Good Things Come to Those Who Wait?

I’ve always been happy go lucky. I don’t know what that means, but it seems like the way to be. Non-confrontational, don’t want to bother anybody if they don’t bother me. It’s not that I’m afraid of confrontations, I just don’t see the point. But recently, I found that it’s ok to fight for what you deserve. It may not be “me” to return a defective product, or to ask for better service here and there, but I suppose you have to pick your fights.  

These happen to be things that I don’t think about on a regular basis. Now that I think about it though, maybe I should put more consideration into these sorts of things. I hear that with little effort, or maybe alot of effort, depending who you are, that you can change your personality, or raise an aspect of your personality to the surface that wasn’t there before. Is this good for you as an individual though?

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Many questions arise when the aspect of change comes across in ones individual personality. There are many people who have scitzophrenia, or multiple personas that simply arise at any time they please, whether it be out of fear as a protective device, or shame, or sadness. Different emotions give rise for different personas. I for one believe that we all have this, but in a much less dramatic, and more easily controlable form.

My personal answer to the question is “yes” it is OK, and even good for you to give rise to another piece of your personality. It’s just another piece of the puzzle that is “you”. No one wants to be the guy that doesn’t go for anything, just sits there as life passes him by. In the same instance, you don’t want to be percieved as a complete ”jerk” you know the type that goes pushing people around, telling people what to do.

I love to be lazy and just hang out, hoping good things will come. Good things come to those who wait, right?! Well, that’s half right. The only way to truly “live” is to find the moderation. Know when to let things slide, but also, have the sense to know when, and how to fight back. I suppose fighting back is the side of things that I have to work on. Just remember, you have to fight for your right to party!