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The Main Ways Women Manipulate Men

Something every man should read.

Here are all the secrets boys!

We women have been manipulating men for decades because we know it works! I am going to let out the secret to how we do it! The reason for this is because I am now married and have learned that manipulating actually ruins your relationship! If there are women reading this, I hope that you realize how wrong manipulation actually is!

  1. Telling men what they want to hear

     Believe it or not we know exactly what men want to hear, what they like to hear, and what will make them give in! For example: if I want to go shopping, but we really don’t have the money or my husband doesn’t want to watch the kids I simply say that I need something or say that if he lets me do this then I will let him do what he wants to do. However when it comes time for him to go do that something then I find someway to argue with him until he gives up and once again I get my way on 2 separate occasions!

  2. Sex

    Obviously (at least obvious enough to me) men know that women use sex to manipulate them! Most guys will do anything for sex. There are more ways than actually having sex to manipulate though. All we women really have to do is dress in a sexy way and men bend over and kiss our feet. Guys if you want a tip to stop being manipulated in this manner quit thinking with what’s below!

  3. Whining

    We also know that if we whine about something long enough men will eventually give in so that they don’t have to listen to us whine anymore. Men- take a stand. My husband just ignores me, so after being ignored so long I stop whining and deal with the fact that the answer is no!

  4. Guilt

    If you have ever done anything that makes you feel guilty and your wife/girlfriend knows about it she will use it over and over again to get her way! The only way to stop this is to realize that whatever you did wrong if you both decided to get over it and make the relationship work then you shouldn’t feel guilty anymore. Learn to forgive yourself and remind her that she forgave you for that. Don’t give in!

  5. Head Games

    Women are masters at head games. We can think up things that we don’t even mean just to mess with you! We are pretty amazing if you really think about it! I mean if we don’t like something that you do we can talk you out of whatever it is and make it so that you never do it again without even knowing that’s what happened! The only way to spot this is if your woman is trying to get you to stop doing something you love and starts rambling on about all these reasons you shouldn’t do it this is what she is doing. I have learned this one the hard way. I used to try to do this to my husband, and it worked, however now that he doesn’t do anything anymore he is at home to drive me crazy and he is going crazy because he doesn’t have anything to do… so this actually works better if we girls steer clear of trying to manipulate and control our men in this way!

Those are the main ways women manipulate and control the men in our life. My advice is to stop manipulating, in the end it only makes things worse. Also for the men out there, take a stand! Don’t give in to your women manipulating you, eventually after not giving in for so long she will give up and stop manipulating you!

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  1. Redburn

    On July 3, 2008 at 1:37 pm


    So true, thx for the advice. We must be very careful with women, not only they drain time and money, they are very smart doing such things to a man. lol

  2. Teresa

    On July 13, 2008 at 6:41 am


    Hello there,

    You are right, but manipolation never worked for me in my relationship.

    Regards

    Teresa

  3. Eden Emersen

    On July 18, 2008 at 2:55 pm


    So true LOL :) Keep telling it straight up.

  4. Thx alot

    On July 30, 2008 at 4:00 am


    This was some refreshing honesty from a woman. I feel, unless you hook them up to a lie detector, most women wont admit how calculating they are in using emotional tricks to get their way.

  5. Kathleen

    On August 9, 2008 at 10:47 am


    Now, how about an article on how Men Manipulate Women?

  6. Ronnie

    On August 25, 2008 at 6:49 pm


    If a woman would ever try to manipulate men I would just kill her cause i don’t like my feelings and emotions being toyed with

  7. Alaina Ellington

    On November 4, 2008 at 2:04 pm


    I just completed an article entitled “Say I Love You Uniquely” Filled with great advice on romancing your special someone!

    If you would like to check it out
    copy and paste:

    http://www.squidoo.com/i-love-u

    Thanks for all the comments!!! I greatly appreciate the support!

    Sincerely,
    Jenysie

  8. Night9Hawk

    On November 12, 2008 at 11:18 am


    I’m curious to know what you think about what’s written on this website

    http://ladymisato.9ix.net/

    Do you think there’s any validity in the points she makes?

  9. Alaina Ellington

    On November 28, 2008 at 11:36 pm


    Night9Hawk,
    Which part of the page do you want to know about? There are a lot of different things on the page…

    Do I agree that Real Women Don’t do Housework? The answer to that would be no in my case…but every woman is different…what I mean is I am a stay at home mother, and of course I do housework, but my hubby pitches in…

    Please clarify which part of the page you would like me to view…

    oh and check out:

    http://www.jenysiejane.webs.com

    It’s a new website for writers to promote their work!!

