A Woman’s View of the Perfect First Date

Some woman like going to the cinema and then following onto a restaurant, some woman like to go out for a drink and have a chat. The point that I’m trying to make here is that every single woman is different. There isn’t any one way of pleasing us. Some woman like men to be spontaneous, some woman like their men to be romantic and shower them with flowers, and other woman simply like to have a partner that will listen to them.

For a first date to be ‘perfect’ you need to know a little bit about the woman you’re taking out, like her interests for example, or what she gets up to with her girlfriends. Find out if she likes wine, if so; take her to a wine bar. Or you find out if she wants to see the latest film, just make sure that you pay attention to the film so that you can chat about it afterwards. Just don’t lavish us with loads of expensive gifts; it makes us feel as if you are trying to buy our affection. Believe me, a woman will let you know if she doesn’t have any intentions of seeing you again. And believe it or not, doesn’t matter what any man says to you, every woman likes to hear that she looks nice when she has made an effort, despite what you actually think of her ensemble. At the end of a first date, kiss her. Don’t overdo it; just keep it light enough to make her want more. And then bingo, you have a second date.

Any girl will tell you that she likes to feel intimacy on a date, a bit of flirty banter goes a long way, just don’t overdo it. And any guy can go on a date, its takes a man to take that date from ordinary to ‘perfect’.