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The Cancer Man

An overview of the elusive Cancer Man.

June 22 ~ July 23

The Cancer Man is a mystery. A man of few words. A man so private that it will take a lifetime to attempt to understand him, and even then, it will be your word against his. It’s a rough shell you will see upon first meeting. A tough and stand-offish exterior is considered to be quite the norm. But dig a little further, and you shall find a man of many moods. Coy, ultra-sensitive and very practical. The Cancer Man will leave you guessing as to which of his personalities will make an entrance on this day. You’ll want to take your time on figuring out the best way to approach this courageous man, for once you have him figured, you’ll truly want to remain close by his side.

The Cancer man studies his options very carefully. He will weigh all sides and find it sensible to rattle off all details of his decision. The Cancer Man is extremely intelligent and security is always his aim. His intuition is keen and his views are always kept objective. It’s your safety he seeks. The Cancer Man is one who will make sure you have everything you need. The retirement fund will be in order, the savings account earning steadily and your home well-insured. After all, your pretty little head shouldn’t have to worry about such mundane matters when his dinner needs to be prepared or his trousers need to be pressed. That’s where you will be treasured most. The Cancer Man is a traditionalist. He will leave the cave with the intent of dragging back a feast. A burly man to be sure, with broad shoulders and arms strong enough to hold you everlastingly protected and sound.

The Cancer Man will dress to impress. Only the most extravagant suits and the finest shoes will line his closet walls. He is one to firmly believe the notion to always dress for the part, for you never know who you will run into. A Cancer Man will also understand how important seizing every opportunity becomes. He acquires wealth fairly easily because money is somewhat tied to his esteem and worth. An attribute that will ultimately hold recognition as well.

The Cancer Man also holds family in the highest regard. An especially close relationship with his mom will prove to be a high standard set in stone that you must try to live up to. An extremely difficult task, to say the least. There’s a wide understanding among many that a way a man treats his mother holds a key into the way he will treat his beloved wife. If that is true, the indication will be, he will treat you with respect, loyalty, and great adoration. It comes with a price though. The Cancer Man will want, rather expect, you to rub his feet after a long hard day of work or massage his strong aching back. You may have to clip is toenails or iron his dress shirts occasionally, and probably at a moments notice. But, please don’t be alarmed, the benefits vastly outweigh whatever inconvenience this poses for you in the moment.

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  1. david irvine

    On February 6, 2008 at 7:13 am


    Being a cancer man myself, this article made me smile. great work.

  2. Adriana26

    On June 9, 2008 at 11:05 pm


    I have met my dream,my soulmate.A cancer man is a perfect match for me.Im a pisces woman with big dreams and now that i have met a cancer man i believe my dreams are finally coming true.

  3. Tam25

    On June 20, 2008 at 9:58 pm


    I am a Cancer Woman and I am married to a Cancer Man. I love the article and it sums up my wonderful husband. My dreams are also coming true and I am so happy that he allows me to be myself; free and uninhibited…….

  4. Lisa

    On June 26, 2008 at 11:59 am


    The Man I Have Fallen In Love With Is A Cancer Sign Man. Great Article.

  5. Suzie

    On July 7, 2008 at 5:07 pm


    Good article, but you forgot to mention the fact that cancer men are also very manupilative, complicated and cynical. I am with a cancer man and he is constantly playing games.

  6. bryan

    On July 11, 2008 at 10:39 pm


    this explains everything about me
    esspecially my love life

  7. MsD

    On August 29, 2008 at 9:32 am


    I have been in love with a Cancer Man for about 4 years now. We are just friends but it is growing, not in leaps in bounds but in small increments. I do believe that as you say I will be the one that he wakes up in the morning thinking about and when he sleeps at night. He is so worth the wait.

  8. sign girl

    On September 1, 2008 at 12:45 pm


    I fell hard at 19 for one cancer,and had a friend
    20 yrs later who had a 1 night stand with me,
    who played games,with his marriage,and was
    a typical cancer,but the bad traits were so
    mushed up in the good ones. He would nurture
    people,almost baby them.
    decieving,shifty in business,always on the
    hunt for women to seduce ( not sleep with)
    money hungry,dressed well,smart as hell!!
    it was like a torture,lucky for me,I was not
    emotionally attached,he COULD have really harmed me.

  9. Jason

    On September 12, 2008 at 10:21 am


    i do believe in true love.
    she’s a pieces girl with all the smiles around her lips.
    i just couldnt stand being without her by my side 24/7.
    i love her so so so much that nothing can stops me from loving her till the end.
    by the way, i shared the same birth date as tobey maguire.

  10. ankita

    On September 26, 2008 at 9:22 am


    well….i jus simply luvvvd d article…
    n it quite sums up my man…
    he’s a typical cancerian…n me a typical piscean…
    n ourz is a commitment 4 lyf…..
    i simply adore his loyalty,n ability 2 luv unconditionaly …
    n yea….his babyish wayz tooooo….dey make him appear sooo cute…

  11. belle

    On September 26, 2008 at 12:48 pm


    am a Leo girl and am deeply in love with my Cancer man.
    i love you Patrick.

  12. amin

    On October 24, 2008 at 10:28 pm


    this article is awesome!!! i really loved that part when it said that “Never lose faith, the woman of his dreams will instinctively know when to roll up her sleeves and begin the seemingly impossible task at hand. And, this will be the woman to magically appear in his every dream. Her name will be the first to enter his mind when he awakes and her face will be the last image he holds before he sleeps”…fantastic!

  13. Kitty

    On October 30, 2008 at 9:06 am


    i am a libra girl and have fallen in love with the most amazing boy alive and he’s a typical cancer. he’s so sensitive and afraid of being hurt that he’s never dated. i know i’ve got a hard task ahead getting him to trust me but i would never dream of hurting him and i know he’ll be so worth the wait. i’ll be his girl forever.
    thank you for writing such a heart-warming article.

  14. Aaliya

    On November 14, 2008 at 12:12 am


    Hey Im myself is a cancerian Girl In deep deep love with a cancerian boy. MY Shona Shona Baby. but these cancerian man are really flirt because they knw the facts about their personality. So girls have to be careful to handle these guys smartly..:)

  15. Eric

    On December 4, 2008 at 2:05 am


    Who believes this stuff?

  16. Ladeeda

    On December 6, 2008 at 2:35 pm


    I have a crush on a cancer guy (I’m a taurus girl). This description matches him perfectly… sensitive, deep, and affectionate. The perfect guy for me!

  17. MudCrab

    On January 30, 2009 at 1:43 pm


    Haha, spot on David. Thanks for the article, wish all ladies knew details like such, would make things easier ;)

  18. blueprincessmom

    On February 2, 2009 at 2:49 pm


    Ya know I am in a long distance relationship with a cancer man and all of our txt msgs are full of sincere msgs, but being a fireman and paramedic he is not always open with his feelings. I am an aquarius woman and he and I both have kids and been through a bad divorce. I believe that we can work because of what the past has taught us. Our love life is great when we are together…nobody matters but us.

