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The Scorpio Man

An overview of the incredibly sexy Scorpio Man.

October 24 ~ November 22

Looking for love with a Scorpio Man? Lustful and passionate would be the most appropriate adjectives to describe what you are about to encounter. The Scorpio Man will allow you to travel to the depths of your soul. For you see, his love making is to be experienced by only the very daring. Extreme intimacy will easily be realized. It might take you aback at how sensual this man can be, but if you can last with equal intensity, then this will be the ultimate man for you.

Amazingly, passion runs in all facets of the Scorpio Man’s life. His descriptive words and excited hand gestures show just how much or how little certain things mean to him. Overly dramatic, perhaps, but his point needs to come across loud and clear. It’s just his way. His very sexy way.

If safety is what you seek, then turn around now and close the door quietly behind you. The Scorpio Man prefers to live life to it’s fullest. That could mean deciding to take on every hot-blooded woman in his path or it could just mean surrounding his home with the finest luxuries. A bit excessive, probably, but his choices lead to an intriguing lifestyle. One brimming with ideas and mystery. The Scorpio Man favors a high intellect. He searches for real meaning to his existence, you could even see it’s one of his favorite pastimes. He also values an honest opinion and in return isn’t afraid to give it either. If your dress is dull, he’ll let you know. If you take his breath away, he will whisper with utmost sincerity, just how beautiful you really are. If you seek truth, then grab his arm, the world awaits.

With passion comes danger at times. Beware the seething Scorpio temper. It is not to be taken lightly. In fact, if it can be at all avoided, please do so at all costs. Tornados and hale storms combined wouldn’t begin to show you how devastating this collision would be to pass through. Although, it too shall pass. Once the smoke and haze clears, your wide-eyed innocent Scorpio will look at you with bewildered eyes and hope all will be forgiven.

The Scorpio Man is inquisitive. Questions will need to be answered. It’s a bit deceiving to think the Scorpio Man is trusting. Sadly, paranoid would be more like it. Words from his lips might sting if he feels betrayed. Jealousy is always quietly looming. An undeniable fury is brewing at all times. Be very careful if you have even the slightest flirtatious nature. If you pass the rigor of tests he has diligently prepared for you, then romance will no doubt commence.

The Scorpio Man will lavish you with loyalty. Never doubt how much he values your love, you’d only have to look into his eyes to know just how much. Sincerity and honesty are highly valued here. The Scorpio Man has an uncanny ability to see through lies and shallow words.

The Scorpio Man will make an amazing father. Stern when it is called for and wise beyond his years when his young need to be advised. The head of the table is custom made for this honorable man. Family is always his top priority.

At the end of a long day, the Scorpio Man will be the one you curl up in bed with. He will hold you, comfort you, and express so eloquently how deeply you’re cherished. There has never been a man quite like him in your life before. He is a most remarkable man who stands miles apart from all others. Be wise, and accept the challenge that is extended in love. In all his fantastic glory, and majestic presence, you will never be the same again.

Famous Scorpio Celebrities

  • Dylan McDermott ~ October 26, 1961,
  • Joaquin Phoenix ~ October 28, 1974,
  • Matthew McConaughey ~ November 4, 1969,
  • Ethan Hawke ~ November 6, 1970,
  • Leonardo Dicaprio ~ November 11, 1974,
  • David Schwimmer ~ November 2, 1966,
  • Chris Noth ~ November 13, 1954,
  • Danny Devito ~ November 17, 1944,
  • Owen Wilson ~ November 18, 1968,
  • Nick Lachey ~ November 9, 1973
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  1. Paul LaVelle333

    On September 8, 2008 at 9:52 pm

    Astrologically flattering, must admit to the jealousy angle, certain John Lennon song comes to mind, lol Nov17, another good article

  2. shelli

    On November 4, 2008 at 10:10 pm

    Very interesting

  3. jai

    On November 26, 2008 at 4:59 am

    I am so in love with a man that fits that description to a T

  4. junko

    On December 8, 2008 at 11:12 am

    totally the same!
    i agree 100% with the article here…

    coz i’ve been dating a scorpio man now for quite a long time.
    he is exactly what is said in this article.

    the last part s what i always waited for at the end of every day…

  5. justin

    On January 2, 2009 at 3:37 am

    Right about it, unfortunately even for the temper part, although they always make us sound so crazy, even when we’re mad it’s from love. That’s why we’re good in the performing arts, not so much in the trusting department I’m afraid.

