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Why do women opt to put up with wife battering?

Few reasons:

a) They are not financially independent. Therefore they have no choice as they depend on their husband for their next meal.
b) They are not aware of the laws prevalent with regard to the issue
c) They worry about their kid’s future without their husband. 
d) In some cases the wife may be educated, employed, still she would not opt out as she is used to certain luxuries like a holiday abroad annually, car, etc
e) Some wives may not opt out as in an Indian society its difficult to settle down again as people look down on separated women unless she is rich or a celebrity.

Few precautions for married women:

a) It’s a must be financially independent. And this is not only to take care from wife beating but also in case of uncertainties like husbands premature death etc
b) Be aware of the rules by talking to a lawyer friend
f) If they have to worry about their kids future, then they must realize that by living in such a disturbed environment the kid would be more affected than by living with a single parent
c) Be practical while taking the decision and rely on reasons like luxuries
d) Please do not care what the world might say as it’s your life at stake and only you should be responsible for your decision. This looking good factor in front of the world cost many of us to suffer just to please the world.

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  1. isloooboy

    On June 7, 2011 at 3:26 am


    Nice one but I am unaware of the women which you are describing in your article. Where they live? because now a days I am seeing very powerful womens around me and none of them are ready to even obey without their will…..maybe I live in the city thats why? but……Is it true women living in such low position?

  2. CHIPMUNK

    On June 7, 2011 at 3:32 am


    Sometimes women put up with lots of misery in relationships

  3. aprilsong

    On June 7, 2011 at 3:41 am


    well,i feel sorry for the bad situation those women face, but there are too many factors and reasons that make it hard to change

  4. mitahari

    On June 7, 2011 at 6:08 am


    It’s a great article, really, women are afraid of their response to a tyrant and instead suffer in silence

  5. Rosettaartist1

    On June 7, 2011 at 6:08 am


    It’s becoming more prevalent in UK due to alcohol and that is sad.

  6. chandrra

    On June 7, 2011 at 8:11 am


    good article

  7. juliachild

    On June 7, 2011 at 1:55 pm


    ..nice sharing

  8. real lady

    On June 7, 2011 at 1:58 pm


    I feel bad for women who cannot fight for their own rights. Whatever the reasons are, men do not have the right to beat women. :(

  9. fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa

    On June 7, 2011 at 2:34 pm


    This is a great article, that is why there are so many programs to help battered woman; unfortunately by the time many of them come for help they have been so battered that their self esteem is negative 100. More article need to spread throught the WORLD so woman realize that they too have rights and should be treated equally.

  10. vijayanths

    On June 7, 2011 at 3:00 pm


    good post.

  11. ceegirl

    On June 7, 2011 at 4:29 pm


    Women put up with it because they say I love him.

  12. Martin Kloess

    On June 8, 2011 at 12:56 am


    a long, long time ago, i hit my wife once, i felt so ashamed. there was no excuse. none.

  13. shettychamp

    On June 8, 2011 at 1:34 am


    @martin…
    very honest….

  14. Moses Ingram

    On June 8, 2011 at 9:03 am


    A good article.

  15. epania

    On June 8, 2011 at 11:07 am


    thanks for share

  16. CA Johnson

    On June 8, 2011 at 5:52 pm


    Your article was very interesting. Women and men who are abused really do have my sympathy. I think you gave excellent advice on what abuse victims should do. I think it is important to make sure that they have some money so that can use it when they do get away.

  17. Tulan

    On June 8, 2011 at 10:13 pm


    Women should never put up with being mistreated but many do, they can be so brain washed they don\’t realize what\’s happening and think they are to blame.

  18. gaby7

    On June 9, 2011 at 4:27 am


    Where there is wife battering, lets not forget there is also husband battering! I know of a neighbor who is battered daily by his well placed and financially sound wife. I wonder where the children lie in this!

  19. Peace Poet

    On June 9, 2011 at 6:46 am


    Wife battering is inexcusable. we should have affection and friendly feelings for our spouse. Happy married life needs mutual trust and affection.

  20. Sebastian Onciu

    On June 9, 2011 at 10:20 am


    Those who beat their wives are nothing but sick bastards!They have no excuses!

  21. useless786

    On June 9, 2011 at 1:25 pm


    wow nice plz read my articles too

  22. shettychamp

    On June 10, 2011 at 3:17 am


    Thanks 4 all ur support….
    Keep motivating me…..

  23. DR.VNS

    On June 10, 2011 at 6:18 am


    great writing

  24. zulfikar

    On June 10, 2011 at 7:18 am


    i think adjustment is the main factor, if one of them is feeling non-contended then such things will happen again and again.

  25. Ebbin Jose

    On June 11, 2011 at 6:52 am


    It can be a village story. In towns women battering is where men go around women and lick her feet to have a piece of peace at home.

  26. BeatsMe

    On June 12, 2011 at 4:36 am


    Many women put up with these kinds of abuse because they have no choice.

  27. kanivel

    On June 14, 2011 at 10:04 am


    Nice article. This misery is still prevalent in India, even among educated urban couples. Very sad…

  28. lucynora

    On June 25, 2011 at 10:01 am


    great share!

  29. jadeflowerjan

    On June 27, 2011 at 12:12 pm


    this is not only prevalent in india but in the philippines as well, maybe even in the arab world too

  30. sambasivarao

    On July 7, 2011 at 1:03 pm


    Very great share

  31. Kristie Claar

    On August 15, 2011 at 1:56 pm


    great article

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