  10. Devin

    On December 8, 2008 at 6:14 pm


    women are dumb, like dogs

  11. Hiwayman

    On January 9, 2009 at 9:52 pm


    Wymen have not only MANIPULATED men they have also
    MANIPULATED the legal system. Thats why any man these days that marry are just fools. And the wymen know it.Glad all those days are behind me now.

  12. katarina giselle

    On January 13, 2009 at 11:14 pm


    Well written..I disagree with the sex part though. my boyfriend knows im hypersexual so he only breaks down if hes really in the mood…usually he controls me with sex!

  13. James

    On January 18, 2009 at 10:20 pm


    Why should I not believe that you are trying to manipulate me, and other men, now with the disguise of trying to use honesty and telling us what we think we want to hear? :) Tricky Tricky!

    Good Try.

  14. Fornis

    On February 10, 2009 at 11:27 am


    Cool one! I wonder how much percentage of women do really manipulate? I think very few people do so. Statistics always speak for themselves.

  15. c.s. robins

    On February 25, 2009 at 11:13 am


    I agree with this mostly..except for number one. Telling men what they want to hear is one of the greatest sources of manipulation a woman uses against a man, but your description of this technique is not manipulation. It is simply begging and then not playing fair when it’s his turn to get something he wants. He will figure this out and remember it later next time you try try this. Telling them what they want to hear would be something like a great compliment or that they are right or making them think they are so in control…then they become preoccupied with these thoughts while you get away with a lot more stuff, or you get on his good side and he willingly gives you that shopping trip. But teh rest of really true! Especially the last one!

  16. MCD

    On March 31, 2009 at 9:21 pm


    People who manipulate have objectives that have nothing to do with who the other person is, but what that other person can provide for them (money, fame, sex…it’s rarely love). It can get ugly…

  17. shelly

    On April 15, 2009 at 4:36 pm


    As simple as this all sounds, i still have great difficulty getting my man sweet…or doing what i want without hard pursuasion… i can never do mindgames but i think i have to start doing some kind of manipulation cos he is quite hard to control hence him being an arab, but within that cultral dominance there is a soft side and i need to start working on how to use that so he can start being less dominante. i think my problem is im too direct i need to start letting him feel he is in control. I need advice

  18. Night9Hawk

    On April 16, 2009 at 11:02 am


    My appologies to Alaina Ellington-I forgot I had posted here and I’m just now getting back to you. When you were describing how women manipulate men I immediately thought of Lady Misato. I came across her website a couple of years ago on my way to other things and frankly I was stunned at some of the things she said. I initially took her site to be a typical fetish site with people going through the motions but the more I read what she described the more I was struck by how RIGHT she was about some men. The notion that some men could be manipulated into doing things for sex by appealing to their need to compete or accomplish things-i.e. to earn the right for release-sounded a bit like earning a paycheck for hard work or the result of doing some sort of task in a video game. I was curious to know what you thought of this sort of manipulation and where you thought it might fit into your list.

  19. Alaina Ellington

    On June 25, 2009 at 12:40 am


    Nighthawk…

    I would say that that would fit right into the sex category…women do use those types of manipulation and although it may be more out there, this type men don’t seem to mind…in fact they like it!
    so it may not be a bad game to play when using that type of manipulation…if that helps…

    this article is mostly on the ways women manipulate unsuspecting men…I wanted to let men know so that the manipulation can stop…I hope this answers your question…if not let me know…

    Thanks for your interest!!
    Alaina Ellington

  20. ShellyTex

    On August 5, 2009 at 9:42 am


    I agree with fornis and shelly. my husband and i are going to a marriage counselor and he has told me for quite sometime that i manipulate him with the past and with his personality. I’m not sure i even know how to do that. I don’t play mind games. I don’t play with people’s heads and emotions like that. I am very direct. I have simply told him how i feel and what I’m going through. I have brought up the past during certain arguements but only to let him know i still don’t trust him or i am still hurt but not to use it against him to get my way. I had no other agenda in mind. I think all of this is bolony and just another excuse for him to conjure up to make himself feel justified in what he is doing which is having an affair again.

  21. Alaina Ellington

    On August 5, 2009 at 4:14 pm


    ShellyTex,

    I do not think that ALL women manipulate, there are just a lot of women who do.
    Some women don’t even realize when they are doing it (men too) because it’s just something they do.

    You may not be manipulating your husband but the way you talk to him makes it sound like you are so maybe you should try a different approach.

