risk and encourage others to do the same. Although guys don’t like to admit it they get scared and having someone else to encourage them and to take risks that they would not otherwise take can be very important and very life-enriching.