  19. Jen

    On February 21, 2009 at 5:17 pm


    I met my Cancer man almost 2 years ago,but we really started our relationship 8 months after we met with many difficulties on the way.I am still learning to know the man I love and I want to be with to the rest of my life. And he is like the article describes, few new things I can learn about him. And I’m Aquarius- not a perfect much but he is learning how to take care of Aquarius women same as I’m learning how to love Cancer man. I want him to love me forever, I will never stop loving him, he is simply gorgeous

  20. Cyndi

    On March 2, 2009 at 10:25 am


    This article is great! I’m an Aries in love with my Cancer man. He’s the most loving man I’ve ever met. He makes sure I’m okay at all times and I love that about him!

  21. Trudy

    On March 8, 2009 at 6:47 pm


    I’m a Virgo woman who is in love with a cancer man. We dated a couple months and then he ended the relationship. Recently we went out on a date had a great time, i expressed my feelngs to him and since then i have been the one initiating contact. He is a wonderful person and i don’t want to lose him a second time. I’m hoping he’s just being “difficult in letting anyone break through that rock solid exterior.” I’m trying not to lose faith and hopefully one day i’ll be that woman who will be apart of his dream.
    I love you Chris!

  22. mona

    On March 9, 2009 at 9:45 am


    I am a Gimini who dated a Cancer man for 3 months now.I hurt him greatly last month and it took me a month to let him answer my sms …Imagine..He is extremely sensitive,funny nature but always playing games and very doubtful ,i sometimes feel that he is testing me in everything i am saying.

  23. Cat

    On April 22, 2009 at 7:42 am


    I am falling in love with a Cancer man and being a Scorpio woman, I think it’s on of the most pefect matches in the zodiac. But it is not without it’s problems. Thanks for giving me some insight into this mysterious man. I need all the help I can get if I want to be with him always.

  24. Intensity

    On April 26, 2009 at 3:11 am


    I m a cancer and my advice to Cat, if you want success with this man(if he is a typical cancerian), try your best to be open in your emotions. I think cancer and scorpio are really really a heavenly match although a big potential downfall can be lack of verbal communication which sometimes leads to disastrous misunderstandings.

  25. cancerwoman-tocancerman22

    On May 1, 2009 at 12:34 pm


    This is my first time have a crush with a cancer guy. Every time im getting closer to this person, he is moody and questionable person. Today he can easily smile, the next day he is a kind of cool hearted person. I dont know what happened with him, once he said something that for him its only a joke~ he smiled at me that he thought i may laugh, but it hurts me (im sensitive also). So, i prefer not to say hi or even avoid him for weeks. I dont care, i lost my appetite by looking on him. He is not as good as i think after it. He tried to contact me by ym (we’re getting closer from ym too), i didnt replied him. I just wanted to avoid him…Im tired to have a feeling to that guy, so i throw my feeling toward him, i dont like him anymore.
    Few weeks after, he became nice and same as usual, today smile, tomorrow no smile~~!!! I just dont know him…
    Feel like a crap, im trying to get closer with other guys, whatever. Get closer with that cancer guy is killing me (and he also pretend like crazy being closer with some girls when he saw me im talking with another guys). Its crazy. I hate him. When i talk to the other guy, i dont know why, he came to me and hug me and another from the back… Kinda disturbing. I hate it. He is crazy…and i hate this kind of temperament.

  26. Ye Yo

    On May 8, 2009 at 11:40 am


    I have fallen madly in love with a cancer man,my sign is Sag the love is so so so soooo good it’s unreal do this kind of exist for us Yes!!I had to pinch myself to make sure I wasn’t dreaming.I feel God has smiled on us from His throne of Grace because He place this man in my life and me in his.He do not know it but I will be his wife someday and I will pull up my sleeves he is worth the work and wait. He’s my dream man!!!!!! Thank God for this blessing He gave me, God’s gift is in good hands and I’m not talking about allstate I’m talking about my hands, with His help. I’m the blesses woman in the world…….I love My JR…….xoxoxoxoxox, smiling all the day long, In Jesus Name, Amen!!!!!!!!!!!

  27. Cedda

    On May 12, 2009 at 7:16 am


    I’m an aries woman and have a crush on this cute cancerian guy, he sends me romantic poem now and then. But my problem is I’m afraid to tell him I love him since I’ve never been in a relationship before, he might hurt me. But after I’ve read his star sign, I’m going to let him know straight away.

  28. Paris

    On May 12, 2009 at 11:02 pm


    omg!!!..in response to comment # 8– I am a 19 yr old girl who fell 4 this cancer guy in one of my classes 9he’s 20) N OMG…we became bf and gf, but all of a sudden he started changing (especially after i let him take my virginity)..ugh! He is so complicated. One minute he will wine n dine u to the extent, and the next he needs his space, he becomes the most difficult person to figure out, and we argue often. We decided it was best to take a break 4rm the relationship. He still wants to take me out and reat me to fancy things but he said he needs time to himself for a moment. He also hates to talk?? What’s up with that??

  29. Camila

    On May 18, 2009 at 2:25 pm


    I am a gemini woman. Met a Cancer guy bout 3 months ago. Can’t figure him out yet so not quite sure whether all the above are true or not. Being a Gemini doesn’t make it easy either so I’m hoping that what you all say(as in the good bits) are true :)
    Thank you for sharing this analysis with us.

  30. elizabeth@venusrising.us

    On June 4, 2009 at 8:19 pm


    More on cancer male scorpio femal please
    You guys have some great advice.
    Thanks

  31. angel

    On June 5, 2009 at 12:57 pm


    i am dating a cancer man, i am a taurus and 8yrs older than him. at times i forget that he is much younger than me or am i goofy? he makes me laugh all the time, he wants to hang out with me,and we have the best emotional conversations and we can not keep our hands off each other and we always tell each other we do not want to crowd one another. i am afraid of getting to close to him becuz he “thinks” he has a new born on the way. he states to me that he “hates” the woman and he was going to try at one time to have a relationship with her but it did not go far becuz she got mad at him cuz he called her “selfish” i no he is the selfish one but i luv to cater to him so it dont matter, but at the same time he is sensitive. Neverless, iam afraid that he is going to want to try to be with her once the baby is born.Someone Help!!1

  32. Lizzy

    On June 10, 2009 at 3:34 pm


    I dated a cancer once a while back. And my god does this article SOME HIM UP! He was so shifty moody if i was in a club id have to make the first move and go and say Hi. One minute he’d be fine and the next he’d be this laid back guy who acted like he didnt give a ****. But god when we were together it was amazing! Holding hands, kissing! He made me feel amazing! But i couldnt cope with his games and play chase. Iv moved on now and still see him around and my heart still flutters but deep down its just Lust and i would never ruin what iv got now. But reading this article summed him up! Made me smile how spot on it was! And i also agree to the comment above from sign girl, luckily i got early otherwise he would of made me ill! x

