“Secrets of an Unhappy Life”

Life is like a simple gift given to us everyday. Sometimes we get what we were expecting, and sometimes damning. We typically ask why? Do I really deserve this stressful and unacceptable knack? As we walk along the alleyway of life, so many chances that we “might”; or should we say we “must” bump into, as if they are already designed to be there for you to agonize from it. Pain, trouble and daily problem are considered a part of our life that no one can sidestep; no one has the right to choose not to be on that certain situation or to back out! We tend to ask about the hardships and trials (as a part of the gift) that you encounter in daily run-of-the-mill. We normally ask the Person responsible for it. Worse yet, we wish not to have this anymore. Let us consider this, as we mentioned that is a gift, we should still be thankful not because it is given but because of having it.

If we try looking around and perceiving, people chose to live under the bridge because they have nowhere to run when the heavy rain starts. People who were born in a war-zone wish that they have a calm night to sleep even once in their lives or even wish not to wake up as the morning comes. We are still lucky, lucky enough of having a succulent dinner with our family, a warm bed during a stormy night and money to buy a piece of bread when we are hungry. So, do we still have a right to complain? Or to ask more of what we have? Or to say, “We better not to have it“. Again, life is a gift that not everybody has, if we are in great turbulence; just try to see its reflection and you will realize that it is only a drill for you to be strong in facing more of it as we move along. The truth is everything depends on us, on how we motivate ourselves, how we use that certain gift and how we make it. Perhaps, if you cannot appreciate that simple gift given to you, try to share it and surely others will, then you will discover the meaning of that gift, the true beauty of the so called life being shared.