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11 Tips to Get Her to Say Yes

From a survey involving girls from different backgrounds. Two bonus male tips have also been added.

Have you ever desired a lady and wondered how to approach her? Is the girl of your dreams proving unreachable? Here are some useful tips to help you get any girl! Wonder why we are so sure it works? Well quite simple this tips where got from ladies themselves. We did a survey of what ladies really look for in a guy before agreeing to date him. From the results we took a pool of the 10 most useful tips. If these tips can’t help you (although I really doubt that), then I advise you stay off girls and just stick to little male pets.

  1. Be bold

    This I think should be tip number one. A woman needs a man not just someone in male pants but someone who can take charge and she can lean on. It is okay to be nice and sweet but you have to show you are a man. If you are scared to even approach her you are telling a lot of your self confidence level. The shy guys don’t’ get the girl (unless sometimes in the movies). If you desire her you should be able to make the moves, she might reject it at first but would still admire your confidence and style.

  2. Be nice

    Make an effort to be nice. Open doors pull out chairs and believe me no matter what she says or where she is from she would be impressed. Be a gentleman when around her. Be considerate and let her see how you are willing to go out of your way to be extra nice to her. Being nice means you are polite and gentle. Your aim is to convince her or entice her with a fore-taste of how you are going to treat her when she is yours. When she seems rude and unfriendly it pays to still be nice to her.

  3. Be a listener

    Now this was real popular among the ladies, they all say they need a man they can talk to. Can you be that man? Well you have to prove it early. Learn to listen to her. When with her let her talk, don’t go blabbing about you and you alone. That is what all other guys do they keep talking about themselves and their accomplishments. Believe me she has heard it in many variations so it would pay you to be different. Let her talk. Use questions to let her tell you about herself. Remember the rule, talk less and listen more (take note; I did not say be dumb!).

  4. Be truthful

    The truth has the knack of always rearing up its head one time in the future. No matter how you try to hide it, it always surfaces in time. This is a fact of life and to avoid the bitter effects of concealed truths it is wise to be truthful from the very start. Let her see that she can depend on you. Tell her the truth about you and you past. Have you been to jail before or have a child? It would be much better if you tell her yourself and quite early in the relationship. No one is perfect so it is only normal to have a few not too palatable actions. But lying and saying the truth is a choice you have to make and she would not appreciate if you choose to lie. Do not pretend to be what you ar not, let her see you as you are and you would be amazed that your honesty would open doors in her heart for you.

  5. Remember the little things

    Believe it or not what leaves lasting impressions on a girl’s impressionable mind are the seemingly little things. Buy her a house and forget her birth day and you would understand this point better. Little things such as unexpected phone calls, flowers and little treats are what would make her convinced you are for real. Going out for a date do not always have to be the formal expensive outing. Call and offer to have a coffee with her, go out for a walk or to local caf√© would provide a more simple setting devoid of the usual formal dating atmosphere with the related pressure of being on a date. You are both more relaxed. Remember it is the little signs, the little things you do and say that might just win the race for you.

  6. Be a friend, be interested in her

    It helps you when a girl believes you are interested in her, as in truly interested in her. What she does, her life, her goals, plans and things associated with her. Take interest in her child if she has one, her career and her problems. In other words be a true friend a concerned friend. Did she tell you of a difficult assignment at school or office? Remember to call or ask her later how it went. Don’t just forget about it as it concerns you not. She has to be able to see you as a friend she can rely on.

  7. Be fun to be with

    Everyone likes to have a good time. Take time to know what she likes and make each time with you fun for her. This does not mean spend a fortune (although the truth is that is what some girls would actually prefer) you just have to be creative and being witty does not hurt. Do not try to play the clown or comedian always making jokes and trying to make people laugh all the time. Be fun to be with do not go and embarrass yourself.

  8. Be nice to her friends

    Many girls are greatly influenced by her friends. If you notice that she has a close group of friends it would be a good idea to try to impress them to. You target and aim is your girl, but do remember that her friends might just be part of the panel to review your application. Be nice to them and be aware that they would be offering her suggestions which might not all be in your favor so if you could isolate her; take my advice and skillfully do it.

  9. Respect her feelings

    A woman is a human with feelings and emotions. She desires things for herself and has her own hopes and dreams. You want her to feel that you can both pursue your dreams together. In doing this you have to respect her as a woman and as a person. When she says no, it won’t be bad to lay off for a while. Do not treat her as a child or as one lesser to you. The tricky thing about showing respect is that it doesn’t help if you believe you are showing her respect but she does not feel respected. You want her to feel that you are respecting her.

  10. Love her

    Believe me, wherever a girl comes from or what her background was like she desires the same basic thing as other women. Most of them require and appreciate someone who loves her. Circumstance might make her act otherwise but truth be told all women secretly want a man who would really love them. IF you can convince her that your love for her is real you have solved gained her heart by 50% and the work is half done. It would be easier for you to follow the other tips if you really love her. Loving her was what all the women agreed was a quality all the women asked said was among the most important. The issue would now be how to convince her and let her see that you really do love her. That’s easy; read the tips above.