  33. bstar

    On June 18, 2009 at 4:29 pm


    ok so i would like advice from cancer guys or anyone who is with a cancer guy!!
    i met a cancer guy at a party (hes a mate of a mate)and we got on really well, i added him to a social networking site i am on and we would chat for hours, then a few weeks later he says ‘my numbers on my profile txt me if you want to’, so i did!
    thing is hes very random with his txts sometimes he’ll txt me all the time and other times it will be days apart but i’ve been patient and i havn’t pushed him, we’ve also spoke on the phone a few times. although we were going to meet up and he said he def wanted to see me but then he bailed last minute and then didn’t txt me for 4 days. he says he is very busy with family and college, which to be honest is prob true because he doesn’t txt or ring his mates back half the time so that makes me feel better. but i am getting annoyed with it now, and starting to loose my patience which is prob a bad thing! i said to him the other day i find it annoying when he doesn’t respond to me, he said he likes to keep me on my toes, but you see if i ignore him he gets moody with me!! i have said to him however that what he is doing is working because the more he doesn’t communicate the more i want him and he knows it!! i have said i’d like to see him and when can he see me but i havn’t come right out and said to him i like you, my mate thinks i should just say right when we going out for a drink but i’m scared he’ll run a mile and won’t talk to me anymore, i really like this guy but hes so hard to read.i think he doesn’t like me then he’ll randomly txt me. since telling me he likes keeping me on my toes we havn’t spoke, that was 3 days ago!! please help me make sense of this!! xx

  34. elliemay

    On June 22, 2009 at 7:49 pm


    Cancer men are moody, controlling & have a temper! They also have addictive personalities (drugs, gambling, etc.). It is nice that he wants to take care of me, but that can be annoying when he INSISTS that things be his way…he says he is just doing it for you!(but”pouts” if you disagree)
    He likes to shop and only buys the best. Everything he does is to the extreme…drinking, shopping (big purchases), gambling for many hours. Seems like little boys that won’t grow up and still need their mommy’s!

  35. Sana

    On June 23, 2009 at 5:33 pm


    Well Well Well, I am a Cancer woman married to a Cancer man, 1 day less than 2 years older to me (i was born on the 10th n hez born on the 11th of july). This article is sooooooooo true about cancerian men. They really are so caring and possessive at the same time. n moody too! I have know him for the past 8 years, and married for 3. Cancerian men will love you more than anything else in this world but say the three magic words RARELY. Mayb if ure dying or sumthing HAHAHAHA….that was a joke but really, they will not show their emotions unless there is a necessity. Like you threaten to leave them or sumthing. Once they fall in love with a woman, they are very loyal and caring for their girl. I am truly madly in love with my man, eventhough there are times when we get into real big arguments becoz of our identical moody nature, but now I have learned the trick to handling the moody tantrums of a cancerian man. All you ladies out there with a moody cancerian man, when u dislike something they do or are about to get into an argument with them, just STOP and try to keep quiet…and even if you have to , give them a silent treatment. But NEVER let the argument go on forever. If you simply take it in one ear and let out the other ear, they will realize later that they were wrong and make it up to you. However, if you continue to argue, they will NOT give up..and i AM TELING u, the cancerian man WILL NOT GIVE UP, and things can take a bad turn. Just learn to live with him and love him the way he is, with his mood swings. AND ALWAYS look pretty and dressed up for him. Coz he likes beauty. Good Luck!

  36. Sana

    On June 23, 2009 at 5:42 pm


    And this is for angel, PLEASE forget about this cancerian man, coz cancerian men are very sensitive about their family. I am sure that once he has a baby..he will want to start a family with the baby’s mother. n u will b left out. So please be careful what you are doing.

    And for cancerwoman-tocancerman22….GIRL this man is in LOVE with you CANT YOU SEE? he doesnt like it when u are giving attention to others! he wants others to know that you have SOMETHING with him..thats why he comes n hugs u. He is only afraid of rejection or that mayb u r just playing with him. If you are serious about him LET HIM KNOW immediately. He will not open up his feelings in front of you. I have an experience of this. If you dont explain your feelings to him, he will just move on. And if you DO tell him how you feel, and give him security im SURE he will make your life a heaven. Like my cancerian man did. =)

  37. Kate

    On June 25, 2009 at 2:55 am


    Sana, you have some very good advices regarding cancer men. I m also seeing one and he kind of appears the way you explained. I need some help. Could you please elaborate on how to get along with them?

  38. Kate

    On June 25, 2009 at 2:59 am


    And, how r they as fathers?

  39. Cece

    On June 25, 2009 at 9:02 am


    These comments are really great. I am a pisces woman and have my eyes on a cancer man. The thing is, I’ve know him for quite a while (since we sort of had something in the past) but I am not sure how to let him know that I am now ready to be with him. Right now he has someone, but the other day when we spoke, he mentioned that he has loved me so long. What should I do?

  40. Sana

    On June 27, 2009 at 4:08 pm


    You know Kate, in reality, it is very difficult to get along with cancerian men if you are not of compromising nature. Cancerian men can become manipulative at times, but also do not want to be manipulated or told what to do. Only choose to marry a cancer man if you are totally head over heels in love with him. Because if you are in love with someone only then everything else doesnt matter. For example, there are times when my husband simply tests me whether or not I give importance to what he is saying like if there are two options for the weekend, going bowling (which he likes) or going to my aunts house(which I will enjoy) so he will insist on doing what he likes. If I insist on going to my aunts house instead of the other option, he can become hard headed (just like a crab’s shell), get into an argument with me, upset me, and STILL do what he wants. However, if I go along with what he wants and tell him its alright if i postpone my visit, not only will he be happy, there is a 110% chance he will give more importance to what I want to do next weekend or many more weekends to come. Basically, a cancerian man wants to make his woman happy, BUT he wants the same in return and much more. Some people have said the right thing about cancerian men that they do not like to make the first move, they expect it from the other person first. Then they will do something in return.

    Talking about being fathers….Trust me if you marry a cancerian man, you dont have to worry bout ur childrens’ upbringing. They are such MOTHERLY fathers!! I have a 2 year old and ever since my girl was born, its been him who remembers her immunizations, or when to buy her diapers, or when her formula needs to be refilled. They are extremely devoted fathers and are also very sensitive towards their family (not only immediate family, but also their mothers and sisters).

    Another thing about cancerian men is that they can be possesive. But that is ofcourse their way of expressing their love. YOu should never take their possesivness negatively. Take it as a positive sign that they are still worrying about you and care for you.

    GOSH that is such a long PASSAGE! Guess this is enuff for now, I should be writing a book on cancerian husbands haha. Aite girls, if you have anything else to ask…im more than happy to help you from my experiences! Good Luck!

