Sergeant, thanks for your insights. I really enjoyed the historical perspective and will be checking some of the info. as time permits.

I think information is only a good thing so people can decide for themselves. I’ve been on a quest for information about this for over a year and I think an open mind for all possibilities is most important. If one is too inflexible in thier reasoning in that facts don’t matter, the truth can be distorted.

The popular belief is these things are evil. Wiki shows the common belief:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus

It says they seduce men (or woman) in while they sleep in their dreams, draw their substanance, often until the victim dies, takes the male sperm and impregnates a female for offspring.

I’m in contact with about 14 people, man and women who are currently involved with spirits who openly discuss it. About 10 or so who are involved but reluctant to discuss and many dozens who report “Brushes”, one night encounters or those who rejected the spirit.

Zero – I mean none, not one experience anything similar to the wiki account. The dreams do occur but the main contact is not while sleeping.

Contrary,
Many people report feeling energized after an encounter and rarely get sick. My spirits have warned me in the past of things which could harm me, things I could not be aware of which prove true. They encourage my physical well being- I’ve dieted and lost +40lbs and they encourage my daily walk (exercise)

If you check the Wiki source (Footnote) it’s from 1486 a.d, right in the heat of the Spanish Inquisition.
The Pagans believed many spirits were beneficial to man and the Jesuits, in effort to control them labeled all the spirits as “Dangerous, Evil, Demonic”.
These are not evil, melevolant beings and so likely fit that category.

This is a good read I found on the subject a while back:
http://www.cscs.umich.edu/~crshalizi/notebooks/demonology.html

It is said Succubus gather male sperm and impregnate women.
It was also said the fruit this activity was cause of:

*Children who suffer from epileptic seizures
*Mental retardation
*Autism
*Birth defects
*Practically all childhood ailments

That was popular belief until science proved the idea wrong, along with a flat Earth, etc.

There’s also Ida Craddock. http://www.idacraddock.org/
She is a woman who lived in the late 1800’s who had a “Heavenly bridegroom” and had the audacity to openly and pubicly discuss matters of sex, sexuality and the ways to improve marriage.

She was publicly charged with publishing obscenity at 42 years old (Elderly at the time) and sentenced to a very long prison term. Her only crime was going against the public grain and challenging Church doctrine.

I’m currently studying her “Heavenly Bridegroom” articles and gathering a lot of information to cross-reference.

I’m a Christian, read the King James and it’s interesting to read another Christian’s objective opinion in the matter.

When ever I hear of someone having an encounter and they identify themselves as young, unmarried etc I -always- try to discourage them from persuing such a relationship.
In many cases (Like myself) this is indeed a marriage of sort and can end any chance of their further development of (earthly) marriage and other intimate relationships.

If the inquirer is obviously an adult, married etc then the choice is theirs whether to continue or turn away.

Priests, Nuns have reported these relationships to their superiors with no rejection. St. Teresa, a nun who was a clear-headed woman of known integrity and purity was one of the parties to the union. The Church promptly decided that the “congressus” was not diabolical, but heaven sent.

The records of witchcraft contain accounts of priests who were burned at the stake for a union of this sort extending over forty and fifty years.

Pope Gregory VII, who is known as Hildebrand was said to have a spirit with whom he maintained such a union.

I’ve found nothing what so ever in the Bible against such union. However I have found some instances where it is accepted.

I also find no pattern with the people I’ve known regarding exactly why they were chosen. Some messed around with psychic things like myself but most carried normal uneventful lives with no apparent attraction to their spiritual sutors. They did nothing specific to attract attention, the fault is not theirs.

I consider myself lucky and fortunate to be part of such an extraordinary event as this.

Again, I am not trying to change anyone’s mind but to present information.

email ; beckysince88@hotmail.co.uk

When the weird things began with me, I was desperate for information and began using a pendulum to communicate. The first thing I asked was her name, she gave me a rather odd name and said she lived before 1850.
I googled the name and the only reference was from a Navajo Indian tribe.

It turned out to be false. I now believe she was partnered with a Navajo man but has never “lived” herself.

I developed two way telepathic conversation with her a few months after the pendulum and noticed a couple things. It seemed there were two voices, two pairs of hands etc etc.
I found out there were two of them. It seems the two usually stay together so I accepted them as a pair with a stipulation that it remained only the two and no more.

