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When It’s Difficult to Deal with Hard-headed People

Love Anyway.

Some people can be cruel, cold, and hard headed. Anyone who has lived on this planet for even a few years has come to this harsh realization. While it is unpleasant, it is a day to day reality. I would say the best way to deal with hard headed people is to Love them anyway.

Before you think me insane, I’ll explain why I say what I just have. Gentle and Loving-kindness melts hearts, if you love even the riff raff some may look at you strangely, but Love is a far greater force than evil.                   If someone is harsh w/you, turn the other cheek. Pray for them when they harm you rather than harming them back.  

If they’re hungry, feed them, if they’re naked give them clothes, if they’re thirsty give them drink.

I know these advices may be challenging for many people, especially when vengeance is far easier. Returning evil for evil just breeds more evil though, by Loving instead, you can break the cycle of evil before it has time to fester in the soul.

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  1. Karen Gross

    On March 8, 2011 at 6:38 pm


    Excellent advice. A soft answer turns away wrath.

  2. Emmie

    On March 8, 2011 at 7:10 pm


    Excellent description :)

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