Top 10 Things Men Should Not Do in a Divorce

I am not making light of divorce however I am going to make light of the sham that they call Probate/ Divorce Court. Always place your children’ss need above your own and be a good dad. The court and your former spouse cannot take the bond you have with your children away from you no matter how hard they try. Please if you do not remember anything else remember that. The children did not choose you or her they are playing the hand that they were dealt. I am not a lawyer and please see this for what it is. A sarcastic rant.

1- Be a male- I know there is really nothing you can do about this but realize that you are already handicapped in this dispute because of your partner and I am not talking about your evil spouse. So if you think this is a plus you obviously did more acid than you probably should have in your younger days.

2- Expect your soon to be former spouse to be honest- Remember they want nothing but your money so they will hide theirs and if you think they don’t have a plan before it begins think again. They begin working on how they can twist the truth immediately following your first marital spat and they hone their stories until they believe them all themselves.

3- Be accomidating- The more you give the more they try to take. If you are reasonable they will not be and will get away with more because they are. If you are not reasonable you are the monster that they want everyone to believe that you are. Get the picture? Yes you are losing no matter what. Please think about the children and try to put this to the side if you have children. Remember they are the only ones that really lose here. At least you know up front that you getting screwed, they don’t.

4- Think that the court will stand behind the orders it places on her- She will play the I didn’t understand or the I can’t afford it or he wouldn’t let, etc until the judge gets so frustrated that they put everything on you. Remember even if she is a drug addict she is the victim.

5- Hold a job- Really no point in holding a good paying job because you will never have money and this shows responsibility so you will be given the majority of the marital debt and pay all the child support the judge can take from you legally and in some case they will make you pay almost double and their is nothing you can do about it.