14 Ways to Stay Happily Married

Lets look at these one by one

Respect

This perhaps is the biggest lapse that could collapse the happiness in a marriage.Every human has an ego he/she has to feed and it is a necessary evil.Always and truly respect the others feelings.When you do and when you don’t ,it automatically reflects in your actions and gets registered in the other’s mind.

Honesty and sometimes a white lie

Be truthful as far as possible …this builds the trust in the relationship and gives the confidence for one to find solace in the other’s shoulder.But wait…you can still go ahead with the small white lie like,” this color looks really good on you”, even when she is not wearing her best looking dress or you can say,”this chicken looks really good”, after having the pains taking but bad dinner he made for you.As long as the intention and attitude is right a simple white lie could go a long way in holding the bond.

Trust

Despite what your friends or your mother or your relatives think or tell you …despite how strange things situations have been lately …. the first level headed option is to approach your spouse with faith in your questions.It is basically the trust that brought you Close in to a relationship …don’t show that you have lost it even before something is really wrong.

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Give and Take

In life, a rule often applies-when you get something you have to lose something.In marriage the same works…it is only a matter of give and take.When you have to go one step down to let your spouse a step ahead ,just do it.Nothing is truly worth more than that happiness and it is only a matter of time you are going to get back double the love.

Tolerance

The only trouble in today’s world is people have lost their tolerance…towards other religions,towards other race and colors,towards other opinions,towards other way of lives and sometimes towards the other person in your life.When you are in a huge disagreement that makes you forget the love between love, think of your spouse as another human with different thoughts and tolerate their behaviour.Tolerance can reduce the anger that could bring out unnecessary words ,that sometimes one doesn’t even mean.