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Will The Narcissist Pay for Hurting You

Narcissists do not live in dread of karma or god’s vengeance. Chances are they will continue their life, wreaking havoc and despair without a care for the repercussions of their actions. Some narcissists do get what is coming to them but it is not up to you to watch and pray that he suffers. You must live your life. If you focus on revenge, you will never get over the narcissist and he has an emotional stronghold on your life.

                     You want the narcissist to pay for what he has done to you. You wish or hope that the deities will bestow a fitting punishment for the atrocities and mental trauma you were subjected to.  The truth is that you cannot wait for karma to grant you the catharsis that you need. You cannot build your life around wanting to make the narcissist pay for what he did to you. Life is not about keeping scores. Life is not about revenge or living for vengeance.

          The best revenge you can have on a narcissist is getting your life together and moving on.  It’s about using the abuse as a stepping stone for building a better self esteem and life concept that will engender self confidence and an overall feel good attitude. An attitude and perspective that will discourage your obsession with the narcissist and point you in the direction of self upliftment and actualization is what you need to cultivate.

            Narcissists do not live in dread of karma or god’s vengeance. Chances are they will continue their life, wreaking havoc and despair without a care for the repercussions of their actions.  Some narcissists do get what is coming to them but it is not up to you to watch and pray that he suffers. You must live your life. If you focus on revenge, you will never get over the narcissist and he has an emotional stronghold on your life.

                    You may feel that you cannot experience freedom, love, bliss or happiness until he pays, but what if the narcissist’s never punished, will you live in an eternal chasm of despair, pain and sadness?  Carrying a torch for the narcissist is like holding a burning ember in your hand that you want to throw at the narcissist. You are not given the opportunity to do so or you lack the temerity and torch remains there and burns your hand.  Throw down your torch for the narcissist, move on with your life and become free of the narcissist by dispelling your need for revenge and reprisal.

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  1. LoveDoctor

    On February 25, 2011 at 12:01 am


    The best revenge is sweet and that is when they do come around again and trust me they will, you won’t feel anything again because your self-confidence is so high that they don’t stand a chance

  2. anonymous

    On February 17, 2012 at 12:47 pm


    From my perspective the worst thing you could ever do to a narcissist would be to completely igonore them and refuse to be a source of supply. That is the best revenge of all. Deny their existence and have no contact, completely cut yourself off forever.Use any means possible because as soon as you cut them off they will want you back to feed off of.They dont care whether you adore them or despise them. It is the attention they want. If you ignore them they will quickly move to the next victim.

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