Many people have problems and difficulties they can’t get out of. The problems you encounter may not be really bad, but i am pretty sure you still want to get out of them so, here are some tips you might want to know.Some of the problems you may find yourself into are sometimes generated by your relationships, basically your friends. let me tell you this little story of a man who was married, had three beautiful and respectful teenagers as children, and a beautiful and well caring wife. This man had many friends who were married but had girlfriends and changed girlfriends like if they were some kind of candies with different flavors or some clothes like today i wear this boxer and tomorrow that one because the other one shrank. the man used to be well with his family before he started hanging out with his new friends who thought him into cheating on his wife telling him that they will make sure his wife never hears about that, and the result he got from that was a new baby boy.

The man’s girlfriend told him many months later that he was the father of the baby who wasn’t even born yet; he played the woman like his friend thought him and disappeared for a while, which was a big mistake because the woman went after him because she didn’t want to give birth to a boy who has no father and let him know in the future that he was a mistake and an undesired child; that women met the man’s friends where she met them the first time and asked them where their friend was and they said they didn’t know, but once she said,”You better tell me where he is before I tell your wives about your little gang of cheaters”,because she knew they always know where he is, they told her every thing about him, his address,when he was born, his wife’s name, his kids and the first time they met etc.. so the women went to his house and his wife got the door and she said,”hello!how may I help you?” and the woman answered,”show me the father of my son”. the wife was so confused that she says,”ma’am I am sorry this must be a mistake”. the woman looks at her and said, “do I look like I am crazy to you,where is he?”,the wife says,”he who?”, there she says,”Mr….. …….”, and the wife called him and asked him if he knows the woman and he was not able to say a word, but tried to hide his guilt so that his wife does not feel that something is wrong.

A few seconds went by, and the phone rang. he picked up his phone and there was one of his friends calling. his friend went straight to the point saying,”I am sorry man but she said she would tell my wife, and the man asks,”who”,he says,”the women you got pregnant”, and there it was the truth was revealed and his  wife and his girlfriend both heard it loud and clear because he felt so guilty that he was shaking when his phone rang and clicked on the speaker button by mistake. his wife left him with the kids, asked for a divorce,the man ended up lonely, but he kept hanging out with his friends,and he kept covering them and never told their wives after all this, which makes me think he had a huge brain problem.the time went by the boy was born,and they made some DNA test and found out that the baby was not his. the man felt crushed to learn that the woman was a prostitute and tried to get back with his wife who refused saying that she did not care because he already cheated on her and that the fact that the kid is not his does not change a thing.

The point of this story was to show you what kind of trouble you can find yourself in because of your relationships. it shows many ways in which his relationships lead him into troubles so, to avoid that, here are somethings you might want to know. the best type of friends you could have are the following:

• friends who do not train you to do what you know his bad
• friends who are honest
• friends who can honor the promises they have made
• friends who do not accept to cover you when you tell them you are about to do what is wrong
• friends who are responsible
• friend who are trustworthy.

Your relationships play a big role in you life. You may not be able to pick the world you want to live in or the family you want to be a part of, but the kind of friend you want to have is the one thing for which you have the absolute power and control to decide what it is going to be.