  6. Tony James

    On February 3, 2009 at 3:59 pm

    Being a scorpio isnt at all easy, I have lots of horror stories to tell about things that have happened to me. As a scorpio male we are analytical to each extreme, and most often are correct. Passion there is no lack for, Anything we decide to undertake regardless of what is required, what stands in our way, or who we hurt along this path. If anyone could move a mountain it would be a scorpio. The problem lies in getting us to commit to something, anything for that mater.

    Being a typical scorpio I have 50 different hobbies, I explore each with a burning passion that never seems to be satisfied. I have a very hard time at work because I simply refuse to obey someone whom I find inferior to me, I must go through at least 20 jobs a year. This passed tax season has been quite fun rounding up W2 forms from companies who hate you with everything that they are.

    To my friends I am the most strange and enigmatic person they have ever met. To my lovers I am the most mysterious, generous, loyal, and affectionate man they have ever had the misfortinue to have met. I have no shortage of comments about my sexuality, I take all of which to be flattery and absolutely disgusting. I much prefer it when they comment about how much of an insufferable smart ass I am.

    In short: I am scorpio. I am strange, Buyer beware.

  7. dan

    On February 4, 2009 at 7:14 pm

    omg thats my boyfriend 100%

    I believe !

  8. dani not dan lol

    On February 4, 2009 at 7:16 pm

    I love my boyfriend ! amazin article

  9. bojinkse3

    On February 22, 2009 at 5:04 pm

    I’m a cancer and I’ve been seeing a scorpio for a little bit and he is very argumentive. During sex it was not as compasionate as people say they are, but he did kinda cudle with me. I don’t know how to take him most of the time meaning i dont know if he really likes me. I feel like he is sneaky and he has alot to hide.

    I keep hearing that we are compatible but it dosent feel like it. Me being a cancer I dont feel like he really likes me and it hurts because I’am afraid of being hurt. During sex I’m shy and somewhat distant and he hardley cared. I feel as though he’s not interested in me.


  10. saz

    On March 16, 2009 at 9:51 pm

    well iam fish and the guy i have met is Scorpio and they say this is the best match out of all the star signs, well i am very exited about this, but time will show

  11. Rose Akantha

    On March 19, 2009 at 1:32 am

    I am a Aries with Cancer rising. My Husband a Capricorn with Scorpio rising. Even though the books tell me, us, we are not compatible, let me tell you, we are!

    Yes, he has secrets, he will be sneaky. Each Scorpio will be different, find out their exact b-day with time and place go here:
    and with that find out what their ascendant is.
    Most likely some wont be true Scorpio’s and others will.

    What I love about my Husband is.. His fierce love for me, his loyalty, his stamina, OMG his stamina! his jealousy over me, his possessiveness of me, his fierceness, intenseness, his piercing eyes, his mystery. And I must say he chased after me, for 2 days, then on the 3rd I couldn’t resist anymore, I gave in and the rest is happy paradise.

    Life wont always be paradise, oh no, but he will be bluntly honest, he will have roaming eyes, but as long as he comes home to you, all is good. He will seem distant, trying the water.

  12. Nicky

    On April 2, 2009 at 7:42 pm

    A feminists worse nightmare…. but if your patient and understand him Scorpio men are very very addictive. Take your time, go slow. The worse thing you can do is be easy to bed, they’re looking for someone rare, someone special. Be thick skinned because they often say things they don’t mean when they’re hurt specially in the beginning. Be patient….. if you are that will single you out as rare. The Scorpio man will deeply appreciate special old fashioned feminine qualitys.

  13. Nicky

    On April 2, 2009 at 7:50 pm

    I have a wonderful Scorpio husband, who’s a great Dad, but most people do not understand him (aries rising makes this even harder). I’m his fiercest ally, we’re like Bonnie n Clyde…. the relationship is intense but great. He’s the boss…. be prepared to feel like a princess (but in turn be mindful of your place and avoid acting like a man).

