Complaining All The Time
Who loves to be with people who complain all the time? No body wants to be around them for sure.
That’s right, no body wants to be with someone who always complain. Everything is an issue to him. It will ruin your day if you will allow yourself to associate with people who always complain. Why do some people have this kind of attitude? This is really a problem that no one can help but the concerned individual himself.
I happened to have a co-worker who always complain to almost anything. She can not find any solution if problems come up but complain why it is like this and that. It is very frustrating to be around her. Instead of thinking of a solution, she will make if difficult for people around him to find a simple way out of the problem because she keeps on adding another issue into it. Her co-workers are fed up listening to her every complain it seems like everything is difficult for her. What a misery to be around with this type of personality.
What we always do is to ignore her most of the time. When she starts complaining, we will not say anything but evaporate from her presence one by one. Of course she will again complain why no body wants to listen to her. Why some people are so dammed? They don’t even realize that their ways are the things that make others run away from them? Well, I think the best way is to tell them the truth about their attitudes that most people don’t like about. A respectable person might be the right one to do it. A counselor or a minister of good reputation might be the best qualified person to give advice to people who have this problem.
It is emotionally draining to deal with people who always complain in about everything.
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Post CommentLarry Fish
On January 30, 2011 at 5:08 pm
I’ve been around those people and I know exactly what you are saying. It is frustrating.
djbtol
On January 30, 2011 at 6:46 pm
Being one who has been told that I complain too much, I will agree that I can be a bummer. Do you realize that often those who say I complain too much are just about as bad. Of course they do not view themselves through the same lens.
LJ Spain
On January 30, 2011 at 11:06 pm
Whewwww! I bet you feel better now.