10 Tips on Catching a Cheating Girlfriend or Boyfriend

Sixth, bring something to the job your mate may have forgotten at home or surprise him or her with something special no matter the time of day.  A surprise visit, phone call or gift in the mail here or there has a way of uncovering some things.  Leave your name off the tag on gifts and see if your mate will mention what he or she received at work today.  If they suspect that you sent the first gift they may say something, but another gift so soon after the first, they may not mention anything assuming that it came from the person they are cheating on you with.

Seventh, don’t be a stranger when it comes to your mate’s family and friends.  If they have an event, show up and put on your best face and smile.  People love to talk and at some point they will reveal all you need to know about him especially those who don’t like him.

Eighth, put your partner’s face up on your social networking site.  You will be surprised at how small the Internet world is.  Someone may recognize your mate and send you some information about him or her.  

Ninth, pay attention to the time when your mate says he or she is leaving.  If he or she goes shopping, notice what your mate brings back when they say, “I am going grocery shopping.”  Notice how long your mate is gone.  Look at the time stamp on the receipt.

Lastly, sometimes use your mate’s items.  Things such as, your mate’s vehicle (check the trunk, under the seats, glove compartment, etc.) a cell phone, the computer (as mentioned earlier), gym bag, and other belongings will uncover lies or reveal the truth.  If you find that his or her inbox is squeaky clean and you know that your partner loves to text and his or her computer has very little activity visiting websites on the computer, yet you know your mate uses it a lot, then he or she is covering their activity for a reason.  It doesn’t mean that he or she is cheating, but there could be something else going on that they don’t want you to know about.  You will have to do some more investigative work to get to the bottom of things.

Now, if you feel you have to go through all of these measures to find your peace before deciding to break up then by all means do what you must.  But if you feel it will bring you greater peace not even knowing about the scandalous activities that are going on with your mate, then don’t dig for anything just make a plan to end the relationship without drama.  However, if you do break up, don’t go back if you suspect that there was someone else, because once the trust is broken it will take a long time to get it back and sometimes relationships are best worked on when two people are just friends and nothing more.