What Turns Him on

Don’t mess with his heart

Getting hurt is not fun for men at this stage. He has learnt to look out for himself after having his heart broken. He wants a woman who is sensitive and not out to mess with his heart.

Confidence rules

Men like women who can hold their own on most fronts. They would rather have someone who’s comfortable in her own skin than one who is beautiful but lacks self-esteem and wants constant reassurance.

Personality is the key

Someone who makes a good conversation, is well-travelled and intelligent will certainly score in a man’s heart. This is just a bit more to keep him going.

Details matter

A man in his 30s is around long enough to appreciate the finer points of female grooming. He will notice all the things you labor over, from well manicured hands to a nice smile, good fashionable sense and a nice haircut.

The 40s

By the time they hit 40, men are more interested in the person than in the package. They go for chemistry and how well the two of you click. This is the time when they are less turned on by what you can offer.

Compatibility is important

Men in their 40s prefer a woman who has the same wavelength. Sex with someone who is not compatible would leave them feeling very lonely. Compatibility becomes an important aspect at this stage.

Quality sex is better

Men are contented with less sex during their 40s but it has to be good and worth the effort. It doesn’t have to be acrobatic or anything kinky, just good, communicative and trustful sex.

Connection comes first

Men need to feel a sense of connection more than comfort. They tend to lose interest very fast if they don’t connect on a deeper level. She could be the hottest babe at the bar, but if she can’t connect, it doesn’t work for him anymore.

Caring soul

Men are older and wiser at this stage, and give-and-take has never been more important – both in and out of bed. They would be attracted to a woman who is nurturing and thinks for others. Someone who will take care of them and let them take care of her would definitely be attractive.

Looks still plays a part

Looks will always be on the list because men are still men. A pretty face and a nice figure might not be as important as before but it will still be on their minds.