I’ve discussed this topic in an ongoing basis with dozens of those in consensual relationships, and my own ongoing relationship.

I have not came across any males which the spirit alone achieves him orgasm, but I have heard it from a few females.

Physical contact is strange.
Our two private parts are clearly interacting, evidenced by physical feeling which is exclusively felt on the private parts. I can look and see nothing, even reach my hand into the area but nothing is felt exept in the exclusive area.

Some males report seeing a vapor or cloud localized in the groin area but I have not experienced that.

Given that, stimulating a spirit by touch of hand etc is highly unlikely.

There are a lot of theories about their origin but nobody truly knows. First contact varies by person. It seems most of the time it’s a very gradual and cautious approach so not to cause alarm.

People do not need to live in a haunted house to find themselves as the interest to a sexual spirit. It is not clear exactly what attracts them one from another. There doesn’t seem to be any continuity to the dynamics of the people involved.

I like how you mentioned that not all erotic ghost encounters are necessarily from a demonic source.

How much we could learn from the other side if our perception wasn’t clouded with guilt and fear.

Mimi-
I don’t know if you’re still seeking help but if your ghost or spirit is the same as I write, there is only one thing which has been reported to work and that is complete denial. I’ve been contacted by a couple dozen people from various websites I’ve posted my account, at least 50 or so additional people in other forums with spiritual mates. A few were seeking separation but I’ve heard of only two successful. When they felt the touches they moved to a different position found less favorable for him or her. If they caught themselves thinking about it, they thought about something else. They never talked or communicated with him/her. It was complete denial as if they never existed and they eventually left.

There is no prayer, no ritual, no smudging, and no cleansings which have reported to be effective. Again I am referring to a positive being of intimate relationship.

Sellingtheword:
I respect your religious views, however I made clear the prayers, and rituals etc are not effective. My spiritual mate has probably been with me all my life, a real positive influence etc. I can only assume the reason for the ineffectuality is good won’t drive out good.

A lot of Christians believe each and every spirit, ghost etc is a messenger or agent of Satan. I disagree. Someone’s aunt Milly who visits them shortly after she passing isn’t necessarily a demon, nor is their uncle who seems to hang around making themselves known. I don’t know if you personally subscribe to that belief, but many Christians believe all ghosts are secret messengers of Satan deceiving us. Maybe that explains your view about deception.

The only reference I’m aware of to supernatural intimacy in the Bible is within Genesis referring to male Angels taking human wives, the wives bearing giants.
That does not relate to our experience in any way. The last recorded supernatural birth was almost 2011 years ago.

You may have a point with adultery, however the situation is complex.
My spiritual mate has been with me probably all my life and waited for intimate interaction until I was 17 years old in a stealthy manner allowing me to experience the natural development of dating, love, courtship, marriage and family. Had she revealed herself when I was 17, it would have forfeited the natural progression of life.

She made herself known only after my wife made a very sincere verbal divorce.

My wife and I have a very close, very special relationship however the sex has ended. We are almost 50 and it is passing her interest. We rarely discuss my spiritual mate. She suspects but I don’t volunteer information. She realizes I’ve been interacting with this “person” for over 30 years, a kind of relationship which can’t be ignored.

Sellingtheword, you’ve read my past has deep Christian faith, my (Extreme) Christian lifestyle and my rejection of her based on others religious belief, and how it was utterly ineffectual. For you to already know that fact it’s clear your post is made purely in an attempt to create an atmosphere of guilt and shame in my life, which I reject.

It is more effective to attract someone to religion – especially Christianity with love and compassion rather than through guilt and coercement.

Waking in the still of night
Darkness all around
Cold walls whisper to my soul
Of pleasures never found
I scream your name to shrouded ears
You hear what charms you most
And though I know what gifts you hold
I cannot love a ghost

I felt your spirit in me
It thrilled me so and I said,
“If I ever can touch your skin
My love will surely grow.”