  41. Cece

    On June 27, 2009 at 4:17 pm


    Dude Cece, you need to be careful coz cancerian men can be flirtatious. How sincere does he seem to be when he says that “he has loved you so long”?Is he not in a serious relationship with the girl he is with right now? I mean if he really loved you then why is he with another girl? ???? Well I am not saying that there is no possibility that he loves you. He could have loved you, but do ask him why he didnt approach you b4. But really you are one lucky girl if he loves you cause cancerian men are VERY lovely lovers ;) they shower you with all their love and emotions once you give them ur heart. And if you are in competition with that other girl, a little hint is that take care of his little-est needs. I dont know what they mite be. But thats how i won my hubby’s heart. You wont believe there were times when I wud take homemade breakfast for him in engineering school. HAHAHAHAHAH (I still cant believe i did that) LOL ofcourse there was another girl there who was totally falling for him. But i didnt ever give her a chance to take him over. So you have to be persistent!

  42. Ashley

    On June 30, 2009 at 1:40 pm


    This article is great! The cancer man is very much like this. I think you should have exaggerated on the moody part because I notice it a lot. I’ve been with a cancer for about 8 months now, things haven’t been easy, because of personal problems where he’s been very possessive and protective, but he’s worth it all, because the love I have for him I’ve never felt before. I don’t usually stay with anyone for a long time, I usually lose feelings, but this relationship has kept me going. Our love has kept me going, and I don’t ever want to lose him. And yes, he is very loyal.

    Loved the article!

  43. ashlesha

    On July 8, 2009 at 2:19 am


    well i agree with evry wrd f d article coz cancerian guys r exactly like described..nt been in love wid a cancerian guy 4 a long tym,in fact hav just met sum1 n net n talk to him ovr fone too.bt being a cancerian myself i sumhw instinctively understand his behaviour.initially the hard shell of cool n detached behaviour was hard to break…but i cud sumhw knw wt ws goin on in his mind..in fact wen i told him about it, wen it had hardly been a 2 day old frendshp,he was amazed..kept on asking me who i was n hw i knew so much bou him..haha..the reason escapes me coz it was only his talk dat made me knw him…
    he is a real gem of a person..always caring..but ya he hates it wen i argue…arguments r bound to arise coz we r f d same sun sign…
    but i’ve learnt to keep silent..it feels nice wen he says dat it is me he has ever opened up wid…his voice says all…sincere n honest..but dere r lessons to b learnt …one he expects me to listen to him…but dat is
    alwaz for my own good…he loves babying me..alwz concernd bou wat i do…alwz intrestd in my stupid talks ..very patient listener…though we hav never met..we plan to ..very soon…dere is so much f sensitivity frm hs side …n he alwaz makes me smile wid hs infectious sense f humour..i’m so happy to hav hm..n an intrestng fact dat he shares his bday wid my elder brother so we hav an intrestng cancerian gang coming up….hahaha..thank god for both d cancerians in my life…

  44. punK

    On July 9, 2009 at 4:37 pm


    i am a 13 year old pisces girl and i have a 15 yeard old cancer guy as my boyfriend. he’s the best guy in the world. we have been bf/gf for three months and i absolutely love him.

  45. nicole

    On July 21, 2009 at 2:33 pm


    for the last comment: a 13 yr old with a 15 yr old boyfriend???lool. little girl get in to your books please.take it from a 35 yr old capricorn, getting to know a cancer man.

  46. kathy

    On July 24, 2009 at 8:14 am


    Yes Cancer men are loveing, gentle, kind, and generous. But beware if you ever fall in love with one. They are insecure, crawling into their shell at the slightest provocation. They have the uncanny nack for knowing exactly what each woman they meet needs and they attempt to fill that need with acute accuracy. And she feels oh so special. The problem is, they do that with each woman they meet. So if your feeling “oh so special” you’re not really. They do this because it makes them feel superior, and in control. The one I know does this so well that he has every woman at his beckon call. He is like a shepher tending his flock as he invites each woman secretly into his confidence, again making them each feel very special. I warn you, you will not see this coming. You will be too blinded by his sublime charm to notice you’ve just been coralled. He is a con man when it comes to women. If your asking why he’s this way, it feeds his insecurities, boosts his ego but in the long run, his ego will never be filled. At least not by one woman. He needs several women to accomplish this, and no amount of love or understanding by one woman alone will do it for him. His quest for security is a life long endeavor. His needs are enormous; his demands are great. Good luck.

  47. Intensity

    On July 31, 2009 at 4:04 am


    In response to the comment by Kathy, there are every type of men and women from each sign. Bcoz one cancer man is extremely loyal doesn’t mean everybody will be, and one cancer man is disloyal doesn’t mean that everybody will be. Still, I assure that most cancer men are extremely loyal to the girl they love. I m a cancer and all my feelings and my love are directed to my one and only true love-she is a scorpio. Nobody ever will be able to take the position that I have for her in my heart.

  48. yaya

    On August 3, 2009 at 5:28 pm


    I am a Virgo woman in love with a cancer man. We have been dating for almost a year, and things were going perfect. We are both very attentive to each other’s needs and You’re right, he is a charmer that knows how to make a woman feel like she is the most important thing in his life. He is always telling me how much he loves me, and that he is going to marry me. The problem: He is not very sexual when it comes to me. I always have to initiate sex and even then I don’t always get it. When I ask him Y he never initiates sex, he says that it’s because when he comes on to me, I reject him. So not true!! I finally got upset after three weeks of no sex, and I tried to explain to him how it makes me feel (unwanted, unattractive..). He didn’t want to talk about it, I exploded, and I have not heard from him in over a week. He will not answer my phone calls, e-mails or text. I went over to his house and he did not answer to the door. This is the man that has been telling me that he loves me and is in Love with me, for almost a year now. I am a Virgo, and I like to communicate. I believe in discussing the problem and moving forward. He on the other hand hides in his shell, giving me the total silent treatment. I know I said some things that were hurtful, and showing up at his house to make him talk may have made me seem a little psycho. Have I lost my cancer man forever? Will he ever frorgive me? Should I keep sending him text messages and emails telling him how sorry I am, and how much I love and miss him? How can I get my cancer man back?

  49. Mindy

    On August 12, 2009 at 1:25 pm


    I believe all Cancer men are both the loving, devoted husband type, and the insecure, moody player. The question is not which personality is real, because to the Cancer man, both are extremely real and the cognitive dissonance caused by this contradiction makes them the complicated sensitive man that women of all signs and types adore. He is difficult and holds great potential, the fairytale prince that if loved enough by the right woman, will commit and ride off into the sunset…. maybe. The true question then is, are the dramatics and undeniable feelings worth the anxiety attacks, hurt and confusion? My answer is yes, while I am young, and have the energy to try, I will not give up. But I am sure in my heart that there will come a day that I will decide that what I want in my life is stability and truth, not games and fairytale dreams.

  50. Char

    On October 5, 2009 at 2:02 am


    This is so spot on British term for correct. They Cancer me do play games and more mind games that could make u ill. But they are the Mother of the Zoduac they nuture very well but heck they are so hard to breakthough 4 years and I am still trying to figure the man out so wishy washy u know. They too tell stories by know I know not to believe too much it is shaded.

