The Lie Every Woman Believes

Being Insecure is like jumping into a pot of boiled oil. Doubt is a sizzler of the mind and where there is doubt there is always confusion. Where there is confusion there is always a feeling of distrust. Where there is a feeling of distrust there is no room to grow or gain, there is only room for rejection and loss.

If one chooses to reject doubt they loose because they have already completed the cycle of insecurity and they have chosen their own personal private suicide within.

If we were given the opportunity to express our doubts out loud at any given moment of the day without fear it would yield punishment or loss, would we?

I have the ability to only explain what I have experienced. I have overcome great insecurity and even greater loss. Some due to my own self sabotaging and some because (even if I want to admit it or not)

I was not loved by those I was around. Please take from this article what resolve you choose. I realize I still have room to grow. This is the journey of your own free will

Here is a series of important questions to ask yourself AND answer yourself (no one can answer these questions but you)

Are you afraid others will find out where you hurt? Yes or No

Does your mind have and image of who you should be? Yes or No

This is the root to all insecurity if you answered yes. It is the place where thoughts begin, perceptions grow and insecurity steals. It is an inner world. No one else can see your inner world BUT YOU.

We are all given the opportunity to BE OUR TRUE SELF. This is free will. We choose before anyone else even sees inside our INNER WORLD

Will we be a true Image of our selves?

Or will we be a false image that we should be

If you look out to the world around you, as you know it, the people, the challenges, and the difficulties you face (big or small) are the OUTER WORLD. They too have made a choice in their OWN INNER WORLD. You cannot see into their INNER WORLD. No one can but them.

God says “You will know me by my fruits” Meaning the wisdom of a Higher Power within us can determine when we are being and Image and when we are Truly Ourselves

And

The wisdom of a higher power within us can determine if our OUTER WORLD is a TRUE IMAGE or if it is as it should be

It is not easy to be everything we are in our own INNER WORLD. Many will not accept who you really are. Many will still continue to direct you towards the idea of who you should be. This is from their INNER WORLD. If a messengers comes saying BE as you should be they come directly from the root of their own inner world that seeks to create and IMAGE of who you should be.

…and sadly we comply

Because we also have an Image of whom we should be

My husband has brought great light to the LIE spoken to EVE in the beginning.

The serpent gave her an image…of who she should be. In the INNER WORLD of EVE (of everywoman) is the TRUTH

I am being this TRUTH and no longer have the Image; anyone else believed I should be and not even

….As I believe I SHOULD BE.

I do deeply understand there is not one LIFE that has not felt pain.  The truth however begins within us.  If we doubt, or are faced with inner pain and insecurity we must find courage to allow those who truly do love us and care the opportunity to know.

Not because we should be this way, but because past all the images, should be’s and could be’s, doubts and insecurities… is The REAL YOU in a world inside your skin, wanting to Live in the Outer World.

(You are a daughter of Eve)

You are good enough; find out what really makes a difference in how you feel.

We are on a journey to shatter the Image of Perfection and Imperfection.