One thing I did like about the guide was that he mentioned personal hygiene. Men should always be aware of how clean, or unclean they are. He also mentioned cologne. For women, a good-smelling guy is a guaranteed turn-on (who knew it was so easy?), but overpowering cologne can kill it. Often, your own smell, combined with something small, like your deodorant or shampoo, is enough for us.

Though people often say that chivalry is dead, men with any hope of getting a girlfriend need to revive it. Open doors, offer to pay, do small things that she can do herself but will be grateful if you do for her (e.g. getting something out of the car that she forgot.)

Though it may be tough, get creative with dates. Dinner and a movie will NOT work every time. We want to feel like you are putting thought and effort into the time you spend with us. So do something exciting or new, go on a day date, or cook her dinner. Flower are also ALWAYS good.

Flash that girl across the room a smile now and then, especially if you catch her looking at you. Women don’t necessarily want to be rescued, but sometimes we want YOU to take the initiative. If we look available, maybe we are! Maybe you have a chance! Don’t be afraid to jump in.

Don’t act as someone you’re not. If you are shy, don’t be an overconfident asshole, and vice versa. If you need to talk a little bit more or tone it down, do so, but it’s just too hard and too obvious if you are playing a role the entire time. And you need to break it eventually don’t you?

Look your best; and fancy isn’t necessarily your best. Wear what you know you look good in and feel good in, as this will impress her while simultaneously giving you a confidence boost. Women want a man who looks nice but is comfortable in his clothes.

And some one-line pointers:

-Be polite
-Don’t talk about touchy subjects
-Make conversation natural- Silence isn’t always bad either
-Don’t lie about important things
-Don’t stare at her chest-look into her eyes
-Don’t criticize or be rude
-Be frank, open, and share feelings, thoughts, funny stories