  14. Nicky

    On April 2, 2009 at 7:54 pm

    The more you give into him whilst remaining a strong character the more he’ll find it impossible to resist you and genuinely fall in love with you.

  15. Taurus

    On April 12, 2009 at 10:14 am

    Im a taurus n my man a scorpio,he the love of my life,been togethere 2yrs n its all still as exciting as it as it was in the beginning,its the best ever…i agree a 100% with what it says about them x

  16. Sarah

    On April 24, 2009 at 10:48 am

    My star sign is cancer and I have been with a scorpio for 2 Years and 1 Month now. I totally agree with this article! my boyfriend is the most romantic, loyal and loving guy I have EVER been with. He does anything and everything for me and I couldn’t imagine life without him. And yes I agree with the temper part, he has a very short fuse, but none the less he always apologizes for his outburts.

  17. PaHRiZ

    On May 3, 2009 at 9:15 pm

    It is shocking to me how accurate some of this astrology stuff is. I really cannot emphasize enough how unique scorpios are. Every woman I’ve ever had a relationship with has been stunned by the width and depth of their feelings for me. I’m amazed by how crazy my relationships are…and I can’t speak for all scorpios, but generally we are not easy either…we are hard to catch and bed…we are seemingly moody though, lol…justifiably moody I think

  18. Dee

    On May 28, 2009 at 2:03 pm

    Oh my God, this is so true. Once you get passed the temper thing it’s heaven. I’ve been with my boyfrien for a year now and I will never ever be with anyone else again. He blew me away with romance and loving ways. The best!!!Once you have a scorpio you never go back to anyone else…..

  19. nikki

    On June 3, 2009 at 8:40 am

    ive been in love i guess more than twenty years had kids with some else left him still in love with damn scorpio trying to get him to see how much i love him their incredible and intense

  20. SFR

    On June 16, 2009 at 1:16 am

    I’m a Cancer and my man to be is a Scorpio…We went through a series of unconditional love test(s) where we were apart and longing for each other secretly…

    He was so happy to hear from me…

    I know it is gonna work out this time; its inevitable that we are going to be together because he is my Twin Flame…

    I know in my heart-of-hearts that this time it is “for-keeps”

    The article decribes my Scorpio Lover 100%


  21. Malkia

    On June 21, 2009 at 3:51 pm

    okay plz no judgements on ur behalf..
    i met a scorpio man almost 2 weeks ago.. and from the second we lay eyes on eachother.. i blv we both felt something.after a couple of days of meeting up at the place he works at (since we all hang out there) i find out hes dating this girl with him at the workplace for 3 to 4 months. 3 days ago.. he invited me over and we ended up making out (dont judge me i couldnt help myself).. but i stopped it before it got too far although he really wanted to go on.. i didnt show up yesterday but tonight we go to his place.. things happen but is stopped by him saying “its still early i want to tease u more” with a devilish smirk on his face(we do tease eachother alot)…
    anyways my question here is: would a scorpio just cheat for the fun of it? is this guy just fooling around? i dont see him happy with his girl but what do i know:S.. and i really think i could fall hard for him.. help!

    oh and im a libra woman and i AM fascinated by a scorpio man’s character and ferocity!

  22. shaka

    On July 9, 2009 at 6:47 pm

    I’m with a scorpio man an he is very sweet and loving… i love him so much mainly because he loves me. i’m a leo woman and i know that me and scorpios arent that compatible but i love my scorpio. He’s just so real and passionate. All scorpios arent thae same though

  23. Jenn

    On July 16, 2009 at 11:43 pm

    I had a first date with my Scorpio man on Monday night. We spent Tuesday night together (slept over). It was great. He held me all night long. We had some texting on Wednesday, just about how our day was going. But had no communication on Thursday. Should I be worried? I don’t want to smother him.

  24. Jane

    On July 20, 2009 at 10:29 am

    I met my scorpio man Fri. He was very passionate that night. The next day he wanted to spend the day with me. I changed all my plans for him. He questioned me intensly with deep questions when i was not expecting it. Questions only someone interested in a serious relationship would ask. When he holds me in his arms I feel so safe. When I am close to him I feel like our spirits are mixing. It is a weird intense feeling. Again we made love with great passion and he kissed everything even my toes. Now for two days I feel great like my life is in slow motion. I can not concentrate on my job. I am an Aquarius and afraid of losing control with this man but I know if he wants to see me I am helpless.