  11. Take note that these tips are not exhaustive of all you need to know to get her to say yes or where they all that the ladies in the survey mentioned. These were just the ones that occurred most. Also take note that these tips were from ladies not from guys. Some ladies might not be aware of or want to say some tips known to us guys that do work. I have thus decided to add to bonus tips of mine which any guy worth his salt in getting girls would recognize as effective. If all these tips do not help you get a girl to say yes then please avoid everything female.

  12. Be evasive

    Now this may be confusing but try to understand it. You want he girl, that is the aim of the game, you want her to know this but do not let her be too sure, confuse her! Smother her with praise and later act a bit less interesting. Reveal less definite facts about you. Be mysterious and not always direct. Skillfully let her know you have options, you would prefer her company but if she is not available… Then the very next day smother her with words about how she is irreplaceable. Visit her for a while and then lay back a little. Believe me this makes you more interesting and somewhat of a challenge.

  13. Do not always be Mr. Nice Guy

    Do not always be the good boy on the block. Sometimes you what to show your wilder side, the naughty boy you can be. She does not desire you to be a saint, saints are less fun so be nice but don’t over do it. Always keep her guessing what you would do. Do not be too predictable.

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  1. daniel

    On November 30, 2007 at 1:29 pm


    Are you sure this stuff would work? i kinda preffered the last 2 tips from a guy, think i would try that out. why are some girls so easy to get and some just playing too damn difficult. anyway good points mentioned and some everyday hard to practice stuff too. Imagine open doors and stuff. urghh!

  2. linda

    On December 1, 2007 at 3:12 am


    am a girl and i do know that some of these tips or moves might work, but it also takes a lot more. For example the size of your pocket, how sexy you are or handsome and good you are if you know what i mean. but in all they r still usefull tips. hope u guys are reading. open doors and remember the little stuffs. lol!

  3. bad dude

    On December 2, 2007 at 12:21 pm


    thats what exactly am not; mr good guy

  4. david

    On December 4, 2007 at 11:14 am


    is there really a set of rules and guides that would work all time for every boy on every girl? Do you Leno have tons of girlfriends? I bet you don’t even have one and you are giving tips. i have a female dog on heat if you are interested and these desperate.

  5. dipz

    On December 6, 2007 at 12:29 pm


    is it a trial version this stuff is not enough!

  6. Goofy

    On December 8, 2007 at 10:41 am


    If you tried these basic stuff n still need help getting a girl to like u then u should try male cats. The only tin this list lacks is that you should have a boxload of cash n be willing to spread it all over her. Cash works all d time everytime. it stll does. if u doubt me send me her address n give me 1 week

  7. Liane Schmidt

    On January 5, 2008 at 7:24 pm


    Interesting article. I think each person is different, but your tips can definitely be helpful.

    Best wishes.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  8. Leno

    On May 22, 2008 at 4:03 am


    Thanks Liane, of course everyone is different. Tips are just pointers. If your eyes are open you should be able to see the way.

  9. cara

    On July 31, 2008 at 11:22 pm


    O yeah those sound like the PERFECT way….but there are 12 tips and not 11.

  10. corey

    On September 9, 2008 at 2:32 pm


    thanks i finally relize that girls like challenges,i’ll try being a little mysteriouse and be mr.bad to the bone.

  11. leno

    On October 8, 2008 at 10:38 am


    12 tips? who pays for the extra 1 , lol. well please playing Mr Bad works when done expertly and with sense. for it to trully be effective you need to spice it up with soft moments to suprise her. dont be pur badddddddddddddd or you will soon be so alone

  12. mark

    On December 21, 2008 at 1:10 pm


    other poster was right. not enough info. i can approach women but can only find asian women on online sites, not the good ones

  13. Buzu

    On July 5, 2009 at 9:11 am


    I think these tips would help you find the righteous lady and have a good relationship with her,I will try this and see

  14. leno

    On December 27, 2009 at 2:40 am


    Like i said tips are like pointers, no one way or style would work on everybody. each girl is different and the circumstances may differ. learn the points and adapt from one situation to another. for help with the asian chicks check out this article http://www.socyberty.com/Relationships/Tips-for-Success-Dating-Asian-Girls.64189

  15. AC

    On April 14, 2010 at 3:56 pm


    This is the biggest pile of half-assed trash info I’ve ever read. If you want to be a 40 year old virgin, fine, treat women like royalty. Women always say (with the logical portion of their brain) they want a sweet, dependable, respectable guy who will treat them right

    By that of course they mean a guy who will pay all their bills, give them a place to stay for free and hand over his credit cards in exchange for the esteemed role of being their emotional tampon.

    Guys, I know this is hard, but if you really want women, treat them like dirt. Be bold, confident, and don’t give a crap what she or anyone else think. You will feel so much better about yourselves. Let the person inside you you are smothering come out. Women love excitement, not doormats

  16. latinlover..

    On March 30, 2011 at 8:31 am


    lol im going through al of this.. i like the last two and it works is hard when you really like the person and theres nothing you rather do then be wih her all the time but you dont wana get tired of eachother too quick..and im never 100% direct with compliments i allways make her work for them ;) .. is quite fun and it sounds a bit bad but jealousy works with women .. i dont mean go sleep wid some1 but kinda let her know that shes not the only option.

  17. leno

    On May 5, 2011 at 8:04 am


    true, you love them but let em know u aint a push over. make em work for a it a little

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