    If your husband is having an affair ***again*** that is grounds to leave him! I would!! I have some advice about the situation but I won’t go into it here. If you would like to e-mail me you can,
    jenysiejane@gmail.com

    Just put who you are in the subject so I don’t delete it.

    Thanks for reading my article!
    AlainaEllington

  22. Matt

    On August 10, 2009 at 1:29 am


    Everyone manipulates. Children manipulate parents, parents manipulate children, partners manipulate each other, employees manipulat employers, employers manipulate employees. It’s the way life is programmed. The reason we manipulate is because we know we truly have no control over another being, and manipulation is a way to influence.

    Women manipulate men, and men manipulate women. I can speak for myself, and hopefully many other men: mature men know when women are playing the seduction or head games, and at least I enjoy it, and let them play . . . it is fun. As I have learned to decode their many of their manipulation behaviours (or at least that’s what I have experienced), I have fun with it, letting them think they are in control. When I see younger inexperienced guys hanging with their tongues hanging out, I chuckle, because they will reflect back and see how they were played. Women are significantly more adept than men in mind games, and no matter what coaching men take, we will never reach the emotional intelligence of women.

  23. chevy

    On September 27, 2009 at 10:18 pm


    manipulation is nothing less than witchcraft in God’s eyes.Those who do so are guilty of it.something to think about.

  24. Tiffany

    On October 22, 2009 at 7:12 pm


    I agree with Matt on this topic. Men are greatly mistaken if they think women are the only ones that manipulate. I see my bratty SEVEN yr old cousin manipulate his mom into buying him a new toy all the time. I can say that I’ve seen my boyfriend try to manipulate me before as well…I don’t think it’s fair to say just women do it. And sometimes, women do it for the own good of their man. I’ve convince my boyfriend to not hang out with his friends the other night just cause he has a lot to study for this week (and no, he didn’t hang out with me). The next day he thanked me cause he got a 100 on his quiz. Isn’t that manipulation? I want my boyfriend to be successful cause I love him. So manipulation isn’t always bad. And all the men above that posted things like “women are stupid” are just as foolish themselves because they manipulate just as much as we do.

  25. Ada

    On November 9, 2009 at 9:17 am


    WTF man, what are you talking about?
    I have always been in relationships where I was manipulated. I know a man who says openly that he is manipulating me. I always say what I think and dont care, it took me ages to learn how to stand up for myself.
    And now when I do what I please and dont let anyone cross the line, now I am not feminine enough, because I dont play the game.
    Please, is there anyone intelligent to express her/his opinion?

  26. Goodselfme

    On November 21, 2009 at 2:07 am


    I can honestly say I have not been a manipulating lady in my life. I have seen these things done or heard others talk about them and thought they were underhanded ways of getting out of discussion with their special man. Most loved ones will do things if some good reason is given. TX for the openness here and well composed too.

  27. David

    On December 2, 2009 at 11:16 pm


    I used to be manipulated easily by women, especially with guilt and various threats – like social pressure, etc… It used to make me so mad. I started to think that all women were huge liars. Then I realized that I fell for it because my mother had been doing all that stuff to me ever since I was young (SHe had a very traumatic childhood). When I discovered that and told her the games she was playing (she wasn’t even aware that she was doing it), I never felt easily manipulated after that and I started to be able to really have fun with a woman and learned to avoid the sneaky ones.

  28. tsoa

    On December 3, 2009 at 3:26 am


    Thanks for the eye openner. I’m having the same problem with my wife. She’s always trying to manipulate me through either sex or by playing head games. This is really messing up our merriage to a point that I’m considering a divorce. The only thing keeping this merriage together is our 1 year old son. It is very sad that it has to be this way. She was nothing like that when I met her.

  29. ryan

    On December 27, 2009 at 10:15 pm


    “The reason we manipulate is because we know we truly have no control over another being, and manipulation is a way to influence.”

    and what is the difference between controlling and “influencing through manipulation”?

    just different ways of saying the same thing.

  30. S A JOHNSON

    On March 30, 2010 at 11:45 pm


    Wow! @ Ben…

    I agree though that everyone can and does from time to time manipulate someone to get what they want.

  31. single4sanity

    On May 27, 2010 at 5:48 pm


    Yeah “ben” chill out. at least make a reasonable point, stupid.

  32. Sam

    On September 16, 2010 at 1:47 am


    You write all of this as if it’s funny to you. I hope that the ‘Women’ also understand that manipulating men with ‘head games’ that you so pridefully describe. Will actually get you wound up Dead! You talk as if men are somehow docile and will sit and accept this kind of treatment. Like any animal that attacks a man. he will defend himself from things that he perceives as threatening. So understand that manipulation just doesn’t mess up relationships, it can also get you Dead.