  25. Queen of the Nile

    On August 2, 2009 at 8:26 pm

    Hello everyone,

    I met a scorpio man almost 2 years ago but he was in a relationship and so did I. I could not come too close to him becuase of my marriage relationship. Recently I have been separated and going through a divorce. I started texting him and he has been replying back and forth in the past 3 days. He asked me to come over his place today, he wanted to show me what he is all about, and his new car. Could these be signs taht he is getting more interested in me? Can you tell how will I know if Scorpio man is interseted? What can I do to help keep the relationship growing? By the way I am a cancer woman which is supposed to be Scorpio soul mate.

  26. AA

    On August 8, 2009 at 1:53 am

    I am a scorpio female.(28) And my boyfriend is a scorpio as well. But he he is older then I am. Just the way I like it.

    I am sure that the first thing that many people will ask is who X rated is your sex life? LOL. Let me put it this way, you are way to young to know, even if you are older then me. I would make you blush. Needless to say, there are very few limits that we won’t cross together.

    We are very honest with one another. We have been upfront about the things we like and the things we don’t. Go figure we like the same kinds of things.

    We never gaze at anyone else when we are together. Our focus is on each other. There are no games. There are never any games that include flirting or jealousy with other men/women. We are committed to one another. No one else exists. Scorpios hate people who are fake. If you are fake walk away now… Otherwise we will become annoyed with you and tell you to your face how fake you really are. And we will do it, if you continue to be fake.

    Be aware of our temper… We don’t mean it.. It takes a long time to get to that point.. We will warn you in advance that you are crossing the line.. Just like a volcano their are always warnings…

    One final thing…. Never Ever tell a scorpio that they can’t do something, or be unsupportive of their dreams and desires. You do that, you are out forever.. I mean it. You will never get back our trust… Ever!!!

  27. stephanie

    On September 10, 2009 at 1:07 pm

    It’s all true! once you date a scorpio, you’ll never want to date any other man who ISN’T a scorpio.

  28. bb

    On September 14, 2009 at 2:44 am

    I’m a Gemini woman in a relationship with a Scorpio man. Wow, he was totally not what I was looking for, but when he walked into the room his eyes met mine and I’ve not been able to look at anyone else. He was really intense at first, and I couldn’t meet his eyes because there was something so frighteningly magnetic about them.There is just something that pulls us together and the emotion he makes me feel is unreal. I’ve never been a passionate or really emotional person, but he’s awoken so many feelings inside of me. I can just be real self around him and he accepts me for who I am. He’s still a bit of a mystery, but when I look into his eyes now all I can see is love and warmth and affection. I feel so lucky to have met someone so amazing. He’s complex and hard to understand, but he protects me and has seen me and my worst and my best. I just want to be there by his side to make him smile and to help him forget his burdens. Yeah, we are totally opposite from each other, but somehow it all fits. Whatever he’s good at, I need to work on. Whatever I’m good at, he needs help. It’s difficult sometimes, of course, because we misunderstand each other and we are SO different, but we both want to be with each other more than anything and are willing to compromise.. I feel like we can do anything and go through anything together. It’s so comfortable and warm when we are together. I love him dearly.

  29. katelynn

    On November 30, 2009 at 4:16 pm

    wow, so entirely true. My ex is a scorpio and im a cancer. Never have i experienced something so intense in my life with someone. I will always be in love with him so therefore i will never be the same again.

  30. katelynn

    On November 30, 2009 at 4:21 pm

    May i add that i have never ever let anyone control me except for him. Extremely possesive, controlling, manipulative… but the best i ever had until my next scorpio possibly….

