Comments on: Why Black Women Do Not Respect Black Men

By: Sisters Unite

Sisters Unite — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 00:08:09 +0000

On point sister. As a whole black men are so damn sorry. They’ve always been sorry and forever will be. Black women need to move on. I understand everyone has faults but every black man I have ever dated have either been a liar, a cheater, etc. The list goes on and on. They play games and are never who they claim to be. When their cover is blown they turn the blame around on you (as if their actions can be justified) and show their real asses. It is sad when a group of women cannot look up to their men for the comfort and security they need. Men are supposed to be the leaders, the providers, the ones that hold everything together but look at the hands black women are dealt. Then they want to stereotype us as the “angry black women.” Maybe this is our way of coping and making our points heard since obviously being nice and rational does not work with most black men. Men of other cultures have treated me with more respect, dignity, and appreciation than any black man I have ever dealt with. They are able to take the blame when they are wrong and say “Im sorry” when it is due. It takes a real man to own up to his faults. Most black men aren’t real men regardless of how much education they have and how understanding they pretend to be. Sad but true. I wait for the day that a black man to prove me wrong. Thus far they have been proving me right. Im starting to believe the phrase that “niggas really aint shit.” I will be single for the rest of my life before I ever settle for a dead beat. Im better than that SHIT, literally most of them are the equivalent to it : ). BLACK WOMEN HAVE SOME SELF-ESTEEM. DO NOT SETTLE FOR THESE BUMS.

By: Jay

Jay — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 16:39:30 +0000

Men and the women are both disappointments…. Not all but enough fall short and don’t rep the race in a good light
what so ever…..

By: MyReality

MyReality — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 04:36:51 +0000

My kids dropped out of college my daughter married with kids my son living with girlfriend and no job just smoking weed. They had the same opportunity as everyone else, they both had full scholarships. Calling me begging for this and that, go back to school get a life it’s hard out here but this is the real world. I gave them life what they chose to do with it is on them, you are grown get a life I’m too old to be taking care of you and me. Why would anyone choose to get married straight out of high school top of their class full scholarship and now married with children no job and begging for help. And why would any grown ass man depend on a women to provide for him when he had the same opportunity as the next to better himself yet he chooses to sat around and stay high. What next? Is his girlfriend going to say I’m pregnant, him with no job no education. I don’t give a damn about black or white just treat me right and respect the fact that I’m not ready to pop your cherry and start a family. Why put a small life in the world with the hopes that his daddy will stay, did you talk about children, family, religion, education. Did you talk about the future at all before you decided to lay down together? Black women It’s your ethnicity that attracts other men (White, Hispanic, Asian, Middle Eastern), your difference that’s what makes you sexy. Drop the attitudes and the ghetto ways and you can get any man you want. Hell it work for fat white women to whom their own white men reject them and leave them for the brother’s to pick up. Most of them straight out of prison (Bad Credit, No Job , No Education). But the brothers treat her like a QUEEN because spite his short comings she treat him like a KING. Which you have failed to do since the 60’s…. I don’t think white women cared so much about the D–K they just want someone to treat them right and I think that is true with black men as-well…………
If he’s just not that into you don’t fight him, try to trap him, have him arrested, let him go. See that is another way the system has played our black women. The prison’s are crawdad with my brothers and I blame women, you have more power than we give you credit for. Call the cops he’ll lock your black ass up, yell rap, he hit me, he didn’t pay for his baby…….bla bla bla……….. Close you damn legs all you babies having babies and no daddy’s. They are either on Drugs, Dead, Locked-up or on the way to be locked up because his mom can’t control him he doesn’t want to go to school he wants’ to be a rapper a drug dealer a player a pimp (dumb ass). Stop opening your legs to people who don’t love your nor care for you or want a life with you. Save the next generation of young black boy’s and girls give them real morals and values strive to be the best and never let anyone tell you otherwise. Lock it up (clank clank) or everything I’ve just talked about is going to happen to you. It’s an on going cycle we see all day every day, dumb ass shows like Jerry S., Murray P., Steve W. and we sit back and laugh but it’s really sad. Not only is america broke we are overweight and under achievers compaired to other countries. It really bother me to hear our young men today express their future goal is to be a rapper. What a joke and these are the kids you are poping out of your legs.