  33. jonny

    On September 19, 2010 at 12:30 pm


    if I ever decide to get back in the dating pool,I would date a foreign woman,mexican or european before I would ever date and American woman.American woman arent worth the hastle

  34. blaine1976

    On September 24, 2010 at 5:21 am


    I must say i don\’t find this funny at all. I have always been bothered by manipulation and the crap games women play either at work or at clubs to bend the truth and get what they want.

    One time i left a job because a female coworker told everyone i touched her when i tapped her on the shoulder(she did this to make her boyfriend pissed at me because he wasn\’t paying her enough attention at home; whereas i was just trying to do my job). And to be honest i didn\’t think it was funny i thought real hard about what i was planning to do to her. Luckily i cooled myself down.

    Lying and manipulating someones feelings is not something to be proud of. However i do realize it is something most American women do because they think they are smarter and more sophisticated than men in general.

    I agree with Jonny, i would not marry an American woman unless i knew her my whole life. Reason why is simple. American women are greedy, manipulative, liars that get off on seeing men suffer. They don\’t want to understand us. They want to control us. Screw that!!!

  35. Alaina Ellington

    On September 24, 2010 at 2:04 pm


    @ Blaine and Jonny

    Not all American women are like that…we are not all controlling and manipulating…and are you insinuating that women from other countries do not do that, because I would have to say that I don\’t believe that one bit!

    Sorry about your experience Blaine, there are women who want what they want and will go about getting it even at the cost of others. I hope that the situation was worked out!

    And as I stated in the article….I choose to not manipulate the man in my life. We have an honest relationship, and when I want something if the answer is no, then I leave it at that. Sometimes I will ask why, and he always has a good reason. He is the provider and the head of my household, a position I am grateful he holds because I wouldn\’t want that responsibility and he does it well…and I know that when he makes a decision he doesn\’t do it quickly or out of spite, he does it with our family\’s best interest.

    I would also like to say that there are men in america who like to be manipulated, or stay with women who they know manipulate them.

    Thank you both for reading and commenting :) I appreciate your opinions!

  36. blaine1976

    On September 25, 2010 at 4:21 am


    Thank you for the honest response. You may not know this Alaina but i can tell a lot about a person, even on a website. and you are definitely different. Most women would have just responded to my post with hostility but your response is both courteous and thought provoking.

    I am not necessarily saying women from different countries are the cream of the crop. I just don’t like being in the crossfire, when I’ve done nothing wrong and bills have to be paid. I apologize if my words came across as hostile.

    You are a refreshing light in this vast array of darkness. You might not want to hear it but you are rare indeed. Your husband is a lucky man.

  37. Tracy

    On November 6, 2010 at 11:29 am


    Personally I think the title should say ’some women’. Don’t tar everyone with the same brush. We are not all heartless. Some of us actually genuinely ‘care’ about how our man is feeling, and how he grows in the world ‘i.e. lives his own pleasures and passions and feels fulfilled as a human being.

  38. Dan

    On November 12, 2010 at 3:56 am


    Women are raised to be sensitive and irrational.

    All a man needs is standards.

    “This is what I want, if you can’t give it to me then tough, I’ll find someone who will.”

    She’ll either cry about it, curse you or stay with you.

    Simple.

  39. marcia boardman

    On November 21, 2010 at 4:00 pm


    What a load of chauvinistic bull… Excuse me I am married and have been with the sam man for 6 years. Yes I am very guilty of manipulation. But its only because men are just as manipulative and if you do not take the matter into your own hands you will be the one controlled. Which it sounds like is the case with you. Please stop trying to brain wash other women the way you have been, its hard being a women in a mans world. We only have so many weapons to counteract theirs and I will damned if I see another women trying to talk us out of protecting ourselves.

  40. Victoria

    On November 24, 2010 at 3:41 pm


    I manipulate people often because I’m a psych and know exactly how. I also know exactly when and how anyone is attempting to manipulate me.

    BUT

    I never manipulate for the wrong reasons. I never try to get money from my husband for shopping, etc. These things will always come back to bite you in the ass (karma). My tactics are always for good reason. For example: I manipulated my husband to stop drinking when we met. It takes patience and the perfect choice of words. He was an alcoholic but he was also one of the kindest souls I’d ever come across. He hasn’t been drunk in a year now.

    Usually I can manipulate most people to act more positively toward life and other people. I can’t stand negativity and I use my skills to change their behavior. I’ve never admitted to anyone that I used manipulation techniques to help them. My husband still believes he stopped drinking without any help.

