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10 Wacky But Effective Ways to Get Your Ex Back

If you really want to get your ex back, you can. But first think if that makes you happier or should you move on. If your aim is to get them back coz they are worthy of you, take this 10 wacky suggestions.

When a relationship turn bitter break-ups are inevitable. It only means that you are both humans that have your own wants and needs, when no longer satisfied it never feels right and resort to break-up and heart breaks. There are good and effective ways to salvage the relationship by doing the following right after the break-up happens. I know some of them can be strange that will make you think these suggestions wouldn’t get you back your ex but if your own ways works, you wouldn’t be reading this at the first place.

  1. Stop calling your ex. Remember that he’s irritated with you and doesn’t want to be with you anymore. To make them want you again is to make them miss you. Trying to reach out by millions of calls and countless emails will only irritate them more and makes you look desperate.
  2. Agree with your ex. If you keep on arguing with them, the more they reject you and the more they find reasons to leave you and see more faults from you. Agree with them and pull out from them.
  3. Avoid gossiping about your ex to other people.  Even if how sad or hurt you are, it’s not right to gossip about your ex from the people around you. You can’t get him back this way. Gossips will backfire in one way or another if the two of you get back together.
  4. Improve yourself mentally and financially. If you increase yourself, your ex would want you more. Who would want a loser, lousy people in their life? Even if you don’t get your ex, a huge possibility that you can have more dates since you are a well developed you.  Getting somewhere in life makes your ex wants you more and more.
  5. Stop paying attention to your ex. Just remember this, the less you think of them, the more they think about you and the more you think about yourself, the more they think about you. The more you think about them, the less they think about you. Choose your best option!
  6. If you have social sites like Myspace, Tagged, Facebook; start adding as many people as you can mostly from the opposite sex. This will drive your ex crazy in jealousy. If they do not have any feelings for you anymore, it will intrigue them.
  7. Hang out, visit places especially the social places and take a lot of photos. Upload this in your social profile and put exciting captions. This makes your ex even more jealous. Make sure you switch your profile to public view.
  8. While dating your ex’s close friends is not good; date someone but don’t jump to a new relationship- This actually drives your ex crazy and instantly jealous when they see you having dinner with another guy. Humans have these territorial issues and when they knew you going with another person, it tilts their balance and would want you back as part of their territory.  Make sure your ex is worth it before you decide to get back or this new date might be a good prospect for a better relationship, it’s your choice.
  9. Increase your confidence by improving your physical attributes – Try to keep your looks extremely good this will make your ex wish they hadn’t broken up with you.
  10. Ignore your ex for at least two whole weeks.  Top of all the suggestions, this is the best trick, it will make your ex wonder and chase you like crazy, simply because they will be curious and enraged that you even didn’t bother to contact them.
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  1. Fresh Writing

    On July 22, 2009 at 1:43 pm


    Some unusual but great tips here! XD I’ll remember these if I ever run into a break-up…

    -Fresh Writing

  2. payge

    On July 22, 2009 at 3:18 pm


    Needed a few of these a year ago…a little late now.Otherwise a great article to read and was interesting facts.But I still may use tip #2 and #10 though.

  3. papaleng

    On July 22, 2009 at 11:42 pm


    some surprising tips! nice article.

  4. Rifle

    On July 26, 2009 at 8:45 am


    Hi, look, I know that sometimes you can really want your ex back, but I think some of these tips are a little bit based on petty jealousy. I’m not trying to judge, but I really think you have a look at this one: http://www.socyberty.com/Lifestyle-Choices/Resolving-Petty-Jealousy-for-the-Common-Folk.903105.

    CHANGED MY LIFE.

  5. dalia4world

    On July 26, 2009 at 9:38 am


    Hey, I read plenty of those tips a year ago. I don’t think I ever used any of them consciously, but we are by some magic still together… so hell knows, if there’s any trick that can help. But if there is, I think this is it: move on with your life, find interesting things to do, plan your trips, and a stay abroad (study or volunteer for a year). You will hit two shots at a time: make your ex consider you again, and make you feel happy and excited about your future. Be nice to him, talk, but don’t seem desperate. I would advice against showing up with other guys, this will only convince him, that you were not meant for him anyway. Would you chase a guy if he’s already dating someone else? I would just let him go.

    The downside: you might get too excited with your new future and wish choose your life instead your ex. Another downside: even if you get him back, unless you really resolve all the issues and decide to get married and live happily ever after, you are likely to arrive to the same point soon. It is hard to rebuild trust and be with a person who rejected you once. Think, that if you give your love and commitment, you also deserve to be with a person who’s really into you.

    If the relationship has no future, you might still want it know just because you are very sad, but, thinking with a clear mind, what you want is happy life together ever after, right?

  6. CutestPrincess

    On August 10, 2009 at 7:26 am


    Well, I see someone has been doing an awful lot of research and studying. Good job!

  7. Rajiv Sighamony

    On August 12, 2009 at 4:37 pm


    great tips, especially 6 and 8.

  8. Anamika S

    On November 27, 2009 at 2:06 am


    You have got everything covered. Great Advice! In fact I just wrote an Article on why you should not get back to your ex.

  9. vickymathan

    On January 10, 2010 at 5:22 am


    thanks for sharing

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