By: MyReality

MyReality — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 03:43:21 +0000

Back in the day black women stood by her man fought his fight and they did this as a unit. Today’s black women or the original baby boomers have fallen slave to the system or what I call being pimped by welfare, food stamps, section 8. You know longer need your black man; you’ve got free shit a new home, car clothes and food in your fridge all by just opening up your legs. Should have kept them closed got an education a career, and most important a man who respect and love you. The system has fooled your baby making ass who (pop your legs open any chance you get) refuse education, a job, finding a spiritual hardworking man who would have planned a future for the two of you. The relationship began to drift further apart so you had to do something rash to keep that man who no longer wanted you. Just think if you would have waited for a man who would marry you, before he lay with you. His morals and values are in the right place, but because his penis is big or his face is fine what can you do to make him your. You’ve got pregnant to keep him which made him run further away, you’re mad as hell at him the world why won’t he stay. Now you retaliate Ni—a you better pay your child support you dead beat dad. Did you ever consider he loved the sex but wasn’t ready to settle down, he thought you felt the same but you played your little game. Making him believe you were still on the pill while he still thinking he can chill. Don’t get mad at him for not being ready you set him up to be a daddy. Thinking you would be this partridge family, yet all you did was make him run from thee. The only women black men have problems with are the ones who act ghetto (black, white, Hispanic), we’ve been there so a white girl comes alone she may not be cute, she may be overweight but she lets us be men and don’t fight us when we try to leave she just wish us well and we end up going back because we realize she’s got our back. Men are dogs we love the chase a women that screw you the first time and don’t make you wait is not going to be you wife for life. If she makes you work for it and hold out you respect her and fall in love with her and began to make plans with her instead of her making plans for you by forcing a relationship/family on you.

By: Marcius E. Chester

Marcius E. Chester — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 01:15:08 +0000

I was raised to have HONOR,RESPECT,DIGNITY,INTEGRITY,OLD FAMILY VALUES,MORALS, CHARACTER and respect all women know matter what color. The Black American Women that I have come across in my life have all treated and disrespected me know matter how well I treated them. They all say where are all the GOOD BLACK MEN. Well here is one. Its not about the color of a women’s skin its about who is going to treat me the way that they want to be treated. To me it all has to due with the way a woman has been raised, and if she does not meet my high standards then I am not going to waist my time with the games. I have my faults just like any other human being.
But when it comes to having the right woman in my life I need someone who going to be my BEST FREIND,LOVER,WIFE, SOULMATE etc., and not someone who want to use me for benefits.
This BLACK MAN IS A ONE WOMAN MAN.
Have been and always will be. So if that means that I have to go outside of my race to find what I am looking for so be it.

God Bless
Thank You for reading my comment on this subject.

By: Shannon

Shannon — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 03:29:07 +0000

Well, I agree with what she is saying. Black men are some of the sorriest, laziest, irresponsible and selfish specimens walking on this earth. They don’t think they should have to provide for or raise the children they helped to create and would rather be a criminal or a bum than get a job.

Black men really need to take a long look at themselves and stop pointing fingers at black women and everyone else. They have some serious issues and for whatever reason, they show no interest in ending the cycle of fatherless children as they themselves were.

They don’t want to be responsible for themselves, so they dump it all on everyone else. They don’t want to support their children and they have a string of them with several different women and actually brag about it. They think bedding a bunch of different women makes them a man. I was watching an episode of “Lockup: County Jail,” and this young black boy was doing time for robbery, drugs and assault. He was up for parole and was granted parole and you know what that dumbass did? He tore up his parole papers, choosing to stay behind bars and all the way back to his cell he kept saying, “Yeah, them white folks wanna try to tell me what I’m gonna do. I tore up them papers, I didn’t want that parole. That’s gansta, that’s gangsta.” He sounded like a damn fool. What is there to be gained in sitting in jail? His way of avoiding getting a real job and acting like he has some sense? SMH

As a rule, I don’t date black men. They will disappoint and treat you like crap and expect you to support them. I guarantee it. Don’t do it. You are better than that and deserve better.

By: jeanie

jeanie — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 20:08:25 +0000

A life without God will cause u to blame others for your shortcomings, men & women of any race can lie, cheat,deceive, if God is absent and your morals are not in tact. People leave their race seeking something better and they are the problem. @Maria-what do u know about blacks? R u black? U don’t know our struggles!!

By: jeanie

jeanie — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 20:04:48 +0000

A life without God will cause u to blame others for your shortcomings, men & women of any race can lie, cheat,deceive, if God is absent and your morals are not in tact. People leave their race seeking something better and they are the problem. @Marriage what do u know about black somebody? R u black? U don’t know our struggles!!

By: jeanie

jeanie — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 19:55:34 +0000

By: ebonyeyes

ebonyeyes — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 19:53:04 +0000