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When a Woman is Fed Up

Falling out of love.

Its a general knowledge that a womans heart is fragile, just like her being. She needs care and good loving. The position and role of a woman in the world is important. They should be more respected and empowered.
In various stages in life, a woman goes through diverse experience. She becomes educated or goes to a skill school in order to be useful to herself. She eventually settles down with a man of her choice. African mentality states that a woman must end up in a mans house/kitchen, no matter how learned she is.
The woman becomes the home manager, she does all the chores. Before the man return from work, she makes sure food is ready, along side other necessities.

Great Sex is an important phenomenon between spouses. Its a way of bonding. It doesnt have to be a daily exercise but it most not be hoarded.
Majority of men take it for granted. Some keep late nights and act with so much aggression around their women and kids. Some enslave, hit, & rape theirs. Still, the women endure the hurt and stigma.
There are cases when some women get to work and their colleagues ask why they have red eyes or bruises on their body. The answer is usually, i fell from the stairs.

A female mind is flexible. About 90% of them eventually get tired of the abuse after months or years of perseverance. Statistic also shows that these percentage takes more time in planning their escape under the man’s roof, because they know there would be no turning back.
Men are naturally egoistic by nature. Some of them immediately regret their past actions and some simply jubilate their freedom.

Before it boils down to the seperation, most women swallow their pride and beg these men to come back to their senses. Some seek advices from their religious fathers, but when all ideology of reciprocating cant be achieved, then they move on.
Little things that most men are careless about is what women cherish the most. For instance, majority of the female gender want their spouses to save their names on phones as “Baby, Sweetheart, wifey and the likes. They also want the men to call them these names too. Women want men to remember every single detail of their looks by the minute, i.e, on computer as screen  saver, phone screen, Picture frames on their desk at work and more. Its funny to some men but silly things turns women on. They may also sound lame to men but they matter the most to 95% of women too.

When a woman is fed up, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. For, before it got to that, she must have given warning signs. It is advisable to show your love and appreciation. Let it be understood and accepted before its too late.
Often times, we dont know the worth of what we have until its gone and forever lost.

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  1. amandeep13

    On February 9, 2010 at 10:56 am


    Great Piece

    Keep it up

  2. SubomiAisha

    On February 9, 2010 at 6:01 pm


    Thanks Amandeep.

  3. La Phantome

    On February 26, 2010 at 3:39 am


    I wish more of these articles were written by men. The huge amount of sexism irritates me.

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