Action Sammy’s Dating Tips: Western Men and Foreign Brides

And, of course, as the internet became more widely available less than a decade later, worldwide communication improved greatly, more online dating agencies were performing foreign introductions were now open for business.  

It has long been theorized by most people that most western men who seek wives from less prosperous and developed countries do so because they want wives who are less educated and easier to control and manipulate and will wait on them hand and foot. This is absolutely untrue. While marrying a woman who will be submissive to all their needs is no doubt the primary motivation for many men marrying foreign women there are other factors involved.

As I mentioned in an earlier topic, more western women are becoming afraid of commitment. Of course, a man who wants a woman who wants commitment is going to look elsewhere. Generally, women in Asia and Latin America are ready for commitment.

Most men seeking women from those parts of the world also only want a woman with traditional family values. They don’t see themselves as marrying a weak, dumb, submissive slave girl. Besides, anybody who thinks that all Asian women are passive and timid and willing to be bossed around obviously has never been anywhere in Asia.

It has also been theorized that women from these countries who are looking for western men only want to move to a more prosperous country and ditch their new husband as soon as they have an immigration visa. There are grounds for this belief as well; indeed there have many cases of brides from poorer and more repressive parts of the world who left their husbands soon after joining them. But, again, it is wrong to think that this is always the case.

For starters, one would be surprised to find that many women from Latin America and Asia really have very little desire to leave their home countries. They think of the U.S. and Europe as decadent, violent and out-of-control societies where morals have gone completely out of the window. But they search for husbands abroad because they view western men as stronger and more chivalrous towards women than the men in their own countries.

For women from the former Soviet Union, there are many factors concerning why the women there seek husbands from the west. One main factor is the still-lingering affect that World War II, which they refer to as the Great Patriotic War, had on the male population there. Of the nearly 30 million Soviet citizens who lost their lives during the war, over half were male military servicemembers. Millions more male civilians were killed. Today, the former Soviet republics of Estonia and Ukraine, which saw some of the most gruesome land battles during the war, consistently top the list of countries with the highest ratios of women to men.

Another thing to consider is that men of the former Soviet Union have among the world’s highest suicide rates. Indeed, many of the women from the Soviet Union who join marital agencies are widows, some as young as their late-20’s. The women from the former Soviet republics are attracted to western men because they view them as healthier and stronger than the men in their countries.

Another misconception from naysayers about marriages between western men and foreign women is that they don’t last very long. However, many studies have shown that marriages between western men and foreign women actually tend to last longer than marriages between western men and western women.

Obviously, western men and most foreign women are seeking the same thing – warm, stable, loving, traditional marriages.

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