    Well after 8 months of not talking were talking again after many months of silence its like cat and mouse or tuchay the slow turtle race once again. I am an Aries and want thing now so … We can be friends do not know about romance anymore just too heady mind games . But yes I love Cancer men yes defintley…

  51. JENNA

    On November 7, 2009 at 10:46 pm


    everything matches the cancer guy I know, I’ve know this cancer guy for a year now, he lives with someone, but he tells me all the time that he likes me, that he cares about be, he seems sincere, but he just told me once that he is not happy with his girlfriend, but never anything else, he is very private. He makes me feel wonderful, he is the most caring man I have ever met in my entire life, though I dont know if that is true, when they say that you have to chase them. i dont he chases me, especally i noticed when I walk straight towards him and pretend i dont see him, he always runs after me to talk to me. I dont want to ask him questions cause he runs away and dont talk to me for days,which he makes it so hard to know him, I am gemini I love to talk to express my feelings, I dont know what to do, I dont know if i should trust this guy, though I have fallen for him so hard any advice out there would appriciate it

  52. Tula

    On November 30, 2009 at 5:37 pm


    To Jenna,

    Don’t be with or trust any guy who tells you he likes you while he’s with someone else. Period. People come with lots of baggage but a cheater starts by practicing to be one. IWhether or not he likes you is not the point. Does he love her? If not (which I would say he cannot if he’s going behind her back), why wouldn’t he leave her. Is that who you want to be with? He can grow but not in midst of this situation. Also, saying he likes you is pretty tame if you think about it. Lack of expressed commitment.
    I have found that with the cancer man I know, he always finds a way to convey his interest but following that up with something concrete is pretty poor. It is the same today as it was when he was with someone else. I do believe he didn’t love her but I don’t think he was the one to initiate the break up. They were together for 3 years. (Please be aware, he caused this girl lots of heartache if not heart attacks and I do believe to this day she is smitten). My advice to you. Leave the situation. I did. It has meant starting from zero once we reconnected and I had to initiate but that was the best soution. Also, if you are actually involved with this guy (I didn’t date mine), I would really consider never coming back. A guy is a guy regardless of his sign. Even more so the guy without integrity.

    Friendship with a man who plays games is not a friendship. Don’t know about your guy but mine does not have female friends no matter how it may look. Sorry to be so harsh.

  53. Lioness

    On December 1, 2009 at 10:53 am


    Brace yourselves this is a long one.

    I am sooo in love with my cancer guy who I have always had a special something for.
    We went to college together and have known each other for over 10 years never dated though. We lost touch after college but linked up again 5 years ago to date.
    In the last year we have become super close and talk about everything including kids etc. He knows I have very strong feelings for him because I told him. He claims he does not and cannot ever love me. Hovwever sometimes I feel he means the opposite of what he says.

    We text each other a lot and speak on the phone sometimes 1-3hours but he claims he can only have a friendship with me. I have an intuition that he feels more than he lets on.

    All the characteristics above describe him accurately bad temper, manipulative, moody but he also has a very very caring and loving sideand extremely attentive.

    The twist to this story is that there is someone else on his tale and I think he is having a difficult time deciding if he likes either of us at all or just one person in particular. Am soooo confused some advice would be great.

  54. wednesday

    On December 1, 2009 at 10:58 am


    Brace yourselves this is a long one.

    I am sooo in love with my cancer guy who I have always had a special something for.
    We went to college together and have known each other for over 10 years never dated though. We lost touch after college but linked up again 5 years ago to date.
    In the last year we have become super close and talk about everything including kids etc. He knows I have very strong feelings for him because I told him. He claims he does not and cannot ever love me. Hovwever sometimes I feel he means the opposite of what he says.

    We text each other a lot and speak on the phone sometimes 1-3hours but he claims he can only have a friendship with me. I have an intuition that he feels more than he lets on.

    All the characteristics above describe him accurately bad temper, manipulative, moody but he also has a very very caring and loving sideand extremely attentive.

    The twist to this story is that there is someone else on his tale and I think he is having a difficult time deciding if he likes either of us at all or just one person in particular. Am soooo confused some advice would be great.

  55. Stayce

    On December 5, 2009 at 9:01 pm


    I’m falling for a Cancer man… a lot. I want to talk to him every second… Spent all day thinking of him, but not sure if I should text him so much… I don’t want to lose him. What should I do? Will he love getting so much attention from me??? I also want to see him every day, but he is a professional man and works a lot. I admire his character….*Sigh Please, send a reply to SnDeardorff@gmail.com – Thanks! [I'm a Scorpio]

  56. Liz

    On December 10, 2009 at 1:41 pm


    I’m a Scorpio woman, I’ve been dating a Cancer man for about 4 months. His parents used to live next door to my parents house and as children we used to go to school togethor, but I had not seem him for years… it was amazing to get back in touch, he has swept me off my feet…. truly… I have never felt this way about any man before… it is simply magical.

    He has been the one ‘chasing’ me which is very refreshing… and I love the attention and affection he gives me. He is always texting or phoning me (or being with me) some people might find Cancer men to be overly affectionate to the point of smothering… but I enjoy being smothered by him, he holds me so safe and tight at night in bed, he says the sweetest things, and I am totally in love with him…

    I cook for him and he calls me his “domestic goddess” LOL… its true I do tend to mother him a bit, he enjoys being mothered though :-) There is lots of cuddles and kisses… he is such a good kisser, and most of the time we just read each others minds, there is no need for words…. he is so sensitive and beautiful, there is a magic, electric, intense chemistry between us… and he just told me the other day that, I am the first girl that he has been able to open up to (emotionally) and also, I am the first girl he has properly wanted a relationship with…

    I thank God for every day I spend with him, my beautiful, beautiful Cancer boy, his golden hair, adorable smile and piercing green eyes.

  57. geminigurl

    On January 15, 2010 at 11:38 am


    Hi SANA,
    I am also in deep love with a cancerion guy since last 3.5yrs. The problem is i am always trying my best to cope up with him, to do whataver he likes,whatever makes him happy.That guy also loves me.Also he himself became ready to marry me , and several times realized me ,that i am the gurl he wants to marry.But m realy baffeled , as again sometimes he just refuses to marry me.I just dont understand what actualy in his mind!!!
    I also assured him many many many times, that i’ll never leave him,ust have a lil trust on me.I just love him like a mad.
    Still i dont know , one time he is ready to marry me,the other time he says he will not marry me.I just dont understand.SANA can u plz make ur comments /suggestions on this???????????
    I am very very much ready to face his mood swings..his silence ,his flirting..his positive side..his negative side..everything.Ijust wanna be with him firever.I want him to marry me…plzzz help SANA…

  58. inlove

    On January 20, 2010 at 1:11 am


    Im scorpio and im head over heels in love with a cancer man, but boy he can be so moody and unpredictable but i love him to death so im willing to compromised :-)

  59. Lulu

    On January 31, 2010 at 8:25 pm


    Dear SANA,

    I desperately need your help – im a cancer girl dating a cancer guy and omg everything you described was so true. Unfortunately, we are on the verge of breaking up and I’m finally realizing that the only way to deal with arguments is to give him the silent treatment. When arguments happen between us (which happen often), I have a hard time being able to control my own emotions (since Im a cancer too) and he gets even more out of control because I rebel & fight with him. Please help – is there a way I can get him back and teach myself how to learn to stop arguining and let him have it – maybe next time I’ll win a bigger battle. please, help

