Action Sammy’s Dating Tips: Avoiding Being Jealous

Ever notice that your blood begins to boil when a date goes on and on about an attractive coworker? Ever found one of your hands balled into a fist when your partner has nothing but glowing words about his/her ex?

This is because you have jealousy virus. You are easily jealousy. Relax! Many of us are. No matter how much we tell ourselves that our partners won’t wander off many of us can’t help but to have the inescapable feeling whenever a potential threat arises.  But there are ways to avoid being in a situation where your jealous side will rear its ugly head.

1. Stay away from those who are fresh out of a relationship: Under any circumstance, it is never a good idea to hook up with someone who is fresh out of a relationship. They tend to have a lot of emotional baggage and can very often still be emotionally attached to their ex’s. Even though the past relationship is over, they can still be emotionally bonded with their ex and will often talk constantly about them. If you can’t bear to hear it, these people are best avoided.
2. Stay away flirts and players:If you have undisputable proof that your new prospect is a flirt or player it’s time to say bye-bye. They will never fail at making you jealous because this is their stock-in-trade. They like knowing that you’re constantly worrying about them going astray. This is how they control you. You’ll always be jealous and obsessing over what they’re doing behind your back.
3. Build up confidence: Take steps to build up your self-confidence and self-esteem. Get involved in sports or exercise more and tone up. A new figure can be real morale boost and a jealousy beater. Dress a little nicer on dates and try to keep your partner looking at you.
4. Talk to your partner: Don’t be afraid to let your partner know that something he/she did proved hard to hold in your stomach. It is possible that he/she didn’t know it would make you jealousy. Talk it over. If your partner really cares for your feelings he/she will instantly see things through your angle and take steps to ensure that it never happens again. Communication is always the key in any relationship.