Survey: Girls Wear False Personas Online (True or False?)
A national survey in the United States revealed that girls hide behind a funny persona online while downplaying assets like intelligence and kindness. True or false?

Credit to Baily Weaver of Medford USA: (The Finger.jpg) Good day, I hope this photo doesn’t offend anyone. It’s just a finger. I’m actually really happy today but this is how I express my happiness. . . I’m hostile and many people mistake this sense of humor as being angry or negative. Nope, I bet I’ll laugh at least couple times today—maybe I’ll swallow steal and it will tickle my belly. Maybe I’ll even steal some car ornaments (I want to so bad). I do want to say my friends have left out of Medford and I didn’t and my boyfriend is at work :|. This time last year all I wanted was not a single person to be around me and now all I want is a little attention. Oh poor little Billy, you’ll be okay. . . unless you have a gas attack. I don’t trust my brain’s actions. Step away from the Billy Goat! (from Wikipedia)
The Girl Scout Research
Researcher Kimberlee Salmond of the Girl Scout Research Institute has involved over a thousand girls between the ages of fourteen and seventeen in her survey study about online personas and social networking. The results reveal eighty two percent of the research respondents think of themselves to be intelligent in real life even as they act like they’re fun online. Salmond says girls “come across” as more well rounded offline than when they’re online. It’s a hypothesis but the thinking (or notion of girls) is that “smarts,” or anything associated with intelligence and kindness, aren’t bankable online when socializing is involved. It’s interesting to note that ninety one percent of the participants use Facebook on a regular basis. Salmond adds how the online environment may not be the proper venue for expression of these qualities in girls.
The survey showed that girls with high self-esteem recognized the mismatch of their “real” and online personalities but that it’s the girls perceived to have low-self esteem which had the greater disparity between their actual and pseudo personalities. Compared to the participants with high self-esteem, more of the low-self-esteem-type of girls admitted to portraying a sexy image online.
Peer Approval Concerns
Now, apart from the expression of a false personality, the also girls expressed concern about online content which may put them in a bad light. Forty eight percent were bothered they might not get accepted in college because of things written about them on the Internet. Thirty nine percent feared rejection of friends and family as a result of the content on social networking sites (like Facebook). Interestingly, sixty eight percent of the girls reported having had an unpleasant experience online, usually from bullying or gossiping.
Salmond thinks girls believe that it’s the fun characteristics which will get them peer approval when social networking. But there’s the argument that this personality-changing phenomenon does not apply to other sites (like Triond) where intelligence may be considered more important than fun. Nevertheless, Salmond says parents should get involved in Facebook (and other sites they frequent) for them to be able to advise their children on how to manage their online personas.
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Post CommentCloudx808
On November 19, 2010 at 10:57 am
Great share, my friend. This is sad but true.
Larry Fish
On November 19, 2010 at 11:40 am
Thanks for sharing, well written
overwings
On November 19, 2010 at 12:13 pm
Nice piece of information. I wonder why people change so much on line.
ladym33
On November 19, 2010 at 1:05 pm
A very good observation.
1Arjun
On November 19, 2010 at 5:53 pm
Interesting..
nimbleful
On November 19, 2010 at 7:46 pm
I’ve noticed some girls seem to use all these awful terms like “lyk” instead of like etc – making them look… not too intelligent, but I guess this is part of their fun/ cool persona. It bugs me so much! heh. I for one always try to be the same “myself” online and offline!
PSingh1990
On November 19, 2010 at 9:52 pm
Nice One.
Thanks for share.
john smither
On November 19, 2010 at 10:50 pm
Interesting article, why do so many people try to be so different than their real selves when online?
amber11
On November 21, 2010 at 4:48 pm
thanks for sharing
K Kristie
On November 23, 2010 at 1:13 am
Based on my own observations, I have to agree.
richelle
On November 23, 2010 at 8:22 pm
I think men and women take on false attributes online. I posted a related article on the 10 Personas of Facebook http://bize-mom.com/2010/11/23/the-10-personas-of-facebook/
Judy Sheldon
On November 26, 2010 at 11:09 pm
Alvin, this is something I noted about my grands, both girls and boys. The language is totally different, even the poses…