The Unemployment Crisis and Birthing a New You

When I was laid off years ago as a legal secretary and transcriber, I had a lot of doubts, guilt and shame. It took a while to fight back for my own worth. I found important to use this time to explore my options. I found it best that we hone in our natural abilities and let the past be considered only a stepping stone to our future. Each of us is special. We are all packed with unique abilities that can gladden the hearts of others whether we’re employed or not.

From every employment crisis for man and woman, comes a spiritual awakening. It is usually a surprise but an insight we would have stumbled on sooner or later in our lives. But, before we can recognize insights, we must be open to affirm we are of value, talented enough and naïve enough to rewrite our lives. We are so much better off if we listen to our hearts rather than our ego. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. Sometimes we just have to change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.

I’m always struck of how magical and satisfying change can be. Taking risks always includes detours, wrong turns, and repeat visits. For instance, so many of us are facing an identity crisis now because of unemployment. Humans are created with the instinct to work, excel and survive. We can make a mistake by judging our self-worth by the nameplate on our desk. Don’t let being laid off break you down or determine your self-worth. Getting fired from a job can be terminal if we let it; or it can be a time of rebirth.  I went back to college, studied ceramics, clay sculpting, writing and poetry.

I found I had new talents nobody ever told me I had. Instead of typing my bosses’ words, I am typing my own words and authoring my own books. It is so much more satisfying. It never occurred to be that I could be a writer when I was fired so long ago. I had to learn to redefine myself. I find so many others out there like me or worse with depression and unhope. We should not listen to companies who drag us down and then kick us out because their finances aren’t good. We can do many things. We must love ourselves enough to let go of the pain of being fired. We are not useless or untalented.