10 Things Men Shouldn’t Do in a Relationship

Most men consider women as an odd specie with no particular goal that just loves to go shopping all the time. We have established that things are not like that, but because the rumors don’t spread fast enough we wrote a mini-guide about what your boyfriend must not do. Print and glue this article on the wheel in his car and maybe he’ll read it!

1. You don’t have to be so quiet

Even if you’ve done something wrong it would be best to hear it from you rather than from our neighbors.  Moreover, if we ask you for a piece of advice or an opinion, being silent is not an answer! We prefer talking not avoidance, it’s a thing we girls do!

2.  Stop fooling around when we talk about serious matters

We know you like being funny and you love it when you’re the clown of the party, but we cannot appreciate this when we want to communicate something important. It’s not so hard to be focused for a few moments!

3. Don’t ignore us when we talk about contraception

We already know you don’t like to wear condoms but then let’s talk about it and maybe we can agree on something.

4. Don’t laugh about us wanting a baby

You’re satisfied with yourself and just yourself, but later you’ll want an heir so you can teach him how to play soccer. Be kind and listen to us when we talk about our plans.

5. Don’t minimize our successes

Maybe you’re better and know more things than we do but you don’t have to remind us about it so often. So what if you’re a Harvard graduate? If you’ll continue this way… it’ll be just you and your diploma.

6. Don’t avoid our friends

I’m sure your friends count more to you then our friends do, but at least try to be more concerned when we’re all together.

7. Don’t laugh at our fears

Maybe our fears are somewhat childish but they have a real impact on us. We worry (maybe too much) about what might happen and we say it to you too. We want you to take care and pay attention to what you’re doing. Maybe you’ll consider it funny and say nothing, but don’t laugh about us. That’s more elegant!

8. Don’t lie to us

No matter what happens and how bad it is, try to tell the truth. We’re fragile but truth never killed us. Just try it!

9. Don’t tease us constantly

We have a different sense of humor and many times we don’t understand irony. You might create more troubles if you try to joke on something that really bothers us.

10. Don’t put pressure on us

The more you’ll try to convince us to do something and give us deadlines also, the more you’ll be farther away from your goal. Give us time and space, you’ll soon find the benefits.