    Don’t use your ability to manipulate men for the wrong reasons. It will only hurt you in the end.

  41. Paul Dyer

    On November 26, 2010 at 4:56 pm


    My wife has played truly horrible mind games since we were married almost 26 years ago. This is how it works- She goes into an angry mood to let me know she is upset, and to place pressure on me withdraws vocal communication & practical & emotional support. This has always completely floored me and my response has always been to try and reason with her – unsuccessfully, of course, because she never intends to be reasonable. So it is me who starts nutting off and eventually in frustration I go completely haywire to the point of violence, smashing things and – several times – assaulting her. I have twice been arrested and spent time in police cells, both times escaping conviction as she declined to testify. She gets me back repentant and willing to make amends until the next event occurs. Talking with her about this has never been any good, it will happen again as invariably as the sun comes up each morning. Our two children have been in the middle of this all their lives. We all four are victims of this terrible situation, my wife just as much but in my opinion not for the reasons she believes. I have watched Dr Phil on TV extensively, and he says people who play the victim role victimize others, and that is certainly true for us. I see no way out of this other than leaving, or learning not to fall into the trap but that is not easy. Each time the situation is different and the feeling of isolation in all ways is always complete.

  42. Mace

    On January 24, 2011 at 5:28 pm


    Agree, any man in the US who marries a woman without a good pre-nup is making a huge mistake. My ex-wife used to manipulate me with threats of divorce. Every time she’d do this, I would shiver in fear… “my other daddy”…child support…half of everything I owned…humiliation. She threatened to divorce me daily for years until, finally, as my business was turning the corner, I called her bluff and got her out of my life for good.

  43. Dex

    On January 30, 2011 at 11:33 pm


    After my wife played all the manipulation games, especially withholding sex I decided I didn’t care anymore and had enough. Sex wasn’t worth it anymore. So….I now withhold all emotions and sex from her. Game playing at it’s best you could say. I endured 12 years of it so 1.5 years isn’t so bad for her to handle. Totally throws a woman for a loop when you no longer show an interest in sex and say you don’t feel up to it anymore. Take that and no touching of any kind and keep she’s only a room mate mindst and it becomes quite devestation to a wife/woman’s’ mindset. We all reep what we sow.

  44. Alana Deschannel

    On May 5, 2011 at 7:45 am


    Sounds like some of you women are just wimps or you believe that relationships actually ARE a 50-50 deal? They’re not and never have been. That’s an illusion. It’s wonderful to be in charge of a relationship and a gift we women have over men. I learned to wrap boys around my finger when I was 12 and never regretted it. Don’t give your power away, ladies.

  45. James

    On May 5, 2011 at 4:49 pm


    She might never catch on and divorce your ass and take everything you have, including the kids, too!

  46. mike

    On August 25, 2011 at 11:11 pm


    ill never let a woman manipulate me again, its way to much pain and suffering. now im looking for sex without a relationship, but that proves to be challenging because we all know how the game is. the only thing women are better at are giving birth and manipulation, men built this world with hard work and intellect..

  47. Noneofyourbiz

    On August 30, 2011 at 10:11 pm


    “Believe it or not, we know exactly what men want to hear.”

    “Most guys will do anything for sex.”

    “We also know that if we whine about something long enough men will eventually give in so that they don’t have to listen to us whine anymore.” (I LoL’ed at this one).

    You sound like a god damn fool.
    I don’t know who makes you (that being plural, I’m assuming you saying we means you saying “we women”) can’t assume you know what men (assuming all men) want to hear, since every person is different.
    You haven’t met “most guys”, so you don’t know what “most guys” will do for sex. Most guys that I HAVE MET won’t do “anything” for sex…

    I have a girlfriend. I don’t need to go out of my way for sex. We love each other and it comes naturally. It is safe to say that, for a lot of other men, it is the same. To say most men will do anything for sex is immature, and damn right foolish.

  48. Joe

    On October 24, 2011 at 9:23 am


    Alaina Ellington sounds like a low class bitch. Why would you be proud of these things?

  49. LR

    On December 29, 2011 at 4:36 pm


    @Devin
    Exactly, women are really like dogs, not men and that’s why abusive, manipulative women get abused back from men they manipulate and abuse and lose their children to their man. Men retaliate when women are in control. Believe it or not, women are actually more manipulative than men.

    @Alana Deschannel
    It’s something girls are taught to do plus head games where women shut up and ignore their man too much.

