Firstly what you must do is find yourself a suitable dating site there are loads out there and many will seem appealing by promising you instant success but a lot of the time its a con, other sites advertise free but really just mean free to join and look for monthly payments for using their site. After you have signed up and are at the stage of choosing your screen name pick something unique but make sure it reflects on you this is key to other users as it gives them an instant idea of what you are like, trust me they will make assumptions quick. Once that’s finished and you are writing a bit about yourself for the other users to view before contacting you, you must remember be honest and never lie as the truth will always come out my suggestion is write a rough draught stating your hobbies, goals and ambitions, likes, dislikes for example music television movies horse riding reading etc and talk a little about each one sure your profile may seem long but you can be sure to catch the attention of those who view your profile, my own personal opening would be Hi, Thanks for viewing my profile, I hope you enjoy. this is a standard opening but it is effective remember this is where you make your sales pitch to tell everyone why your unique to all the rest but remember leaving a little bit of mystery is good too!!! Also don’t over do the fancy stuff keeping it simple at times is better than going into a long story about how you saved a cat from a tree for your neighbour people don’t want to hear that. If you are asked about what your first date would be don’t be too specific as everyone differs so this is a good time to leave a bit of mystery but make sure those reading would know they would be safe too. After that you are now finished making your profile so start viewing other people and when you come across someone you want to message just start off with a little hello asking how they are and never forget to ask them about something that intrigued you in their profile but don’t come on too strong. tell them just a little bit about yourself but not in the same words as off your profile, and remember use your strengths. after this you should be flying high without a worry in the world but don’t expect the first person you message to fall in love with you it still takes time this isn’t a quick fix but merely guidelines to help you with your profile.