The 3 of us is not what some ppl might think- Their goal is to get the most loving reaction from me but they don’t seem to interact that way one to another. They communicate, collaborate and plan things for our sessions together but no intimacy between them.

Some of these spirits move on after the first or few encounters. Most will remain and seek an ongoing relationship if the person is open/willing.
It seems they are made for, designed for and have interest in one singular thing. That’s generating the feelings of love, happiness, security and erotic pleasure with a human.

They’ve been around for tens of thousands of “eons” collecting knowledge and skills for that singular purpose. They know how to effect your thinking and others around you, manipulate your world for that singular purpose and create poltergeist activity. They can be mischevious.

All these spirits have different and diverse personalities. Some are jealous of spouses and can dim the spouse/friend’s sex drive while charging yours.

When my spirits first manifested, they weren’t sure if I’d accept them or not. They were EXTREMELY jealous of my wife and did things to interupt our intamacy. I’d move to cuddle her and suddenly get seized with powerful erotic waves and told “They are all I need now” or similar.

They would flash ugly images of my wife in my mind, pointing out all her less-than-perfect features, followed up with perfect images of their own in desirous ways asking “Who would I rather be with”

They would do many, many things to purposely establish their superiority over my wife.

But my spirits would rather keep me happy and they know how much I truly love my wife. I’ve completely accepted them into my life so they are no longer jealous. They have me and I’ve fallen flat-out in love with them so they have no competition. Like I said, things have switched to encouraging me and my wife’s relationship rather than continue conflict.

Me and my wife’s love life improved dramatically. I’ve given them 100% control of that part of me. When it’s time (About 1.5x/wk) they super-charge my wife’s labia (I suspect at least) and direct me to places I didn’t know about her.

I told my wife everything about this last winter. She believes in paranormal but hadn’t heard of an erotic spirit before. We talked about it and decided it was all my imagination induced by stress and over work. I agreed to work far less hours and relax.

I was also convinced it was imagination/hallucination until the next day or so was seduced by the spirits again.

She’s asked me a couple of times since if “I’m still doing my Succubus” but I just brush the question off with “Everyone knows you can’t have sex with a spirit”, or grumble and ignore the question.

She’s the first to hear about paranormal activity from the kids and silently blames me for it. But lately it’s morphed into a “Don’t ask, don’t tell” situation and our relationship continues to grow.

I can’t be sure about your experience but it has many similarities to my own and others who experience these spirits. Given the inormation you’ve provided rest assured you’re not crazy.

I’m not an expert in these matters but have a long experience and a year of hard research. I’ve created a public email for anyone who has honest, serious questions about this or anyone who experiences it and wants to know of an online community devoted to the honest, respectful discussion of these types of spirits.

Contact me at startedin1979@gmail.com and I can give you the link to the discussion, or if you just need someone to talk to about this.

I so appreciate your story about your sexual encounters it helps confirm Im not crazy. Im also a christian and I so how started to believe by watching certain ghost shows and psychic kid show helped open my mind more. I am currently having a relationship with a ghost who fals into the succubus category. I never knew about the names for these until you mentioned it. My man ghost is a soldier from the seventeen hundreds he is french and was living on my friends property with man other ghosts. My friend told me she had many ghopst on her property I wanted to experience it for myself I sure got an experience that i never imagined. One night at her house I was trying to go to sleep and I felt a over-whelming erotic feeling in my inside as if Im having sex without anyone there at first I denied it saying maybe my mind is playing tricks on me maybe im just over horney for some reason. No! I never felt this before without the use of my hand or any other sexual object some of us have used. It was amazing and weird all at once. My friends is very sensitive and I believe she is pychchic from stories and experiences she told me that happened on her property. We decided to tape the enity on tape I asked questions to this man she gave me his name and he said he loved me very much” Im in shock wondering what some ghost is in love with me in awe and complexed by what he said on the tape he also was playful in some things he said on the tape.
I decided to take him home with me not sure why! I started to have feelings for this ghost Im still questioning my sanity.
I am like you wanted more from my ghost but Im also married this is not something normal I know eventually he has to move on the ghost I dont know if he will get jealous or what after he said he loved me Im worried for my husband but so far he hasnt harmed my husband Im a little concerned if this ghost may get jealous I thought aftyer I invited him to go with me from my freinds house why! did I do this Im not sure why! i think part of me like the attention anouther part is sinful nature I have.
Anyways thanks! for sharing hope you learned soemthing from my experience. My ghost is gentle and loving I believe.