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Advice for the Heart Broken

This little guide is not much but should help those in there time of broken hearts. Or you can use the information in this guide to help you’re friends. Remember if you’re friend/loved one is ever in a time of crisis and thinks nothing will work in there lives, have them read this.

Love as we know can have its good times and its bad time. Unfortunately when it comes to it being one of those “bad” times and things don’t work out here’s some advice to help you through the mess.

  • Now if you’re one of those kind of people who are hurt real easily, the best thing I can offer right now is that you talk to someone about you’re feelings and to make sure its someone who understands what’s going on instead of them “pretending” to understand and say “awell the only thing I can do for you buddy is say get over him/her.” No that isn’t the correct way to handle things for someone sensitive. The best method so far is to talk it out don’t bottle you’re emotions up as this can lead to serious problems in the end.
  • Now for some of them people who are kind of cool about relationships or are prepared for just about anything, but in the end don’t see it coming to an end. Well the thing that I have been told and this is how I look at the relationships is simple. Love is just an obstacle in you’re life, the greater the love the greater the obstacle, you can one of two things when it comes to an end. You can one: sit there and think of what you could have done to prevent this or think of ways to get back with her or sit there and mope and/or cry about it. Or you can do the second option which would be to get you rear end over the obstacle and move on with you’re life cause there’s plenty of people out there for you so 1 girl/boy leaving you is just dust blowing in the wind. Hope this guide worked out for you if you have any questions please feel free to message me on here and I’ll respond A.S.A.P!
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  1. sean

    On July 13, 2008 at 2:24 pm

    i created this and please leave ur comments and if you like it and if you dont like my entry then leave a comment explaining why you dont or something please i love to read them.

  2. absolute

    On November 3, 2008 at 11:43 pm

    I have a pretty good life, i have great friends and a better family, but when my girl friend of 3 years dumped me it just made all those things so difficult to appreciate. I didnt do anything specific to cause it to end, she just fell out of love with me. Im now a senior in high school and i see her everyday. She was even with another guy for about a month(we have only been apart for 3) and that was more painful than anything i have ever felt. I still love her and i have not done anything to hurt her, even now i have not called her obsessively or stalked her. I have only told her how i feel and that i would do anything to get her back. It just hurts worse than anything i have ever had to endure, and the worst part is that i can do nothing to relieve the pain, momentary relief sometimes finds me but that is only when im playing hockey or if i can somehow become so absorbed in something that i forget her, even if it is only for a moment. I know i need to move on but part of me doesn’t want to stop loving her, part of me won’t allow me to let her go. I just dont know what to do, i have done all i can and now i suppose i just have to wait. I would really appreciate any additional advice you might have for me, idk if there is anything else for me to do but any advice would be welcome- absolute

  3. amy

    On February 1, 2009 at 8:59 pm

    ive just broke up with my bf and i really cant handle my feeling towards him, even just for a months but i believe he is my soul mate and im really damn hurts of what he has done to me. he have been cheating to me for whole months couple with me, and im feeling so irritating knowing that, and ive found out that by myself, he just do nothing about that and keep lying again and again, really i cant forget about him even there is too much thing ive done to forget him but that just useless. help me..

  4. sarah

    On February 11, 2009 at 7:50 pm

    well thing is,im happy with the way lifes taking me and the way things are going buh is just my love life thats bringining medown all the time. i ike this uy but i cant have him because hes taken and he loves his girl ahlot. i dnt wanna com in te way but i want to erase these feeelngs so i can move and seehim as a friend, the way he sees me. but i cant ignor him or stop chatting to him because hes meat to b my bestfiend and im always trina help him out when hes had fall outs with his gir. imreally cnfused. and i dnt no wat to do ?

  5. doldrums11

    On March 20, 2009 at 4:46 am

    ei. i have this problem there’s a senior guy out there. i love him. im a sophomore student. he’ll graduate soon. what should i do? i really love him. argh. but he doesn’t likes me back. we’re friends. arghh. help me! ASAP!!! just send me a message in my yahoo messenger : zippy_z98

    thanks in advance!
    im waiting anytime!