Wrapped within your lucent arms
There’s safety with my love
Asylum for a bleeding heart
Though limbs not flesh nor blood
Oh, let me just be close to you
Of what else do I care
And if it means another world
Then that will be my prayer

I felt your spirit in me
It thrilled me so and I said,
“If I ever can touch your skin
My love will surely grow.”

Sergeant, thanks for your insights. I really enjoyed the historical perspective and will be checking some of the info. as time permits.

I think information is only a good thing so people can decide for themselves. I’ve been on a quest for information about this for over a year and I think an open mind for all possibilities is most important. If one is too inflexible in thier reasoning in that facts don’t matter, the truth can be distorted.

The popular belief is these things are evil. Wiki shows the common belief:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus

It says they seduce men (or woman) in while they sleep in their dreams, draw their substanance, often until the victim dies, takes the male sperm and impregnates a female for offspring.

I’m in contact with about 14 people, man and women who are currently involved with spirits who openly discuss it. About 10 or so who are involved but reluctant to discuss and many dozens who report “Brushes”, one night encounters or those who rejected the spirit.

Zero – I mean none, not one experience anything similar to the wiki account. The dreams do occur but the main contact is not while sleeping.

Contrary,
Many people report feeling energized after an encounter and rarely get sick. My spirits have warned me in the past of things which could harm me, things I could not be aware of which prove true. They encourage my physical well being- I’ve dieted and lost +40lbs and they encourage my daily walk (exercise)

If you check the Wiki source (Footnote) it’s from 1486 a.d, right in the heat of the Spanish Inquisition.
The Pagans believed many spirits were beneficial to man and the Jesuits, in effort to control them labeled all the spirits as “Dangerous, Evil, Demonic”.
These are not evil, melevolant beings and so likely fit that category.

This is a good read I found on the subject a while back:
http://www.cscs.umich.edu/~crshalizi/notebooks/demonology.html

It is said Succubus gather male sperm and impregnate women.
It was also said the fruit this activity was cause of:

*Children who suffer from epileptic seizures
*Mental retardation
*Autism
*Birth defects
*Practically all childhood ailments

That was popular belief until science proved the idea wrong, along with a flat Earth, etc.

There’s also Ida Craddock. http://www.idacraddock.org/
She is a woman who lived in the late 1800’s who had a “Heavenly bridegroom” and had the audacity to openly and pubicly discuss matters of sex, sexuality and the ways to improve marriage.

She was publicly charged with publishing obscenity at 42 years old (Elderly at the time) and sentenced to a very long prison term. Her only crime was going against the public grain and challenging Church doctrine.

I’m currently studying her “Heavenly Bridegroom” articles and gathering a lot of information to cross-reference.

I’m a Christian, read the King James and it’s interesting to read another Christian’s objective opinion in the matter.

When ever I hear of someone having an encounter and they identify themselves as young, unmarried etc I -always- try to discourage them from persuing such a relationship.
In many cases (Like myself) this is indeed a marriage of sort and can end any chance of their further development of (earthly) marriage and other intimate relationships.

If the inquirer is obviously an adult, married etc then the choice is theirs whether to continue or turn away.

Priests, Nuns have reported these relationships to their superiors with no rejection. St. Teresa, a nun who was a clear-headed woman of known integrity and purity was one of the parties to the union. The Church promptly decided that the “congressus” was not diabolical, but heaven sent.

The records of witchcraft contain accounts of priests who were burned at the stake for a union of this sort extending over forty and fifty years.

Pope Gregory VII, who is known as Hildebrand was said to have a spirit with whom he maintained such a union.

I’ve found nothing what so ever in the Bible against such union. However I have found some instances where it is accepted.

I also find no pattern with the people I’ve known regarding exactly why they were chosen. Some messed around with psychic things like myself but most carried normal uneventful lives with no apparent attraction to their spiritual sutors. They did nothing specific to attract attention, the fault is not theirs.

I consider myself lucky and fortunate to be part of such an extraordinary event as this.

Again, I am not trying to change anyone’s mind but to present information.

email ; beckysince88@hotmail.co.uk