10 Signs Your Relationship Will Fail
Before you buy their next birthday present, make sure your making the right choice.
Everyone has been in that situation where you don’t know whether to pursue a long term relationship, or just dump it and move on. This article has been designed to help you make that decision!
- Long silences on the phone. If you call your partner and have nothing to say, this is a bad sign! Especially at the start of a relationship! It means you don’t find them interesting or visa versa. If your conversations dead, your relationships dead!
- Repetition. If all you ever do is go out to dinner on tight-ass tuesday, your relationship is boring. Don’t you have something more interesting to do? If there is a flair, or some reason to stay with him/her your relationship should be spontaneous!
- Laughter. If your partner does not make you laugh, you are heading down Snore Street.
- Desire. Though his may seem obvious, if you have already lost most desire to see him early in the relationship- don’t even bother!
- Passion. Whether you are holding hands or hitting the bedroom, passion is a must! Without it, you will drift apart and your time will be wasted!!
- Intrigue. If you are uninterested as to why they have not called you back, why they suddenly couldn’t meet up with you, this relationship will fail!
- Memory. If your partner cannot remember your birthday, what you just told him 5 seconds ago, you’ve got to clear your memory of him, fast!
- Speed. Be weary of this, SOMETIMES when racing into a relationship so quickly, it can end just as abruptly. Try to slow things down, or you might loose interest!
- Arguments. Some people don’t realize that by screaming your lungs out, down the phone or in person, its not good for your throat or your relationship. I don’t care how passionate your ‘makeup’ session is, I think you’d both would appreciate keeping those brutal insults to yourself.
- Change. If your partner forces you to change, what did he see in you the first place? I say pack your bags and give him the dump!
Seriously, if any four of these signs match your relationship right now, there is no point! End it now before it comes complicated.
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Post CommentPreston Carew
On August 4, 2009 at 11:39 am
I thought this was going to be boring when I opened it, but had I known this 5 years ago, I would have ended several relationships much earlier. Thanks. The phone one is especially pertinent
Beth Suess
On August 4, 2009 at 11:53 am
Very interesting piece, thanks for sharing!
clafleur
On August 4, 2009 at 3:59 pm
i will never share this article with my lady friend, lol!
Tracey Parece
On August 4, 2009 at 7:19 pm
I have been there. Thanks for an interesting and honest article. I think your advice will help all those who heed it!
fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa
On August 4, 2009 at 9:10 pm
I am not so sure that all that you say is true, even though it has solid ground.
I have been married almost 21 years, dating him 2 years before and was friends for about 8 years, So I have know my husband about 31-32 years, and we have our ups and downs.
Fun times, dangerous times, sensual times, exciting times and yet we let each other be all that we can be.
Yes I get mad, I write anger articles, and I wonder where that fun loving husband is, and then I also realize we are all different, and every day holds a new surprise.
Great Article.
RickyStosberg
On August 4, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Well, for the majority I guess I can understand why this would be true. But there are always exceptions to the rules, right? Sometimes it’s just nice to be around each other in complete peace. Just being in my partner’s presence can be outstanding when I’m in a good mood.
AeDechavez
On August 4, 2009 at 9:59 pm
are you a love guru or what? great tips!
Ajeem88
On August 5, 2009 at 1:01 am
good and useful article…
UmerIqbal
On August 5, 2009 at 1:31 am
very useful article! Nice work pal!
shaun simpson
On August 5, 2009 at 3:08 am
a little to clear cut for me but its got some good points
S M Blomker
On August 5, 2009 at 3:34 am
you make some very good sence here.
dalia4world
On August 6, 2009 at 9:39 am
It might just mean that you are in your down-times…. telling you from experience, if you go through them, the up-times are awaiting. I believe, any of long-term relationships have experienced some shakes