  60. jhumki

    On February 15, 2010 at 12:37 pm


    being in luv wid a cancerian is somethng…….i myself experienced…..
    an awesome guy to be wid……..he sees to it dat nothing harms me….and makes sure i smile always….i hav bin llucky to get him…………a great lover….a perfect husband….dis cancerian is sum1 on whom i had a crush eva since a teen and today i find myself complete i his arms……..he was my first luv and my last luv…….i dunno how its true….dat luv doesnt lastlong……….in my case luv always lasts and lasted…………i thnk i can neva forget him and we guyz r very much together……….i luv u my sunshine……….hope someday u read dis….n m not gonna tell u i wrote dis…u check it out urself…m sure u will find out someday sunny boy…………but still i luv u and i am happy in ur arms…………………luv u jaan……my baby dearest……..well 1 clue is ….i am scorpion dearest…so lets see how u can figure it out…………bye

  61. jhumki

    On February 15, 2010 at 12:43 pm


    and dis articleis my gift to our third anniversary…..remember nov 15 baby ……..u must get it now

  62. LeeAnn

    On February 15, 2010 at 11:36 pm


    I have known my cancer man since high school, actually we were high school sweethearts. I am a pisces girl with two of my own kids and after everything that i have been thru i got to know that realness of it all. I love this man with all my heart and he is so wonderful with my boys, I just can’t seem to get him to commit. I don’t understand why he would move me three states away to be with him if he wasn’t interested in marriage. He will say odd things sometimes like i love him too much, and he is certainly moody. the best way to deal with his moods are to let him have his way like a spoiled child but i have a hard time with that. i am afraid of getting hurt by him cause it would be so easy since i love him so much. I don’t necessarily want to be married either, i just want to know that he isn’t going anywhere.

  63. jhumki

    On March 21, 2010 at 4:07 pm


    well guyz…i had my breakup bcoz we cant marry each der…sagothram n crap as per my family………..well sunshine i luv u……………..bye

  64. alisa jackson

    On April 27, 2010 at 1:26 pm


    hi i am a pisces girl who has been dating a cancer man for almost 3 yrs and over all it is a pretty good relationship but there are times that i do not understand one minute he is so kind and will do anything for me but there seems to be a price to pay. i like to go to clubs and have a few cocktails and so doesn’t he but we can never seem to do it togethere as there is a fight due to him being flirtatious. i know he cares but i am not sure if he is mature enough as there is a 3yrs difference as well as him have a lack of experience. does anyone have any advise for me as of what i should do to handle this. the man that loves me one second or all the time could do something so disloyal that i want to call it off. please adivse.

  65. alisa jackson

    On April 27, 2010 at 1:26 pm


    hi i am a pisces girl who has been dating a cancer man for almost 3 yrs and over all it is a pretty good relationship but there are times that i do not understand one minute he is so kind and will do anything for me but there seems to be a price to pay. i like to go to clubs and have a few cocktails and so doesn\\\’t he but we can never seem to do it togethere as there is a fight due to him being flirtatious. i know he cares but i am not sure if he is mature enough as there is a 3yrs difference as well as him have a lack of experience. does anyone have any advise for me as of what i should do to handle this. the man that loves me one second or all the time could do something so disloyal that i want to call it off. please adivse.

  66. ID

    On May 28, 2010 at 9:08 am


    man! after reading all these entries … I gotta say … cancerian men sure know how to sweep a girl off her feet n go mad n crazy ’bout ‘em

    been there myself … but didn’t get him

    best way to deal with their moods -”KEEP COOL” …
    no matter how harsh he snaps … think cool n be warm n a little firm n ask what the damn problem is … he will tell you … n talk it out … thats all it takes n maybe end it with a laugh … seriously thats all it takes

    n of course please DONT NAG him

    u gotta know … when he’s in a bad mood … he could be pretty dramatic n make u believe the world is gonna shatter … he could be very mean … think cool but be warm and a little firm if he acts unreasonable… try talking it out … if talking out is not possible … give him his space … he’ll get over it … then casually yet warmly n sincerely say sorry if u were wrong…

    from the above entries i know many cancerian men take their charms for granted n become players …

    but i knew one who was a very considerate friend, he’d never hurt anyone on purpose, n hes a sensitive sweetheart … i lost him n i regret it everyday :)

    Yup… they are so moody … if hes happy … he laughs at sentiment … if hes down … he will sigh … deep down he means no harm in the first case n is being true to himself in the second… again he means no harm, hes an innocent, sensitive sweetheart going through those moods n he cant help it… just smile at him n let him enjoy his playful n sunny side when its around … coz he doesnt like feeling down either n hes gonna get there in no time n unexpectedly n helplessly … so if hes happy dont do anything to upset him or nag him

    of course … patience!!! … if u gotta criticise … no matter how worked up he gets u … be subtle n polite about his faults…

    all u need to give him is ur Trust n ur affection … i’m sure he will open up then … n then as time passes you’ll understand him :)

    Atlast… If ur lucky enough to get urself one of these charming sweeties- cling onto them!!! n do ur best to make them comfortable …

    If ur unlucky enough to lose them [like myself] … its gonna take loads to heal …

    ID

  67. Real Taurus

    On June 15, 2010 at 4:57 pm


    It’s amazing how the article labels Cancer men. They’re the pseudo-Prince Charmings of the zodiac. It is ALL an act. They comprehend the female species very well, their intuition becomes their ammunition, and works in their favor. This is how they master seducing the opposite sex. Sensing what they want, and then eventually becoming actors. Observe the relationship dynamics with the incompatible signs, leos, libras, and aries. Come on, a Cancer can’t be compatible with everybody! I’m very perceptive to BS. I have shot down every Cancer who has tried to pull me in. I can’t stand facades. I will take a REAL man over an illusion anyday. Give me a manly man who is honest, down to earth, enjoys beer, funny, and real. I don’t need a man to dote on me with flowers and false hopes just to make me feel good about myself.

    BTW, I am a Taurus. The Zodiac has the audacity to say that we’re highly compatible with those phoney Mamas Boys!

  68. Karen

    On September 3, 2010 at 12:29 am


    I am a Cancerian female and reading some of the stuff that people have written here makes me laugh as you clearly do not understand the Cancer personality at all.

    1. If you meet a Cancerian and they are at first nice to you but then later seem on and off or stand-offish it is because they thought that they liked you initially but now they aren’t so sure or just want to bail. Cancerians are non confrontational unless really pushed. They instead deal with not wanting someone anymore by being distant.

    2. If a Cancerian is being distant but they still speak to you, it doesn’t mean there is hope for the future, it simply means that the Cancerian does actually think you are a nice person and plus Cancerians don’t like to really let go of the past, good or bad. A Cancerian will continue to be nice to you until you really bug them or push them too far in these situations.