  50. Twc

    On January 18, 2012 at 2:03 pm


    so this is why domestic violence is so high these days lol this is so pathetic… these kinda behaviors can get you killed… you shouldn\’t toy with ppls emotions that\’s for us men too! \’\'go shopping\’\’ bitch get a job!!

  51. LR

    On March 13, 2012 at 11:10 pm


    @Twc-It’s because women love to manipulate men all the time and toy with men’s feelings and emotions. In other words, female players, or bad girls, are more likely to get killed in relationships than good girls are, yet society teaches women to be female players and toy with men all the time and make men get very jealous and obsessive. I hear of men strangling female players, for example.

  52. LR

    On March 13, 2012 at 11:16 pm


    @Twc-It’s because women love to manipulate men all the time and toy with men’s feelings and emotions. In other words, female players, or bad girls, are more likely to get killed in relationships than good girls are, yet society teaches women to be female players and toy with men all the time and make men get very jealous and obsessive. I hear of men strangling female players, for example.

  53. Jorge Mattarazzo

    On April 1, 2012 at 9:17 pm


    Hello, my name is Jorge and i just got married with an American woman about 7 mo ago (sorry ’bout my english). She came to Brazil 2 years ago and when we meet everything was great; she was very sweet and gave a lot of attention. But in the last 5 mo i start to see her true colors and she really likes to manipulate me in every way – also a lot of those “head games”. I gave her everything from romantic dinners, flowers weekly, lots of romance, buy her things, a 300k house where we both live and so many things that even my friends laugh about because i came to deep in this relationship. Yes, i lost a lot of money (she does not work) but I’m about to get a stop in this crap and send her back to America. It’s amazing what a woman can do with a man. But that’s ok. This is a good article and information and education is power. Good bye marriage, I’m going to find a brazilian, vietnamiese, anything but a greed woman from Alabama US.

  54. Ryan

    On June 19, 2012 at 10:51 pm


    Women manipulate. They do so because it is in their nature to do so. They can’t help themselves. Half way between a child and an adult you will find a creature know as a woman. Impish.

    Don’t be mad at them or hate them for what they are. That’s like hating pepperoni pizza because it is spicy. Duh, of course it’s spicy!

    Just quit expecting to see things that are not there. True commitment, no. Relationship of convenience, yes. True love, no. Loving nature while her needs are being met, yes. Equality, no. You will find her speaking of equality, and still I’ve yet to meet a woman who wants to sign up with the Selective Service.

    Love is an anomaly. A rare phenomena that occurs IN SPITE of our animal instincts to mate…and mate often. It is social conditioning sprinkled with a little dopamine.

    Ask yourself how much would you love that loud, argumentative, pushy, whiny, spoiled, entitled little imp if her vagina were sewn shut never to be available again?

    Not much.

    Just as the motto on money says In God We Trust…

    The motto of love should say In Vagina We Lust…

    I used to be the worst offender at seeing women in an angelic light. Now, I have studied PUA for several years and it has taught me every trick they use. I know what they are thinking and doing before they do. I see compliance tests coming a mile away and blast them out of the water. I penetrate bitch shields with an arrogant glare. I interrupt. I don’t hold the door. I don’t look when they clearly want me to. I honestly could give a fuck less about any woman any more.

    And you know what?

    I can’t keep them off with a stick now.

    Go figure.

    Once you start expecting a pepperoni pizza to taste like the pepperoni pizza that it is, you no longer will be fooled or angry. Women are here to accompany us, men, while it suits us in our journey. They are here to bear our children. That’s it.

    You want “love”, get a dog.

  55. NET

    On August 21, 2012 at 11:54 am


    I just went through this with a “girl” I used to like at work, at first I wasn’t sure if she was manipulating me courtesy of showing signs of interest via flirting. I should also add that when I mentioned her in conversation to someone else one random day, I did say she was a manipulative bitch, just once, but even before that was said, the signs of flirting (manipulative or not) from her were already there for at least a couple months. How she found out about that before addressing me, I don’t know, but when things came to a head, as I’ll describe later, she kept hanging on to and mentioning this 1 thing I did, and refusing to address what I had observed and brought to her attention. Where as anything she asked and addressed to me, I responded with the truth, to the best of my knowledge and memory that is, but I never dodged a question.

    I’ll admit I didn’t even notice the flirting at first, it was only when I started to catch her staring at me then turning away quickly when my eyes met hers that I began to dig into this and wonder “Why was she doing that, and only to me?”. I hadn’t seriously looked for a lady to attempt to have a relationship with for a while since I was focused on goals I had set for myself, but figured, “Hey, she might be interested in me. I do groom myself well, have women look at me all the time in passing, been referred to as handsome by quite a few women I know, and I find her attractive. Why not see where it may go?”

