Our Reactions and Views Determines Who We are

Did you have a First Impression or Expression to someone you met for the first time? Or did you have standpoint about someone which is dissimilar from your friend’s perspective? That’s the reality on this planet. We have different kinds of views on everything we see. People in the same room will look at the same thing and see everything totally different from others. Through that uniquness, it will give you an easy look on how to read minds and determine every person’s character.

What is around us doesn’t determine what we see. What is within us does. The way we see other is a reflections of ourselves. It is an impact to outside from inside. How we see others is an influenced by who we are. You cannot separate your identity from your perspectives and actions. If you’re a trusting person, there’s a big tendency that you’ll see others as trustworthy too. If you’re a caring individual, you’ll see others as compassionate too. If you don’t believe in your self, there is a tendency that you don’t easily trust others. If you’re a critical one, you will see others as critical too. If you’re not comfortable with yourself, then you can’t be comfortable with others. The truth is the way you see and react determines who you are inside.

We can read the inner-self of someone by simply observing that person’s views and actions with people. A person with negative self-image will expect the worst, damage relationship, and find other individual as similarly negative like him/her. Likewise, a positive person will find others similarly positive like him/her. If you hate a someone, there is a very big possibility that there’s a part of yourself in him that you really hate having. The Hurt people hurt people Principle. If you hurt people, it is a reflection that you’ve been also hurt, or there’s a lot of excess baggage in you. If you’re against to someone’s ongoing good relationship, it is a reflection of unstable emotion inside which affects you totally. Like for example; jealousy, anger, or self-pity.

Sometimes, The way you view others and your reaction is determined by who you are. It may be a genetic makeup, experience in life, character and attitude. You cannot get away from that truth. If you don’t like people, that’s really a statement about you and the way you look at people. Your viewpoint is a problem. If that’s the case, don’t try to change others. Don’t even focus on others; focus on yourself. If you change yourself and become the kind of good person you desire to be, you will begin to react and view others in a whole new light.