Why It is Difficult to End Relations with The Narcissist?

Why women cannot get over the narcissist?

                               The women who have been in a relationship with a narcissist will concede it takes time to get over the narcissist . It is by far the most time consuming as victims of narcissism attempt to make sense of the perceived unwarranted break up, exploitation, disbandment and disregard that the narcissist subjects his victims to.  The brain is wired work out what has lead to the disintegration of fundamentals in an individual’s life.  The narcissist’s ex partners will spend most of their time trying to figure out what went wrong.  The annihilation of the victim’s ideal, thoughts of safety and the obstruction of the person’s social awareness is by far the greatest changes victims of narcissism experience. Fear of trusting oneself as a good judge of character is greatly questioned.   The individual questions the reality of the situation,  as the clear truth dawns on the nocturnal views of her lover, removing the veil of darkness from her eyes and illuminating the true essence of the narcissist.

                 Victims of narcissism will discover that the period of mourning over the lost of the relationship is far more exhausting that other separations. The individual is depleted emotionally as negative emotions ranging from depression, sadness, self flagellation, rage to suicidal Ideation .  These emotions completely shatter the world of the narcissist’s partner. The narcissist victim feels drained and damaged, transfixed in time and occupation, desiring to relive a unioun thatwas nonexistent, to recapture the illusion of a relationship that did not exist.

                        You may beat yourself up, asking questions over and over again, how could I have allowed this to happen to me. Why was I such a fool? How could I have been that blind? Why did I overlook his dido?  How can I still want to have a relationship with this reprehensible and unremitting malevolent character?