    Something though in the back of my mind said she might be manipulating me so she can feel good about herself or some other reason, so I let her continue a little further over the next few weeks just to make sure I might be right. The main thing was me catching her looking at me, and even in shady ways too, like looking off a mirror, or looking at me hiding behind an object to where I couldn’t 100% see her eyes and she could safely pull away before I could catch her, if I even looked her way, which lately, I avoided for the most part. I could also feel when she was looking at me, and didn’t even need to look. Along with that, she would also use Facebook as part of her arsenal, since I didn’t see her too often because of the opposite lives we live (she basically does nothing but work as she has 2 jobs while trying to put $ away for future schooling and savings for a rainy day) and that was our main source of communication. She likes to text, and short text at that, I like to talk / type out what I say after putting deep thoughts into what I’m going to say.

    Well, I manned up and dealt with her about this, face to face, because I refused to go along with this “game” anymore, and in spite of making my stand and being in the right, based on being able to list exactly what she had done in the past (compared to her dodging the questions and what I had to say like a guilty criminal lying under oath), acted very childish, and even deleted me off her Facebook friends list as I later found out. Good riddance is all I have to say!

    The sad thing was we had developed quite the bond (met through a friend we both have) and I was supportive of her going back to school (for nursing) and really did wish nothing but the best for her. When she went through hell at the end of last year via a fire and water damage to her place, I was willing to offer my help if she needed it, so before I come across as a manipulative man to anyone, that I am not. I offered out of the goodness of my heart when I didn’t have to do anything at all, just like I did for a co-worker of mine recently who needed some $ to help get by since he is currently on the shelf with car troubles (we work in pizza delivery and its kind of hard to deliver without a working car!).

    I will find myself a good woman someday, because I know they’re not all like whom I just dealt with. To the others here who have gone through the pain also, I now know how you feel. To the good honest women who have posted here and out in the world, you are appreciated, and the men in your lives are very lucky to have you.

  56. NET

    On August 21, 2012 at 11:58 am


    I just went through this with a girl I used to like at work, at first I was not sure if she was manipulating me courtesy of showing signs of interest via flirting. I should also add that when I mentioned her in conversation to someone else one random day, I did say she was a manipulative bitch, just once, but even before that was said, the signs of flirting (manipulative or not) from her were already there for at least a couple months. How she found out about that before addressing me, I do not know, but when things came to a head, as I will describe later, she kept hanging on to and mentioning this 1 thing I did, and refusing to address what I had observed and brought to her attention. Where as anything she asked and addressed to me, I responded with the truth, to the best of my knowledge and memory that is, but I never dodged a question.

    I will admit I did not even notice the flirting at first, it was only when I started to catch her staring at me then turning away quickly when my eyes met hers that I began to dig into this and wonder Why was she doing that, and only to me?. I had not seriously looked for a lady to attempt to have a relationship with for a while since I was focused on goals I had set for myself, but figured, Hey, she might be interested in me. I do groom myself well, have women look at me all the time in passing, been referred to as handsome by quite a few women I know, and I find her attractive. Why not see where it may go?

    Something though in the back of my mind said she might be manipulating me so she can feel good about herself or some other reason, so I let her continue a little further over the next few weeks just to make sure I might be right. The main thing was me catching her looking at me, and even in shady ways too, like looking off a mirror, or looking at me hiding behind an object to where I could not 100% see her eyes and she could safely pull away before I could catch her, if I even looked her way, which lately, I avoided for the most part. I could also feel when she was looking at me, and did not even need to look. Along with that, she would also use Facebook as part of her arsenal, since I did not see her too often because of the opposite lives we live (she basically does nothing but work as she has 2 jobs while trying to put $ away for future schooling and savings for a rainy day) and that was our main source of communication. She likes to text, and short text at that, I like to talk / type out what I say after putting deep thoughts into what I am going to say.

    Well, I manned up and dealt with her about this, face to face, because I refused to go along with this whatever it was anymore, and in spite of making my stand and being in the right, based on being able to list exactly what she had done in the past (compared to her dodging the questions and what I had to say like a guilty criminal lying under oath), acted very childish, and even deleted me off her Facebook friends list as I later found out. Good riddance is all I have to say!

