The Indecent Race

Why are our homes getting more nuclear than joint?Why are friends getting closer than real brothers and sisters? We had families where grandfather used to be the head of the family and all brother sisters stayed together and didn’t need any one from outside to get themselves entertained .A family business where all jointly worked and earned like hell.Ladies were busy with their household and bringing up their kids with lots of love and care .Education for ladies meant that they should understand the well being of their family and could give right knowledge about their culture and a broad outlook about their religion…their God…the good and the bad to their kids.Every member of the family used to respect each others feeling. Mother was the Laxmi of the house.

What has happened now and how??????/Who is reponsible for this???????/Is this modernisation or the end of golden times???????????/

Today nearly in every house both the partners …husband and wife are earning  .Its is good because we will have more earning which will ofcourse effect the financial status of our house.But then will the kids get the proper time by their parents their first guides ,no, which will somewhere or the other negatively effect their upbringing. A child will learn that both are rushing for money,ofcourse for the betterment of him which he dosen’t understand.He is left with his maid but eyes searching his mother with whom he was full nine months.Gradually he learns to do many things without them and we have thus trained him to be independent.Then why ,after he grows up and we need him ;we expect that yes he will understand our requirements.We ourself gave him the materialistic world and he has become so……Just relax and think over…..

Why are girls which were protected and cared now seen in such dresses which we think indecent and they take it as modern and fashionable.Have we ever thought that nowadays newspapers have maximum news about rape and violence.The dresses of men has not decreased in size as compared to women.Why are girls  being used .Each and every ad needs an indecent costume wearing female for the promo of the product.Isn’t it our fault.Why do we agree to do it?A mother who is supposed to be the role model for her daughter is busy with her job has leat time to guide her about good and bad.If we say it is the responsibilty of parents only we would be wrong .The cinema makers and now even television serials the ads are just hopeless.The yougsters see all this and ofcourse follow it. after seeing all these obscenes a males get attracted and even if a girl is simple and descent could be the targeted anytime.We have to stop this indecent race.

Get the respect for our elders and specially women back .Its in our own hand .Join together and see the power of a lovable family.Stop being materialistic………..

If wealth is lost nothing is lost;

If health is lost something is lost;

But if character is lost everything is lost….