  31. Barbie

    On December 1, 2009 at 7:30 pm

    Hi Everyone,

    I just recently connected with a Scorpio man. I am a cancer woman and I felt an intense connection from the first conversation. What we feel together is above anything I have ever experienced with any man before. We have such a strong chemistry and understand each other very well. Too good to be true at times.We hit off right from the start and we chatted online for 6, 8, and 10 hrs for a good week straight. Then he started a new job that now has taken so much of his time that we barely text every other day or 2 days. We go through a week before we speak over the phone. All his texts show that he still acres, interested and loving. I am trying to give him space to settle down in the new job. Please tell me this typical of Scorpio men when they start a new venture they put all their efforts, and focus in it to prove themselves. Should I be worried at all? I do not want to lose him. Any advice….

  32. None

    On January 13, 2010 at 2:23 am

    I’m a cancer female and I think the description about scorpio male is true. i know a friend that is in law enforcement and it keeps him very happy to use his traits to benefit society. he can tell when someone is lying to him based on words or actions or none at all. he’s very intuitive and quite handsome too. his job in law enforcement suits his nature. he’s very sensitive in the inside and strong outside. love means the world to him. he’s very private and doesn’t like to be in the limelight. but he’s an awesome guy

  33. eRICA

    On February 13, 2010 at 11:29 pm

    I am a Scorpio woman and I met a Scorpio man. Well, at first I wasn\’t that interested, BUT ….he came over last night and I haven\’t stopped thinking about him all day. And I\’m a Scorpio myself! Wow! I wish he\’d come back! I have to wait until next weekend though. MMMmMMmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He\’s HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  34. Sir_Scorpio

    On February 16, 2010 at 4:35 pm

    Im Scorpio man…..SINGLE Well im not serious about anyone yet…I do have friends…..some get treated special…the women i have the most fun with are Leo, Aries and Aquarius……Virgo women are rare….they will let you dominate them from the beginning….and I love them for that…Libra women love to tease….if they only knew that teasing is the ART of Scorpio….We can seduce a women to her knees in a second….LOL

    Just thought i share something…..Peace

  35. MsQwikWit74

    On March 7, 2010 at 3:39 am

    Ok, so I too have fallen for a Scorpio. lol However, I’m not resisting. I recognized the connection from the beginning and allowed him to dilly dally trying to figure out where he wanted to place me in his life. I’m a pisces woman, so I believe I can fall in love with anyone “special”. However, I have to admit, this Scorpio male is chocked FULL of life and I love it. I’m the same way and so we giggle together like little kids. We find the same things interesting and the same things boring. We click outside of the bedroom like 2 peas in a pod. However…in the bedroom…we have alot to learn about eachother, but the after glow is amazing. He wants me right next to him and is even attentive in his sleepiness.

    Everything that I find primarily irresistable about him is not sexual. However, I do find him extremely sexy. He finally decided to open up to me and let me see/experience his weaknesses and I’m finding out that I’m one of them. lol His secrets are safe with me and so is his heart. I see a very long lasting and bright future with him.

    Unfortunately we are on quasi-hold at the moment and I attribute that to his very Scorpio behavior of not being afraid to bite off more than he can chew. lol He is in transition due to domestic unrest and I’m totally single, living a very peaceful life. I believe I’m going to wait this one out. I really do want to be with him and not just for the sake of having a romance, which I’m notorious for. lol

    It will be the first time I’ve been willing to walk with a man during a difficult period (aka drama) which is something I usually RUN from. I believe he’s worth it…even if I end up supporting him in the long run as a friend and nothing more.

  36. 100percent libra with scorp in pluto

    On March 17, 2010 at 9:14 am

    i am libra f with a scorpio man
    its amazing:p
    i feel so safe with him but at the same time scared and horrified of the fact that i might loose him which is all in my mind! because i know he will not leave me
    i dont want to walk away from him i love him so much!!!
    he helps me alot in everything he thinks im perfect but i dnt truely believe that
    i need help when they they something like for example as a joke but you feel they mean it…
    is it really a joke or a way to give you a hint of what they want you to be or do?????
    he protects me in various ways and is very loyal to me
    he hate s it when i get jelouse which is really rare and i hv reasons 4 it!

