Meet People Anywhere!

I’m going to write assuming you are a male and want to approach women, but these techniques can be applied to anyone!

Alot of men have a fear of approaching women. Fact.

Whether to just make casual converstaion, or get the girls number it shouldn’t make you so axcious. 

You’ve all heard it before, yes we’re all humans and we’re all the same blah blah blah right.  Truth is we’re not (the same that is, assuming you want to pick up human females, but whatever floats your boat).  But there are certain emotions and feelings hardwired into all of us! 

First of all, we need to get over the fear of approaching women or strangers in general.  So we do a simple excercise which helps you become more confident in speaking to people, now bare with me this may sound silly..

What you need to do is walk around the mall or a busy town centre, and say hello to people, just smile and say hello.  It will feel wierd and unnatural at first, but all you’re doing is being polite and saying hello!

The majority will smile and say it back, some will think you’re abit odd.  But the point is you notice how most people respond positively. Not only will this build confidence inside you, but also get you used to rejection by way of them responding negatively. 

But you’ll notice, that the people keep walking when they respond..so you’re next task is to make them stop for you.  You can get used to doing this by asking for directions to a certain place/shop but once they’ve given you the directions the convo is dead! so you’re better off saying stuff like “hey, i’ve only got a minute could you tell me somewhere i can get really nice tshirts which aren’t to expensive” by this you’re engaging her oppinion on something. 

If you’re feeling courageous, ask the girl if you can try a magic trick on her (this only works on women – dont ask me why).

You: Pick a number between 1-10 but don’t tell me what it is
Girl: Yeah got one
You: it’s 7. (95% of the time women will pick 7) 

By doing this, you’ve added value to yourself, she will wonder how you did it ect, making you a more interesting person and stand out from all the other guys who have tried to hit on her 50 times that day! 

Throughout the whole conversation you have to stress that you’ve only got a minute and that you need to go, your friends are waiting ect…while you stand and talk to her, stand with your shoulders facing away from her, maybe even talk over your shoulder, as if you don’t need her attention.  This is to make sure you don’t invade her personal space and she doesn’t think you’re trying to mug her/sell her something! 

Try them out and let me know how you guys get on! hopefully you’ll meet someone new from this  

Peaaaaaaace! 
Regards,
V