    The sad thing was we had developed quite the bond (met through a friend we both have) and I was supportive of her going back to school (for nursing) and really did wish nothing but the best for her. When she went through hell at the end of last year via a fire and water damage to her place, I was willing to offer my help if she needed it, so before I come across as a manipulative man to anyone, that I am not. I offered out of the goodness of my heart when I did not have to do anything at all, just like I did for a co-worker of mine recently who needed some $ to help get by since he is currently on the shelf with car troubles (we work in pizza delivery and its kind of hard to deliver without a working car!).

    I will find myself a good woman someday, because I know they are not all like whom I just dealt with. If anything, I hope that what i dealt with is the minority and not the majority. To the others here who have gone through the pain also, I now know how you feel. To the good honest women who have posted here and out in the world, you are appreciated, and the men in your lives are very lucky to have you.

  57. NET

    On August 21, 2012 at 12:00 pm


    I just went through this with a girl I used to like at work, at first I was not sure if she was manipulating me courtesy of showing signs of interest via flirting. I should also add that when I mentioned her in conversation to someone else one random day, I did say she was a manipulative bitch, just once, but even before that was said, the signs of flirting (manipulative or not) from her were already there for at least a couple months. How she found out about that before addressing me, I do not know, but when things came to a head, as I will describe later, she kept hanging on to and mentioning this 1 thing I did, and refusing to address what I had observed and brought to her attention. Where as anything she asked and addressed to me, I responded with the truth, to the best of my knowledge and memory that is, but I never dodged a question.
    I will admit I did not even notice the flirting at first, it was only when I started to catch her staring at me then turning away quickly when my eyes met hers that I began to dig into this and wonder Why was she doing that, and only to me?. I had not seriously looked for a lady to attempt to have a relationship with for a while since I was focused on goals I had set for myself, but figured, Hey, she might be interested in me. I do groom myself well, have women look at me all the time in passing, been referred to as handsome by quite a few women I know, and I find her attractive. Why not see where it may go?
    Something though in the back of my mind said she might be manipulating me so she can feel good about herself or some other reason, so I let her continue a little further over the next few weeks just to make sure I might be right. The main thing was me catching her looking at me, and even in shady ways too, like looking off a mirror, or looking at me hiding behind an object to where I could not 100% see her eyes and she could safely pull away before I could catch her, if I even looked her way, which lately, I avoided for the most part. I could also feel when she was looking at me, and did not even need to look. Along with that, she would also use Facebook as part of her arsenal, since I did not see her too often because of the opposite lives we live (she basically does nothing but work as she has 2 jobs while trying to put $ away for future schooling and savings for a rainy day) and that was our main source of communication. She likes to text, and short text at that, I like to talk / type out what I say after putting deep thoughts into what I am going to say.
    Well, I manned up and dealt with her about this, face to face, because I refused to go along with this whatever it was anymore, and in spite of making my stand and being in the right, based on being able to list exactly what she had done in the past (compared to her dodging the questions and what I had to say like a guilty criminal lying under oath), acted very childish, and even deleted me off her Facebook friends list as I later found out. Good riddance is all I have to say!
    The sad thing was we had developed quite the bond (met through a friend we both have) and I was supportive of her going back to school (for nursing) and really did wish nothing but the best for her. When she went through hell at the end of last year via a fire and water damage to her place, I was willing to offer my help if she needed it, so before I come across as a manipulative man to anyone, that I am not. I offered out of the goodness of my heart when I did not have to do anything at all, just like I did for a co-worker of mine recently who needed some $ to help get by since he is currently on the shelf with car troubles (we work in pizza delivery and its kind of hard to deliver without a working car!).
    I will find myself a good woman someday, because I know they are not all like whom I just dealt with. If anything, I hope that what i dealt with is the minority and not the majority. To the others here who have gone through the pain also, I now know how you feel. To the good honest women who have posted here and out in the world, you are appreciated, and the men in your lives are very lucky to have you.

  58. why are these monsters allowed to live?

    On November 8, 2012 at 3:31 pm


    Fight fire with fire I say a knife in the throat and a grave in the woods for every female scum on this planet. I for one stopped living at their rule, I have seen the true filth inside of women and will never associate with or aid one out of my own will. I live for myself only and despise men who protect and justify women.

    Ever noticed how women get really upset when they realize you have seen the truth about them, and their wiles have no effect on you? I know I would be scared too if I were such a vile creature and I knew all my evil and trickery to be revealed to those around me! I’d run for my life!

    See if theyre still looking for benefits and being a sparkling head-game princess manipulates-all-around-her when they’re down under. Fucking scum all you can do is lie, hide, steal and let others do the work whatever the case.

    Your evil won’t go on forever. You think men will never seek justice because of your wombs and you’re wrong.

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