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What Part Do Men Have in Female Emotions?

At first glance you might think this is a man bashing post, but you will only find out what the contents are by reading further.

As early as being a young daughter to a man, I began knowing monumental things that a man is involved regarding woman’s emotions. There that is not unusual is it? Some women are considered time bombs from a mans stand point unless he takes some ownership in that emotional explosion. Part of that ownership can be labeled understanding of the way things started all that female emotional roller coaster.

All humans have triggers that set them off into the wild blue yonder, so let’s take a look at some of that stimuli. As babies we all are unable to take care of any of our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual needs. Loving parents nurture us through to the toddler age, where tremendous changes occur. As 2 to 6 year olds, we have a wider horizon with accompanying restrictions. Imagine a diesel train going at 30 MPH confined to 2 MPH being an example of what transpires when a toddler is under some societal confinement. Safety is considered, so is health along with expectations playing a role in the advancement of emotions. Here comes the drastic change that I am talking about in my title.

As boys go from babyhood to the toddler stage, they are most often times encouraged to do adventuresome activities. The sounds that come out of the boys mouth are revered as “boyish” with the guttural noises he makes.

Girls at times are guided into a mother roll with presents of dolls and are directed into the nurture rolls by some parents. Even fathers tend to treat their little females as their “little girls”. Little girls lean on daddies to protect, comfort and lean on them for muscular strength.

The end could be right now, since important points have been verified with the above mentioned statements. I so need to add one specific question for you to silently answer to yourself no matter what sex you are that is reading this information.  It is not as simple as you would think, so it might be one answer now and in 5 years it might be quite another answer to the same question. How does the female continue to branch out to become her own complete entity without relying on the roles that were put before her as a very young girl?

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  1. ladybaby

    On June 22, 2009 at 6:34 am


    You are right, “One answer now, could be very different in five years.” I have a daughter who is a “Master” in karate, and a son who is a cook. We need to stop stereo typing males from females. We all have our own talents, and we should be able to develop them, no matter who we are.

  2. Judy Sheldon

    On June 22, 2009 at 6:45 am


    At some point we begin to question what we have been taught & test our boundaries. It is difficult when all of our lives we have been restricted by limitations placed upon by first our parents and then our society. If only each child could know without a shadow of a doubt that they could arrive at their full potential, regardless of gender.

    Roberta, you have made some good points re. the male’s part in female emotions.

    Take care & God bless.

  3. ken bultman

    On June 22, 2009 at 8:26 am


    She might try doing it without the benefit of very young boys.

  4. kate smedley

    On June 22, 2009 at 8:43 am


    An interesting post, I think being yourself no matter what is so important but it is difficult when faced with ’stereotypes’ in society. Thought provoking.

  5. Jenny Heart

    On June 22, 2009 at 9:06 am


    This needs to be look upon as much food for thought. It’s fantastic!

  6. CHAN LEE PENG

    On June 22, 2009 at 9:47 am


    This is a thought-provoking piece. You let us to think of some of the important issue. Liked it.

  7. Francy

    On June 22, 2009 at 10:00 am


    well done…i learn a lot

  8. Rana Sinha

    On June 22, 2009 at 10:54 am


    Thought provoking. Can’t give any prompt answer. Being a man, I’ll have to think about it.

  9. nobert soloria bermosa

    On June 22, 2009 at 3:25 pm


    i am in full agreement with ladybaby….interesting

  10. Birdie

    On June 22, 2009 at 5:57 pm


    very interesting, especially since i can relate in a way. I’m quite a boyish girl and ahve been somewhat encouraged to be that way by my father and brother, whom i seem to have modelled my behaviour on over the years. The females of my family, such as my mother and grandmother, however, treat me like i’m delicate just because i’m a girl, despite the fact that most of my friends (including the boys) look to me as the protector, and this irritates me greatly.
    So many people think that women can only do certain things, many of them don’t even realsie that they conform to these ideals.

  11. Inna Tysoe

    On June 22, 2009 at 8:51 pm


    Interesting.

    Inna

  12. clay hurtubise

    On June 22, 2009 at 8:52 pm


    My sister who was quite feminine, enjoyed all the camping and ‘boy’ adventures I did. I think a large part is parental influence.

    Thanks,
    clay

  13. Poetic Enigma

    On June 23, 2009 at 12:37 pm


    Great article, very thought provoking
    Thanks for sharing (:

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