Submissive Woman

I mean the woman subject, docile, obedient, accepting anything that comes from anybody and especially by men. That woman was the model before. Before the feminist movement, before a woman wants to be equal in rights with men.Unfortunately, that model has been transmitted, even if in different forms, with slight variations.

And how many times a woman leaves her, just to have peace in the house ! If you have the “guts” to ask for help around the house, he makes the sloppy, just a mad and just be swept away and apologize for: “If all you are doing them better, what I put on me? “No matter how you try to insist, to tell him what you can do that (being only a woman!), can he, a man who is strong and knows them all. You can go on, showing him how to do it over and over and expecting from him a little effort. I have long desired to see the result. His attitude does not only say that your party has not, does not agree and will not put you to do what you do. And then you just have to accept things or tinkering to get them to resign and do it. Sad, huh??

I once happened to be around a couple . I do not know that was their problem, the fact is that he insulted her as the girl with me and others without thinking for a moment the situation in which one puts on his wife. I do not know either how things took place between them after the incident, as they have solved that problem, the fact is that she put her head down, she swallowed what she meant and she swallowed tears.

In general, we think that force is male privilege, and because she is weaker weapon is her word. And you tend to think that she’s the one who will use the word more easily, even in an unpleasant manner. But men seem to find it easier to offend, to hit, even in public. Accepting the fact that it would lead us to mind the idea that he feels inferior to him, subject, and perhaps is afraid of him. And it is very possible that things stand.

This attitude, subject to a notice in the small details of the day. How he wants something or needs something, she jumps immediately to bring them to hand, to assist him or help him, possibly to do instead of what he wants. Why behave this way? Because it took the family was so learned and ordinary. These are the models they had seen around, she grew up and who has mastered.

Does he not able to take their own desuurile and clothes from the closet? He put his food on the plate and bowl in the sink or even the dishwasher? It’s not enough that you sort the laundry, wash them, stretch them, break them, folding them and put them in the closet? As you go shopping and prepare food? Excuse the mess in that closet and that’s why you put them on hand clothes, bedding and food on the plate, then gather up the table after him because he can not handle or not handle, do not favor too much on you.

 He may have a hobby that I consume a weekend day, during the week that we hope you can teach a little baton, thinking it will work even children and shopping. You, in the five days you have no time to remember your name, and that you started to look ok, because you get used to it.

When you have the right to be you? Know when your turn to speak your mind without fear, do you still delayed without conscience burdened you, to have the courage to come out, enjoy life, not to do any on the nanny or the mother to …?