  6. Her

    On May 19, 2009 at 12:17 pm

    ive been with this boy for 10 months and the first 4months were great weve had out ups and downs But I am totally in love with him that i cant handle my feelings but its just come to the point were he is ignoring my calls not phoning me at all we go weeks on end without seeing each other and my stress levels have got so bad that ive turned from 11 stone to anorexic im stuck every one is telling me to just play him at his own game and not ring him and then he should contact me but i just dont beleive that he will and im hurting so much i dont know what to do accept and advise from any one x

  7. adam

    On May 28, 2009 at 10:21 am

    well lifes been pretty good so far i love my family nd friends so much there the best but i went to this youth club nd this girl got my number off my friend nd we started texting ive seen her a few times nd today i felt great but when i went onto i seen a comment on her friends page saying thats she likes my best friend. then i wrote in my blog that i like a girl nd i was asking 4 advice. as soon as she seen it she new it was her nd texted her friend a guy wrote in his blog saying that he likes me but i dnt like him. my heart just sunk down to the pit of my stomach i was crying i didnt understand y did she get my number? im still very confused nd shes the only girl i think im in love with. As im only 13 ive never experienced such a bad blow my stomach hurts nd i dont know what to do plz help

  8. sean

    On June 25, 2009 at 11:18 pm

    I created this…Some of you young ones will think that the girl you spent 3 years with and whatever is your soulmate then up and walks out the door…news flash she/he isnt ur soulamte and once you get thrown off the horse hell get your butt back on it and keep a riding. i mean your young people!! come on the only time dating TRULLY matters is when your out of highschool and by urself that way your out of the drama….another news flash about 80% of relationships end BECAUSE of drama

  9. Sharmine

    On July 14, 2009 at 11:19 am

    Honestly, I don’t want to be heartbroken again, watching every single crush I see going off with another girl..I really had a crush on this senior guy, I am freakin deeply in love wif him..I juz can’t get the courage of how I’m gonna say to him that I like him..HELP!! S.O.S

  10. coffee4sugars

    On October 5, 2009 at 8:08 pm

    my boyfriend just ‘came out’ to me two weeks before our nine year anniversary, we lived together for seven. my heart is so broken it is gone and my ribs are hollow although my stomach still makes me feel sick. i loved him from the first moment i saw him and i know it’s not his fault but i feel like i am dead girl walking i never knew you could live and be so dead. i know time heals and i am grateful he set me free instead of pretending, he tried for a while. i feel like my whole body has stretched further into the ground longer arms heavier feet etc. i hope i get better soon it’s jut life, right? i never felt so bad really truly empty because before him i was a dazzling 18 year old, things change. i hope i come out of this

  11. Linda Rose

    On June 11, 2010 at 10:32 am

    well. see theres more to just getting over people. its not easy. ive been loving this guy over the past year and weve been on and off on and offf. but each time that we are not going out it seems as if we are and every single time the only reason that we broke up is because someother girl gets into the way and he always falls for that other girl forgetting that ive been here for him over the past year. i really need to get over him because of the fact that he has hurt me so much over three times and now im stuck because I love him will everything that i have and yet hes just about the worst thing set out there for me

  12. Dakota

    On October 17, 2010 at 8:27 pm

    over the summer, i met this guy, we never dated but we might as well have. everything was going so perfectly. we fell in love, head over heals for eachother but then his ex came back into his life a few months after we met. things ended just like that, left me high and dry for someone else. now i cant get over him. all i keep thinking is how well he is doing with her. its the worst pain ive ever felt. ive never let anyone break me before. its not fair that he gets to be completey happy with someone and erase me from his life, while i am left alone and heartbroken. and now i dont know what to do. any advice? </3

  13. RICH

    On November 1, 2010 at 7:30 am

    this is a message of advice from someone who had there heart broken by a girl, all good things must come to an end you must accept that life will drive you apart for example im 23 and my gf was 18 i was joining the marines and she was getting ready for university all i could think about most of the time was doing my excercise i mean the royal marines commandos have to be very fit so i was excercising 5 times a week i wasnt eating junk food i was on my game trouble was my gf wanted to enjoy such things especially alcohol which was a no fly zone for me at the time but i made the effort to go to festivals with her up to my training and had the odd beer the point is your young and youve got your careers ahead of you such things as these are DISTRACTIONS and thats what you need to get over a heart break meet new people, join clubs like sports ones, go to the gym feel good about yourself also make contact and keep your friends close there the ones who’ll get you through it understand its a process and itll take time.

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