  37. s0_aries

    On March 25, 2010 at 10:53 am

    ummmm….all i gotta say,they are very slow to start a realtionship, (or they will like YOU to think that),you gotta have patients,don’t ever rush them,it pulls them further away,meaning you will have to wait even longer…i’ma aries and just found this out,lol…just wait,and when their ready….THIER READY,i guess having my moon makes me more attactched to things…including him,to make me stay and fight this fight…wish all of you luck,thier worth the effort,believe me.

  38. s0_aries

    On March 25, 2010 at 10:56 am

    my moon in cancer*…also scoprio rising : )

  39. Gemini women

    On August 25, 2010 at 1:54 pm

    @ bb, your post is right on target. I am a gemini women married to a Scorpio man, and my husband is in every way a wonderful man, person, husband and he is not a father yet; but from his reaction to me being pregnant, he will be a great father in 4 months. We are total opposities but it works. We are a great team, what I lack; he is great at and vice versa. I wish you luck…. gemini-scorpio love!!!

  40. Jasmine

    On August 26, 2010 at 7:51 am

    very rite..i have been dating a scorpio since one year and it exactly matches the description given here..!


    On August 30, 2010 at 5:38 pm


  42. Jessica Mai

    On December 17, 2010 at 12:40 am

    Im a cancer dating scorpio, the article describes alot about my boyfriend just the part where they state that “its decieving to trust a scorpio” i dont really agree with that cause i trust my boyfriend complete and i know he wouldnt do anything.

  43. jessica

    On June 14, 2011 at 9:08 am

    Scorpio is crazy loyal which is what I love about them,,,, but you need an evolved one. When you find him the can stop the world and make it spin the other way. Crazy quiet power…… my man has a lovely voice too and strong eyes.

  44. Iloveme

    On July 3, 2011 at 11:14 pm

    “When you find him they stop the world and make it spin the other way.” Ahahahahahahah

  45. Jen

    On October 23, 2011 at 5:42 pm

    Gemini woman here. I’m absolutely addicted to scorpios. I’m on my 3rd one, and happy. Supposedly were not compatible but I think it all has to do with communication and understanding each other. I really like his honesty and bluntness, it’s never insulting. I really do like how passionate he can be. He also has Penetrating eyes just like all scorpios do, which was what I was instantly attracted to.

  46. Nat Brittlestone

    On March 8, 2012 at 12:08 am

    I’m a Scorpio teenager. I fell for a Virgo girl years ago, i was 14 then now 19….we had this somekind of awkward relationship. We were really intimate and very close behind closed doors and casual in front of people. People would feel jealous of us when we were together but interestingly….they never uttered a about us infront of us….(I think they were scared of us…LOL). We rock each others world. We too had lots of fight and arguments….and teasing as well. There were times when I didn’t talked to her for months and even a year….but it doesn’t matter now…and I’m thankful to that. She’s a great girl….my one and only. I know I’ve hurt her a lot…I’m sorry for that, and she told me that its okay and that she really loves me and want to spent her life with me! Cheers!

  47. shopia

    On August 12, 2012 at 7:24 am

    I just met this friend of mine he is a scorpio an I am a Capricorn I was dation sum one else but the intensity I felt wid my scorpion mate was crazy I can’t believe that he can get me hooked of my career an work an make me so crazy for him I an my guy are completely separated now an I have just started dating this Scorpio guy v haven’t met much but wat tym v have spent is amazing his eyes I just can’t get them out of my mind he is hot everything about him being a Capricorn v r loyal but for the first tym I have done this an I dnt feel guilty cauz i feel the love I haven’t Eva felt before his touch makes me go crazy I hope v last for real an todae i am gonna meet him as his gal as itz our first day of our relation I pray it works

  48. Tifa

    On August 26, 2012 at 3:16 pm

    I am libra woman and i met this scorpio guy. I’ve been seeing him for over a month now. I usually go to his place, at first our set up is supposedly FWB or FB but now i don’t know anymore. He wants me to obey him and take care of him most of the time which i usually do to make him happy and please him. I do it cause i care for him. He said he likes me a lot. Now lately he is asking me if i love him? I said i like him but i don’t know if i love him. I am confused here, why is he acting like that? He keeps saying i can love him if i want to. He seems to like to ask me a lot of questions. I don’t know what he is trying to say, or is he playing some games with me??? Anybody can give me some advice? Thanks :)

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