    3. Without a doubt – if a Cancerian likes you he/she will go to extremes to find you, contact you, whatever it takes.

    4. Cancerians are deep, caring and emotional – but only towards people that they love, that being good friends, family and lovers. If they seem shy and not wanting to give much information, it is not because they are afraid to let you in – it’s because they *don’t* want to let you in. ie. they don’t hold you in high enough regard to do so.

    5. Cancerians may seem shy and quiet – at times, it’s not because they are timid, it is because they are analysing and thinking.

    6. Don’t be fooled – we are players, I know I am and I know many other Cancerians, male and female that are too. Think smiling assasin. Mind you, if we really love you, there is not a chance in hell we would play you.

    7. If you want to impress a Cancerian, you need to be confident and witty. Weak types need not apply. Just because we are soft on the inside does not mean that we are searching for a bleeding heart, that infact would be a turn off.

  69. decoythegreat

    On September 23, 2010 at 5:48 am


    im a cancer man married to a Virgo woman: and man sometimes i feel unloved, i mean i really just wish a beautiful woman would hug me or kiss me or just say i love you w/o me having to ask? well if you love me why dont you ever say it? is what i ask! besides that i have 4 daughters my wife is a good woman she just lacks the intelligence to know how i want to be treated i mean if i came through the door at 11 o’clock pm everyday and 1 day out of the month she said “baby, i really love you” but instead i have to ask, why dont you ever say i love you, or say give me a kiss w/o me having to ask you why dont you do these things? i dont know i figure its just a natural thing if a person’s in love right? I cant stand the thought of divorce cuz i really do love my wife ive never cheated on her and i dont think i ever will i have women every time i go anywhere say damn you fine or do you have a girlfriend and i tell them “wife” and they say “oh” and move on. what the f*** is going on here? its like my wife has failed to realize the obvious and even she has seen women try to talk to me in the grocery store when where like a couple of yards away but she will make a joke saying oh i heard you trying to talk to that girl. then im like come on you heard that girl trying to talk to me i didnt even say nothing to her. the she’ll say well you didnt try to stop her i say well no why would i do that i need me a compliment every once in a while too. how do i change this behaviour what should i do?

  70. lucia anna

    On September 24, 2010 at 6:44 pm


    Excellent

  71. The Ride

    On September 27, 2010 at 9:24 pm


    I can sum this up in a few words to begin and that is ” Oh my God!, I had no idea I was going to be in for such a wonderfully intense rollercoaster of extreme love & emotions, both high & low, the good the bad & not often the ugly”

    I’m an Aquarius Female & I adore my Cancer Man. I’m a free spirit but this boy’s love and care for me, sure tamed my wilder side slightly enough to make me want to be by his side.

    Totally agree with the semi flippant moodiness and the emotional manipulation, but I have come to understand this more and more as time has gone on and fingers crossed that I get better at responding to it, its been almost a few years now.

    There are times he has me feeling so loved and wanted and sitting on top of the world, and then there are other times, he appears so cold and confused which in turn confuses the hell out of me. The arguments are in abundance. But the bottom line is clear. And thats how we feel about each other.

  72. SagGirl

    On October 24, 2010 at 2:55 am


    To decoythegreat: I feel for you :( I was in an 8 year relationship with a Virgo man and most of the time, it was like kicking a dead horse. I hear Virgo females are even worst. It’s hard because your nature is to show/receive affection while a Virgo’s is to hold it in. They generally show a lot less emotion that probably all other Zodiacs. Either you will have to accept each other for what you are and also what you are not and maybe/hopefully have a serious talk about some of the things you “need” in order to be happy in the marriage. In any event, I wish you luck. My Virgo was a nightmare I’d soon wish to forget!

    As for the articles, it all sounds spot on. I have recently become involved with a Cancer male and it is like nothing I have ever experienced before. I can relate to the women above who feel like God has come down and blessed them with this seemingly perfect man (and I’m not even religious). I’m not a perfect match for a Cancer male but I’m working damn hard to ensure I do my part to keep things great. And so far, it’s worth it.

  73. Scorpio Love

    On December 21, 2010 at 2:22 pm


    I met my cancer man when he was living with this girl he said she was his room mate and that she was dating her lesbian friend and he was sleeping on the floor about 3 mths of knowing each other he moved out and in with me we dated for two years and i loved everything about him except his controlling ways, and his lies we broke up cuz i felt he was cheating on me…….. well come to find out he was and not with just one girl it was a few of them and one chick stated that she was pregnant by him ( total lie though) after we broke up he moved in with this 21 year old girl and her three kids and her mother. he is 31 and im 26 now we have gotten back to talking and we see each other on occassion where he tell’s me i still love you I dont’ love her but at the sametime he might say if you get married would u still sleep with me or im not going no where an neither are you know matter who we date. I still love him with all my heart but i know that he will never be what i want and he will always lie to get what he wants i.e. sercurity, money, whatever and i can’t deal with i wonder when will he grow up I know he loves me but is that enough plus im reaching a point in my life where i feel that he may not be the one for me im 26 no kids graduating from college live on my own taking care of me and he is 31 with 5 or 6 kids graduated from high school smokes everyday( not saying anything is wrong with that) and basically living off of this chick i guess i just feel that i deserve better but i still love him so what should i do?

  74. babyfudge

    On January 2, 2011 at 5:48 pm


    Kathy – you are absolutely spot on with your post below. SPOT ON. Be warned indeed.

    kathy

    On July 24, 2009 at 8:14 am

    Yes Cancer men are loveing, gentle, kind, and generous. But beware if you ever fall in love with one. They are insecure, crawling into their shell at the slightest provocation. They have the uncanny nack for knowing exactly what each woman they meet needs and they attempt to fill that need with acute accuracy. And she feels oh so special. The problem is, they do that with each woman they meet. So if your feeling “oh so special” you’re not really. They do this because it makes them feel superior, and in control. The one I know does this so well that he has every woman at his beckon call. He is like a shepher tending his flock as he invites each woman secretly into his confidence, again making them each feel very special. I warn you, you will not see this coming. You will be too blinded by his sublime charm to notice you’ve just been coralled. He is a con man when it comes to women. If your asking why he’s this way, it feeds his insecurities, boosts his ego but in the long run, his ego will never be filled. At least not by one woman. He needs several women to accomplish this, and no amount of love or understanding by one woman alone will do it for him. His quest for security is a life long endeavor. His needs are enormous; his demands are great. Good luck.

  75. no cancer for me

    On February 26, 2011 at 1:31 am


    I am a pisces, i am currently (kinda) seeing a cancer man. I have to admit, I don’t like it. I’m not patient enough (or young enough) to deal with the games and the constant guessing as what is going on in his head. One moment he super likes me and is afraid it won’t work out (cause he’s afraid of being a father to a 12 yr old, even though he also has a 5 yr old) so we end things. He then wants to start over. It keeps going back and forth from wanting just casual sex to starting over. When I end things, he lets me, but soon as we speak again it’s the bs of how much he likes me and how he can’t stop thinking about me. When it comes down to it, I find him boring, selfish, moody and he seems to think he is smarter than everyone and makes even his closet friends look and feel stupid in front of me. I have to admit, this man may have turned me off from Cancer men. FYI crying in bed is not sensitive, its annoying, no matter how much I say it’s ok.

