Ten Things My Father Should Have Told Me About Men

                              Ten things a woman’s father should have told her about men.

            The role that a father plays in the life of his young daughter is very important. It is not confined to satisfying the financial needs of his offspring but instilling values and morals into the psyche of his daughter. This involves encouraging the development of a sense of self and awareness when it comes to relationships.

                    But how many fathers have sat with their daughters and educate her on the psychology of men, women and relationships. If fathers taught their daughters how to respond to men and about the pros and cons of men and relationships we would have been better in our relations with men. We would have known how to differentiate the wolves from the sheep.

Here are some things I wished my dad had told me about men

1.      Men lie to get what they want. I would have been spared quite a few masculine deceptions if my father had told me that men do not always mean what they say. Men will omit information or lie outrageously to convince a woman to be with them and sleep with them.

2.      Men will tell a woman what he knows she wants to hear in order to get her into his bed. Men pretend and fake commitment to get sex. A man will feign emotions and act as your ideal mate to have intercourse with you. When he has gotten his prize then the real man unveils himself.

3.      A man will have sex with a woman and do not feel or have an emotional attachment with her. There goes my preconceived notion that he must be feeling something for me because we are copulating. Wrong! He is simple going through motions and not emotions.

4.      When a man meets a woman he is rarely thinking long term, he is merely thinking about having a good time with her. This good time entails sexual intercourse.  That means when a man meets you, he is not thinking marriage and children. He is having the most primal desire which is companionship and coitus.