10 Clues Mr Right is Actually Mr Wrong!
by 10 clues Mr Right is actually Mr Wrong.
- Mr Wrong looks for easy targets. These include women with low self-esteem, who are afraid of being alone or the newly-divorced or widowed.
- Mr Wrong wants everything now. Your undivided attention, your adoration and your body. He rushes talk of marriage, pushes for sex early in the relationship, fears emotional intimacy and emphasizes the physical.
- Mr Wrong hides things. He may hide personal issues, financial problems, weaknesses and emotions. It may not be what he says, but leaves unsaid. A classic example: The man who “forgets” to tell you he is “separated, but not quiet divorced”. He leaves out parts of the truth that later turn out to be pivotal.
- Mr Wrong looks bad to your loved ones. If your friends and family have serious doubts about the guy you are dating, take note. Loved ones can often spot things about a man you are not able to see clearly at first.
- Mr Wrong has a temper. He flares up about insignificant things. He may or may not be physically violent. You find yourself walking on eggshells, not wanting to incite him accidentally.
- Mr Wrong can be picky. He can also be controlling and rigid. He adjusts pictures in public while waiting rooms and gets angry when his car has crumbs in it. He might be even be the exact opposite. Messy. He called it “creative”, but you know your man would call him a slab.
- Mr Wrong may be looking for a mom. You end up feeling as if you have adopted a child instead of taking on an adult. He lets you do the hard emotional work for the relationship and seems to come alive only when fun is involved.
- Mr Wrong can seem too good to be true. Because he is. He charms his way through everything, including taking himself out of responsibilities at home. He often acts as though the rules do not apply to him.
- Mr Wrong can bee too faithless or too religious. He may be indifferent to faith and value, or obsessed with them. Either way, he carries the anger about his (non)devation. He may be too cowardly to take a stand, or an obnoxious crusader who wants to change you.
- Mr Wrong may be uncaring. He is sometimes indifferent towards you or others. This type is a passive person who just seems to be along for the ride but tries hard to remain uninvolved.
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Post CommentLittle Miss Lizzy
On January 26, 2009 at 8:43 pm
You have covered some good points here – women take heed!
Ro Marie
On March 20, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Goodness, with this list is there anyone left to be Mr. Right?
starrlove9
On April 7, 2009 at 1:51 pm
coming from a guys perspective you did an awesome job!
I really liked it.
nedero
On June 14, 2009 at 1:44 am
I share the same feelings, but I may be a little bit more forgiving of Mr. Wrong and allows him to adjust to my pet peeves also.
mr gay
On June 16, 2009 at 8:13 am
what abt gay man looking for mr right?? can u come out with good points too?
bronxxx
On July 22, 2009 at 6:25 am
Pragmatic observations there.
Oh, I score high I thought — abt not being Mr. Wrong. 9.5 correct items.
Aria
On August 29, 2009 at 5:26 am
OOOHHHH That was nice I should think about these more and maybe using and test them to know better.
KimTherapist
On December 17, 2010 at 3:27 pm
Very nice article!