  76. Jessica

    On March 2, 2011 at 4:43 pm


    wow, my cancer man is so hot. he wraps his lips around my…um, yeah and Im all his.

  77. No more Cancer for me

    On April 11, 2011 at 12:55 am


    The two Cancer men I have been involved with in my life are exactly what has been decribed in all above posts. Especially the warnings…
    I’ve also falllen in love with the two cancers at two very diffrent times in my life more deeply than my first aquarion husband of 10 years and now my aries (perfect match for a sag) man for the last 11 years…
    But I will run far away from the next cancer man that ever crosses my path again.

  78. SharifaMcFarlane

    On July 18, 2011 at 1:18 pm


    Lol. I wonder how much of this applies.

  79. lyalya

    On November 6, 2011 at 1:20 pm


    I am Leo divorce with two kids met this Cancer man also divorced with two kids… He is the most unreal man I ever knew…. I am deeply in love with him…The way how he holds me how he looks at me how he loves me… I can\’t get enough of him… I lost control of my self…. Whole world lost interest for me… he is my world…

  80. TAURUS 4 REAL

    On November 12, 2011 at 5:07 am


    Look I am a taurus who is very aware, when a Cancer man (BOY) walks in the room. He wares too much aftershave, goes on about how special it is to be MUSLIM and Moroccan ,and has just come back from a session where his mother has been breast feeding him for the last hour.

    Cancer MEN & WOMEN, should be left alone to destroy themselves. If you ever encounter them, RUN, they are the greatest ACTORS and LIARS in the world. IE. TOM CRUISE/JAMES BROLIN both have been married THREE Times.

    There is no trying to understand these FOOLS. I know from past experience , that all they want is to control you, and Slowly break down your self respect and diginity as an individual.NO REAL WOMAN would ever encounter a CANCER MALE- they are man childs, and one actually said that to a group of people,like anyone gave a f*** aka (YSEN), if thats his real name. They will flirt with you, insult you the next time, play mind games, talk about behind your face,disrespect you like you aint worth s**t!. then give them a year , they will act like they are your BEST FRIENDS-DONT EVER TRUST A CANCERIAN, THEY ARE MORE HARM THEN GOOD!

  81. KIKIADMANS

    On November 12, 2011 at 5:09 am


    Look I am a taurus who is very aware, when a Cancer man (BOY) walks in the room. He wares too much aftershave, goes on about how special it is to be MUSLIM and Moroccan ,and has just come back from a session where his mother has been breast feeding him for the last hour.

    Cancer MEN & WOMEN, should be left alone to destroy themselves. If you ever encounter them, RUN, they are the greatest ACTORS and LIARS in the world. IE. TOM CRUISE/JAMES BROLIN both have been married THREE Times.

    There is no trying to understand these FOOLS. I know from past experience , that all they want is to control you, and Slowly break down your self respect and diginity as an individual.NO REAL WOMAN would ever encounter a CANCER MALE- they are man childs, and one actually said that to a group of people,like anyone gave a f*** aka (YSEN), if thats his real name. They will flirt with you, insult you the next time, play mind games, talk about behind your face,disrespect you like you aint worth s**t!. then give them a year , they will act like they are your BEST FRIENDS-DONT EVER TRUST A CANCERIAN, THEY ARE MORE HARM THEN GOOD!

  82. CANCAP LOVE

    On November 18, 2011 at 11:52 am


    OK i’m using this to vent haha. anywho, im a cappy and i think i might really like this cancerian guy an i knw he does too. he’s so nice to me and im usually cool but now im getting emotional!!! ahhhhhh :( the simplest things he says I take as an offense and I don’t want that so now i’m being distant cause I don’t knw wht else to do… Help me somebody.

  83. Meow

    On March 28, 2012 at 8:00 am


    O_O

    My bf is a Cancer and he’s nothing like the whole “Iron my shirt” crap. XD. He lets me be the way I want.

    He does have his mood swings though, but I wouldn’t trade him for the world ^_^.

    - Scorp gal.

  84. Lost Cancer

    On April 21, 2012 at 2:04 am


    I am a Cancer man in love with a Virgo woman. I cannot read her. She runs hot and cold. Now she’s running from me. I have no idea what to do because I care so much for her. I want to give her the world because she’s mine. I don’t even know how she got through to me. Can anyone, especially a hardcore Virgo woman, help me? I want this to work. I know she’s tough. I want her to maintain her independence. I am not the sensitive, insecure Cancer.

  85. PiscesGal

    On May 5, 2012 at 1:22 pm


    I am a Pisces girl and have known my cancer guy for ten years. When we met, I had an instant crush, and now just as we graduate from high school, we realize we don’t want to lose one another. We aren’t dating; he in fact just got out of a short relationship, but I love him with all of my heart. When we look at eachother, it’s as if we read eachother’s minds, and nothing else matters in the world. There are times, however, when I fear he has been using me. No one wants to think of themselves being used by the one they love. Being a Pisces, I often dream about spending the rest of my life with him, but we’re nineteen. What should I do?

  86. Lovable

    On May 29, 2012 at 5:41 pm


    I currently met a cancer guy from my college. I instantly had a crush on him. So far he is to hard to figure out the article is very interesting as well as all the comments I have read. We have dated two times. I am usually myself so I don’t wait on his calls or anything. So far he just wants to be friends he explains to me everytime we talk or see each other that he likes me and he is attracted to me. I need some advice.

  87. akisa

    On July 22, 2012 at 1:50 am


    im a scorpio woman in love to a cancer man.scorpio and cancer is the best match made in heaven the attraction is strong since all my bf is a cancer guy until now.

  88. themoonchild

    On September 13, 2012 at 12:00 pm


    I dont know what to say, I\’m a 19 year old cancer male. and i\’m very much attracted to a scorp gal. I feel very shy almost for every girl i meet this one is not different too. i have no idea to overcome that.

  89. Jaixa

    On October 14, 2012 at 12:41 pm


    I just left my cancer man after 8 long years. What a wonderful lover, very giving, very loving, a wonderful provider and a great father BUT…he’s the biggest cheater I know. He’s cheated on me from day one and even went as far as to have a baby with another women behind my back. This CRUSHED me, seeing that we didn’t share any children together and didn’t even have a commitment to one another. People come up to me and tell me how many women he has, how much of a dog he is and I continued to trun a blind eye to it all. We had a wonderful friendship, a beautiful relationship other than the fact that he couldn’t keep it in his pants. I left him for 6 months and never fell out of love for him and decided to go back to see if we could work things out. Recently I caught him getting txts from some chick asking if she can come spend time with him, then lied to me about it. I’m done. This man has put me through hell and back with his lies and manipulation…and he swears he can’t die without me smh…beware of the cancer men, they sweep you of your feet but hurt you at the end

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