A Thousand and One Thoughts Before Leaving Your Husband for Good

• Your husband. Let’s face it. You might be as mad as hell with your husband right now because of what he did. Who wants to be cheated upon? Betrayed? No one and that is for sure. But did you ever think why? Maybe, you had contributed to that , too . You have your own shortcomings and you had been unaware of it. Your husband is just human, and like every human, he is bound to make mistakes. If you were on his shoe, you are going to ask for another chance, right? You don’t want your husband to  give up on you because you slipped. It is human nature to sin but  it is  humane to forgive. Are you going to throw all the things you’ve been through together to last this long into the trash bin or forget and forgive his mistakes and start anew with him and your kids?  Happiness is a choice. Either you sulk in misery and hoard grudges against your husband or choose to forgive and give your family a second chance to be happy once more.

If you’ve though about all of these, yes, leave still. Not to abandon your husband and kids but to calm yourself down. Get some fresh air,too. There’s no better therapy for a wounded heart but  prayer  to God asking for guidance and strength to overcome this trial in your marriage. When you feel like you’ve unburdened yourself and cleared your head, go back home. Talk to you husband and let him talk to you, too. Listen to him without judging him first. Who knows, you’ll get a new insight from him and be enlightened instead.  
 
Women can take care of themselves and their kids but they can take care of themselves and their kids well if there is a husband they can always count on to.